1998 In May, Warren Buffett and Bill Gates, the richest men in the world, were invited to give speeches in Washington.
Morgan, Warren and Gates actually said a famous saying of Heraclitus: Character is fate. His success has also been fully proved by this famous saying. A person's personality characteristics will determine his communication relationship, marriage choice, living condition, career choice, success or failure of starting a business and so on. Solve his life's fate fundamentally. If a person is compared to a building, then personality is the steel skeleton of the building, while knowledge and learning exclude the concrete in the skeleton. The steel skeleton determines how high the building is built, whether it is a towering skyscraper or a low and simple building, and the personality determines whether a person's life is full of tragedy, mediocrity or merits, which makes people admire. The fate of life depends largely on environment or opportunity, so how to explain the decisive role of personality? Some researchers have explained that the environment frames the possible range of a person's life experience, and his personality determines his response to various possible experiences. Different personalities have different ways of responding to life experiences. Relatively speaking, the same environment has different meanings, thus becoming essentially different experiences and destinies.
See if people around us are performing human tragicomedy of success and failure every day? All success or failure, opportunities are important, but they are rooted in ourselves-our hearts, or personality.
It is not easy to know people, nor is it easy to know talents. It is interesting to record the ancient people's descriptions of people's personality characteristics in China's history books. Understanding these descriptions will help us identify talents, apply for jobs and communicate with people in modern society.
The Three Kingdoms says that Cao Cao was alert and resourceful when he was a teenager. Please comment on the celebrity Xu Shao, who gave him eight words: "A competent minister in charge of the world, a traitor in troubled times." Cao Cao laughed at this.
During the Warring States Period, Fan Ju entered Qin and commented on Wei Ran, the prime minister of Qin at that time: "He is good at calculation and suspicious." . Knowing Wei Ran's character, Fan Ju was able to avoid his pursuit, went to Qin Jin to meet the King of Qin, and was reused, replacing Wei Ran as Qin Xiang.
Of course, there are many personality characteristics, such as willfulness and revenge. Twenty-five years of history is endless.
However, it must be noted that seeking talents and using them, and selecting talents and selecting teachers are two-way choices. Those who seek talents must have the heart to accommodate and respect talents in order to get the talents in the world and use them; Users must choose people who can really play their talents. In order to achieve the hero's useful purpose.
There are many stories: Chen Sheng's exposure of the righteous and the overthrow of the tyrannical Qin Dynasty are models of peasant uprisings in past dynasties. However, despite his ambition, there is no room for criticism. In the past, his fellow villagers came to visit him, but he couldn't stand talking about his past and killing innocent companions. Since then, everyone in the department has been chilling and distrustful of him, and finally went to failure.
Character determines fate, and temperament changes life. We stand between heaven and earth. We have no ability to change this society or others. The only thing we can do is to change ourselves. Change yourself to adapt to this society, adapt to this world, and be the most perfect self.