Yan Zhitui's famous sayings:
1. Habits of idleness lead to laziness, and habitual laziness leads to illness.
2. People have obstacles and lose their prime years; just like studying late, don’t give up.
3. Accumulating tens of millions of wealth is nothing more than studying.
4. Living with good people is like entering a house filled with orchids, which will smell fragrant for a long time; living with evil people is like entering a house filled with abalone, which will smell bad for a long time.
5. Being clever and hypocritical is not as good as being sincere.
6. Time is a pity, just like passing water, you should learn about the secrets to help your achievements.
7. If you see the wise, you will not be confused; if you listen to the wise, you will not be confused.
8. I wake up at night and regret what I lost yesterday.
9. Those who do not cultivate themselves but seek to be famous in the world will have a very ugly appearance and blame their beautiful shadows in the mirror.
10. Food is the most important thing for the people. Without food, the people will not survive.
11. Don’t be greedy for power in your marriage.
12. One out of ten people in the world give up because of difficulties, and nine out of ten people give up because of laziness.
13. Life should not be spared, but should not be cherished. Traveling on a dangerous and fearful road, doing troublesome things, being greedy and hurting lives, being slanderous and leading to death, this is what a gentleman cherishes; practicing sincerity and filial piety and seeing a thief; performing righteousness and offending, losing one's life and one's whole family, and losing one's body. To help the country, a gentleman will not take blame
Yan Zhitui’s thoughts on family education:
(1) Family education should be carried out as early as possible.
(2) Love and teaching must be combined.
(3) We must pay attention to practical education that adapts to the current world.
(4) Cultivate an open-minded and diligent learning attitude.
Excerpts from the famous sayings of ancient Chinese educator Yan Zhitui
Yan Zhitui (531-about 595), courtesy name Jie, Han nationality, Langxie Linyi (now Linyi, Shandong) people. An ancient Chinese writer and educator who lived from the Northern and Southern Dynasties to the Sui Dynasty. Yan Zhitui authored "Yan's Family Instructions", which had an important influence on the history of the development of family education. It is an important prose work in the late Northern Dynasties; "Guan Wo Sheng Fu" contained in the biography of "Book of Northern Qi" is also a famous piece of fu.
Yan Zhitui's famous sayings:
1. Habits of idleness lead to laziness, and habitual laziness leads to illness.
2. People have obstacles and lose their prime years; just like studying late, don’t give up.
3. Accumulating tens of millions of wealth is nothing more than studying.
4. Living with good people is like entering a house filled with orchids, which will smell fragrant for a long time; living with evil people is like entering a house filled with abalone, which will smell bad for a long time.
5. Being clever and hypocritical is not as good as being sincere.
6. Time is a pity, just like passing water, you should learn about the secrets to help your achievements.
7. If you see the wise, you will not be confused; if you listen to the wise, you will not be confused.
8. I wake up at night and regret what I lost yesterday.
9. Those who do not cultivate themselves but seek to be famous in the world will have a very ugly appearance and blame their beautiful shadows in the mirror.
10. Food is the most important thing for the people. Without food, the people will not survive.
11. Don’t be greedy for power in your marriage.
12. One out of ten people in the world give up because of difficulties, and nine out of ten people give up because of laziness.
13. Life should not be spared, but should not be cherished. Traveling on a dangerous and fearful road, doing troublesome things, being greedy and hurting lives, being slanderous and leading to death, this is what a gentleman cherishes; practicing sincerity and filial piety and seeing a thief; performing righteousness and offending, losing one's life and one's whole family, and losing one's body. To help the country, a gentleman will not take blame
Yan Zhitui’s thoughts on family education:
(1) Family education should be carried out as early as possible.
(2) Love and teaching must be combined.
(3) We must pay attention to practical education that adapts to the current world.
(4) Cultivate an open-minded and diligent learning attitude.
Famous sayings about family education
1. The child’s grandparents may only have some limited educational experience, and these limited educational experiences cannot be used due to the pampering and indulgence of the grandparents. use.
2. Parents can only keep making progress and gain the admiration and respect of their children through their own personality strength.
Jiang Jing
3. The children of the poor become masters early, but we must be wary of people who are poor and have short ambitions.
4. All dandy children are rich children, although not all rich children are dandy children. Since ancient times, heroes have suffered many hardships, and there have always been few great men.
5. Whoever can make a child move like a rabbit and be as quiet as a virgin has mastered the secret of education.
6. Whoever allows children to be assertive yet know how to compromise, who is both courageous and yet obedient has blocked the key to education.
7. If parents want to cultivate a healthy personality in their children, they must create a relaxed and harmonious family.
8. It is best for parents to learn to teach themselves before taking on the role of home education.
9. Preschool education should pay more attention to the development of good habits in children.
10. At home, parents and children should try to maintain an equal status and seek their children's opinions when something happens.
11. Parents should prepare a notepad to record what happened with their children, or the confusion caused by the problems they discovered. The process of regular recording is actually a simple process of self-reflection.
12. Parents should not do everything for them and deprive their children of their ability to take care of themselves.
13. Beating and scolding cannot solve children’s educational problems, but can only vent parents’ impatience.
14. Parents should not place all their education on schools and teachers, because children spend half of the year at home, so family education is as important as school education, or even more important.
15. Children’s picky eating starts when their parents talk about which food is not delicious.
16. When parents are confused about their children’s education, they can try to consult teachers, neighbors or education experts.
17. Young Chinese parents will spend thousands of yuan to learn to drive or send their children to training institutions, but they rarely participate in family education training themselves.
18. If you follow the above twenty family education maxims, you will definitely become an outstanding child.
19. A good personality is better than excellent intelligence.
20. Babies’ emotions are a reflection of their understanding of the world.
21. Talent is like natural flowers and trees, they need to be pruned.
22. The education of children cannot only focus on intelligence and scores, because what determines success or failure in life or happiness and pain is often not the level of knowledge, but the health level of the personality. Behavioral habits affect the development of personality. One of the key factors.
23. A behavior repeatedly forms a habit, a habit repeatedly forms quality, and quality changes destiny.
24. Good habits are the capital stored by children, which will continue to increase in value, and people will enjoy its interest throughout their lives.
25. Only if parents and teachers develop good educational habits can your children or students form good habits.
26. 80% of children’s bad habits are formed at home.
27. Parents must remember that emotional education is always greater than moral education during family education.
28. Cultivating the kind of person a child will become in the future is always more important than the child’s current grades.
29. Parents should give their children space to grow freely, guide them in the wrong direction, and encourage them in the right direction.
30. Loving children does not necessarily mean understanding them. Only by becoming friends with children can education be effective.
31. For children, life is a school, and every plant and tree can become an object of research and exploration.
32. Children’s learning is all-round and is not limited to reading, writing, arithmetic and various skills.
33. Too much haste and slowness in education will destroy the normal psychological development of children.
34. In any industry, the first step to success is to become interested in it, especially in early childhood learning.
35. Education must start with psychological exploration of children’s interests and habits.
36. While educating their children, parents are also educating themselves.
37. Parents are natural teachers. They have the greatest influence on children, especially young children.
38. Stimulating children’s desire for knowledge and learning is far more meaningful than the limited knowledge of the church.
39. Parents cannot accompany their children for a lifetime, so they must cultivate their children's social awareness and independence from an early age.
40. Before reaching the age of reason, children cannot accept concepts, but can only accept images.
41. The process of parents educating their children is also a process of continuous perception and learning.
42. The art of education does not lie in imparting skills, but in awakening and inspiring.
43. The way to maximize a person's ability is to appreciate and encourage him.
44. Parents are the earliest teachers of their children’s words and deeds in life.
45. Children’s rationality is constantly growing. Don’t feed them, but guide them.
46. As long as parents are good at utilizing it, every detail in life can be used to educate their children.
47. Learning in life is the most effective learning method for young children.
48. Character building begins in infancy.
49. If you really love your child, you should send him out to sea to experience the storm.
50. The lack of distinction between imagination and display makes it easy for children to integrate into story situations and receive education from them.
51. Guide children to tell stories at the right time. This is an excellent way to keep their minds active.
52. Combining the meaning of fairy tales and guiding children to think and explore is more profound than simply reasoning.
53. Simple and concise fairy tales often contain rich knowledge and profound truths.
54. Parents should gradually cultivate the habit of independent thinking and solving problems in their children, and thus build their children's confidence.
55. The main skill in teaching children is to turn what children should do into a game.
56. A person’s success = 1IQ (intelligence quotient) 99EQ (emotional quotient)).
57. Maternal love is the most sacred emotion in the world, and it should be because this emotion is the least mercenary.
58. Children as young children contain infinite possibilities that need to be explored and guided by parents.
59. Only when teachers and parents coordinate, can a joint force in education be formed.
60. Rich imagination is more important than book knowledge.
61. In the world of children, everything has thoughts and feelings just like people.
62. Consistency in exercise is important, and moderation in diet is important.
63. Although children make small toys by themselves, although rough, they are far happier than getting ready-made exquisite toys.
64. Without consideration and trust, there is no friendship.
65. All education starts from our understanding of children’s nature.
66. Parents are the first school for children to learn about the world and gain knowledge.
67. In addition to being patient, educating young children also requires methods and techniques.
68. Children’s humor is the most natural and frank human language, which requires parents to discover and understand it carefully.
69. There are hardships and joys in the parenting process.
70. No friend can compare with health, and no enemy can compare with disease.
71. Diseases can be cured only by prescribing the right medicine.
72. The task of family education is, first of all, for parents to educate parents to learn.
73. Liu Lianghua’s 100 family education mottos.
74. The main factor that affects children’s performance is not the school, but the family. Family education is the root and foundation of human growth. It is Bacon education.
75. If there is a problem with family education, the child may have a harder time at school, and the child is likely to become a problem child in the school.
76. The responsibility of parents is to provide their children with two inheritances: one is innate inheritance. One is acquired inheritance. Educators can be optimistic about education, but not so optimistic that genetics is not considered. The ugly duckling turned into a white swan, mainly not because the ugly duckling studied hard, but because the ugly duckling's mother laid a goose egg instead of a duck egg.
77. Corporal punishment is a kind of primitive education consisting of simple sticks and swear words, which is extremely detrimental to the physical and mental growth of children. Xu Chuanli
78. After a child is born, the parents’ responsibility is to allow the child to receive as good a genetic inheritance as possible. Paying attention to acquired inheritance means providing a family environment suitable for children's growth, and elevating the importance of family environment to a level similar to genetics.
79. For children, the family environment is similar to the mother’s womb. The mother's womb is the child's first palace, and the family environment is the child's second palace.
80. Let children experience the suffering of others in difficult places, let them help others to the best of their ability, and thereby gain a sense of accomplishment and self-identity. The only way to change a child's bad habit of giving up on himself is to let him face the suffering of others and let him provide the best help he can to the suffering person.
81. When parents care about their children’s sexual health, they give their children a lifetime of happiness. Marvin Society
82. Let children experience the embarrassment and pain of being powerless when helping others. Let the child want to help others but be unable to do so, thereby stimulating his desire for self-improvement, making himself stronger and growing up responsibly so that he can help more others in the future.
83. Give the innocent and happy childhood back to the children, preserve and enrich the children's ability to feel, it is nature's greatest gift to mankind, and it is the child's lifelong wealth! Zhen Shitian
84. There are two critical periods in a child's growth. The first critical period is around the age of 3. Around the age of 3 is a critical period for a child's intelligence and personality development; the second critical period is around the age of 13, which is a critical period for a child's youth development and independent life. If parents take advantage of the critical period of their children's growth, their future education will go smoothly. If you miss the critical period of growth, you will have endless troubles.
85. Only by putting into practice what they have learned can children truly grow up. Gu Xin
86. The first mission of parents is to provide a good family environment for their children. There is not much that parents have to do, as long as they provide and maintain a good family environment for their children. To be a good parent is to be a family environmentalist. If the family environment is good, the children will be good; if there is a problem in the family environment, the children will become problem children. Sometimes, when a child is sick, it is not the child who needs medicine, but the parents.
87. If you look at your children from a different perspective, you will see their strengths and growth points. Shi Jinlin
88. Don’t let your children be born prematurely, and don’t let your children enter school too early. The child cannot be born prematurely, because the child needs to be adequately protected in the mother's womb, so that the fetus has sufficient resistance before going out to interact with others outside. Children cannot enter school too early, because children need to receive adequate protection from the family so that they can have sufficient self-care and self-study skills before going out to interact with others outside. According to traditional Chinese medicine, keep your energy in mind and avoid evil.
89. A person who loves his parents will be able to love others, life, and the world better in the future. Zhao Jingbo
90. School education always attaches great importance to students' knowledge learning and stands on the knowledge-based side; family education must stand on the character-body-oriented side and pays more attention to the child's character and body. What belongs to the family belongs to the family, and what belongs to the school belongs to the school. Give to God what is God’s, and to Caesar what is Caesar’s.
91. Mental abuse is a comprehensive destruction of a child’s self-esteem and self-confidence. Zhang Jianhe
92. The standard of a good character is a civilized spirit, the standard of a good body is a barbaric body, and the standard of a good study is self-study.
93. Effective learning is edge learning, and ineffective learning is focus learning. There is a problem with the child's learning, but the cause lies in the child's emotions or body. Parents directly instruct their children to learn, just like a gardener throwing water and nutrients directly to the withered leaves.
94. Academic performance is the tip of the iceberg of human growth. Below the iceberg is a person’s character and body. Character and body are the two fulcrums of academic performance.
95. Human growth follows the law of diminishing potential. If a child is born with 100-degree potential and is given an ideal education from the age of 0, he may grow into a person with 100-degree ability; if he is educated from the age of 5, even if the education is excellent, he will only be able to Have 80 degree ability; if you start education from the age of 10, you can only have 60 degree ability at best. That is to say, the later education starts, the less children's abilities are realized. Kimura Kuichi
96. Poverty is an educational resource, and wealth is another higher-level educational resource. More advanced educational resources require more advanced educational skills. Without advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to their children's growth.
97. Cultivated parents always begin to patiently seek their children’s opinions when they are very young. Educated parents are Voltaireans: I don’t agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.
98. A successful education is like a tiger father with no sons; a failed education is like a strong mother and a weak son. Educated parents always regard cultivating self-care ability and self-learning ability as the top priority in educating their children.
99. The secret to letting children support themselves is to provide them with freedom of choice. Free choice leads to self-responsibility. If a child loses the right to make free choices, and if what he does is completely forced and ordered by others, then the child will learn to cope and perfunctory.
100. As parents, we must try to win the heartfelt respect of our children. Jiang Jing
101. Understand and appreciate children’s strengths and let them feel a sense of accomplishment based on their strengths. Let the children be inspired by their sense of accomplishment and be full of ambition and enthusiasm.
102. Strictly manage children around the age of 3 and be their children’s parents; gradually let go around the age of 13 and be their children’s friends. Effective education is strict first and then loose. Ineffective education is first loose and then strict. Effective motivation is from 5 to 9, and ineffective motivation is from 9 to 5.
103. Children need companions to grow. Only children can understand children, and only children’s companions can accompany children as they grow. Children never expect behemoth adults to understand them, and children never regard condescending adults as their friends. Parents can be an only child, but they cannot let their children grow up alone. If there are neither siblings nor partners, the only child will fall into double loneliness: not only the only child, but also the only one to grow up.
104. Successful family education comes from parents’ in-depth understanding of their children, acceptance and respect of their children, rather than exposing their children’s shortcomings. Lu Bin
105. Mencius’s mother moved three times, and Rousseau took Emile to the countryside. Before the child has developed mature rationality and judgment, do not allow the child to have too many partners, and be wary of the child getting into the bad habits of his peers.
106. No matter how successful the parents are, if the children’s education fails, the whole life will fail.
107. Good parents watch over their children and allow their children to grow up proactively; bad parents do things for their children and allow their children to grow up passively.
108. A good mother treats her son as a friend, and a bad mother treats her son as a lover.
109. There are two most difficult things for human beings: one is how to rule others; the other is how to educate others. Kant (Kant)
110. If you want to be healthy, you must avoid hunger and cold. It is forbidden to eat snacks before meals so that children can feel hungry enough. Wretched is the man who cannot drink the nectar from a crude barrel. Let your children eat as little sweets as possible, such as candies and chocolates. Children who eat sweets without restraint will be in bad health and their character will not be much better. There is no need to let your children wear heavy clothes. Children are not as afraid of the cold as adults.
111. For a child who is a little more sensible, you can give him a look or some hint and maintain temporary silence. This will often achieve the effect of silence being better than sound at this time. Lu Bin
112. Call for peace with your mouth, but you must have a big stick in your hand. Successful family education always allows the child to have one or several favorite and most awe-inspiring people around him.
113. Controlling eating and sleeping is suitable for domesticating pets, but not suitable for educating children.
114. The work of nannies should be respected, and labor is sacred, but the responsibility of educating children should not be shied away from nannies.
115. Poverty is an important educational resource, and the children of the poor will become the masters of their families early.
116. Parents who make a living must let their children experience the hard work and bitterness of their parents' labor.
117. Earning-making parents should not feel guilty about their children because they go out to work, and they should not tolerate their children's mischief out of guilt.
118. Working parents must let their children develop the ability to take care of themselves and learn independently as early as possible due to their parents’ supervision. The most protective parents are Sun Wukong’s parents. Well-educated parents are like Sun Wukong's parents: let their children remove obstacles by themselves, let their children experience hardships by themselves, let their children experience difficulties by themselves, and only come to their children's side when they really can't solve the difficulties after working hard.
119. For older children, parents can whisper to them. Most children are willing to accept this gentle education method. Lu Bin
120. Business parents must have one person to accompany their children at home, or hire a tutor for their children.
121. If both career-oriented parents are unable to accompany their children, they must find suitable professionally trained tutors for their children instead of simply handing them over to grandparents or nannies.
122. Let the child play the game of self-reliance, let the child leave his parents and go to a place of suffering: if he does not work, he will starve to death. The only way to change the bad habit of children getting something for nothing is to let the children temporarily leave their parents.
123. Insect-infested dates turn red early, and sick children mature early. Intellectual prodigies often come at the expense of character and physical growth.
124. An approving look, a knowing smile, and an approving nod can convey true encouragement and express praise to a child. Zhang Shiping
125. Taking your children to travel, climb mountains, go to the park, or go to the movies is the most appropriate way to praise your children. Zhang Shiping
126. The good emotional atmosphere of parents and the harmonious living atmosphere of the family are the environmental foundation for cultivating children's healthy psychology. Lu Bin
127. In the long run, the relationship between parents in the family also affects to a certain extent whether children can establish true love with someone of the opposite sex in the future, and what kind of love they choose. family lifestyle. Ma Wenhui
128. If you want your children to become talented, parents must not let things take their own course, let nature take its course, and let nature take its own course! Xiao Yu
129. Appreciating children must have limits, and punishing children must be measured and clear methods of operation are required. Ringer
130. When a child makes a mistake, it is necessary to punish him appropriately, but it must be done on the premise of respecting the child's personality and maintaining the child's self-esteem. Ringer
131. When punishing a person, the most important thing is to awaken the person's self-esteem and self-confidence: I am a real person, an excellent person, I should be punished when I am wrong, and I accept punishment for the better. Be a human being. Ringer
132. When we praise our children, we should be eclectic and appropriate to the situation and circumstances, so as to fully demonstrate the true charm of praise. Zhang Shiping
133. Wang Shouren, a thinker of the Ming Dynasty, said: Most children are happy to play and play, but afraid of frugality, just like the beginning of grass sprouting, if it is relaxed, it will be organized, if it is scratched, it will decline wilt.
134. Some parents reward their children with money for their children's academic progress. This is tantamount to bribery and is extremely wrong.
Dongfang
135. Considering long-term interests, it is not a bad thing to let children know a little sorrow and experience a little hardship from an early age. This may be more beneficial to cultivating children's endurance and will, and to their healthy growth. . Dongfang
136. The result of parents having too high expectations for their children is often counterproductive. East
137. Our education is to save students from obedient and standardized education and restore students' free thinking nature. Miao Tijun
138. Leave students’ thinking space to themselves. Of course, teachers should also provide strong guidance in this regard. Mr. Miao Ti
139. The long feudal society cultivated obedient people and stifled the most dynamic innovative spirit in the Chinese nation. Miao Tijun
140. A child’s heart is as pure as a blank sheet of paper. It is easy to be influenced by truth, goodness and beauty, but also easily contaminated by falsehood, ugliness and evil. Zhang Yuyi
141. Let the children enjoy the joy of fighting in the wind and rain, and let the children continue to grow and mature in the temper of life. Zhang Shiping
142. Let your child suffer a little, and he will feel the sweetness of life. Xue Canzhi
143. In the process of children's growth, there is nothing more important than making them confident. Yuan Qu
144. In early education, children’s rich and keen perceptual abilities and desires in early life should be cherished and preserved, and children’s minds should not be prematurely intellectualized, that is, abstracted, book-oriented, symbolization). Zhen Shitian
145. The best way to preserve and enrich children's sensibilities is to put them in nature and let them pay attention to the world around them. Zhen Shitian
146. It is necessary to take children to break out of the narrow circle of their lives and go to nature to feel the vitality and happiness of life. Zhen Shitian
147. We should consciously let our children experience some abnormal environments, such as violent storms and flying snow. Zhen Shitian
148. If couples have different views on raising children, it will make the children Being unable to distinguish right from wrong is not conducive to the cultivation of his good character. Zhao Xiuduo
149. Squat down and listen to your children more often, and what you will see is an innocent and innocent world! Ruan Gengmei
150. Suffering is like calcium in a child’s growth process, it is an indispensable spiritual nutrition. Li Hao
151. Cultivating children’s strong and optimistic psychological character can provide them with a powerful fulcrum for their future lives. Li Hao
152. Debate is an extremely important way for children to reach the peak of intelligence. Narcissus
153. For children, a parent is a living person, a role model, and a hero that they can see and touch. Zhang Haitao
154. Teaching children to repay is a lesson that parents cannot miss in their parenting responsibilities, and it is also the basis for children to be accepted by society in the future. Gaoshan
155. In the process of raising children, the elderly should grasp the scale of educating their children, neither being offside nor being a vase for decoration. Li Xu
156. I like children, but I don’t dote on them. Li Xu
157. Education in the new era always has new requirements. Learn as much educational nutrition as possible from books or magazines. Only in this way can ancestors play an active role in intergenerational education, benefiting their grandchildren and themselves. Li Xu
158. The ultimate goal of education is to meet the needs of human self-development, and early education is no exception. Zhen Shitian
159. When spiritual emotions are underdeveloped and direct impression accumulation is poor, formalistic mastery of a large amount of knowledge will inevitably lead to atrophy of human feelings. Zhen Shitian
160. Every parent who is responsible for the future of their children should firmly remember this very important parenting principle. Doing what they can for their children is the biggest blow to their enthusiasm. Blue Sky
161. Incompetent people cannot cultivate talented people. Famous teachers produce talented students. Parents must constantly improve and enrich themselves. Only by being tireless in learning can we be tireless in teaching. Zhao Xiuling
162. When parents criticize their children, please save some face for them.
Lu Bin
163. A person may be poor, but he can feel the richness of life in a poor material life. Zhen Shitian
164. A person may be very rich, but if he loses his soul, loses his rich ability to feel and becomes insensitive), he will probably not truly enjoy the joy of life! Zhen Shitian
165. Consciously let children pay attention to the beginning and end of some things, such as the first bunch of flowers and the last leaf on the branch, the first swallow flying in the sky and the last swallow flying south. The first rain, the first snow, dawn and sunrise, moonset and dusk, as long as you have time, nature will always be the best book for children! Zhen Shitian
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