I hope every girl can marry for love instead of comparing the suitability over and over again. This sentence originally came from a very popular article 2 years ago. Recently it has become popular again on a short video platform and has become a wise saying in the hearts of many older leftover women.

However, love and marriage are two different concepts. Love comes from sensibility, you can be full of love! Marriage depends on reason, and you have to face the daily necessities of life.

So, if you enter marriage with love as the only criterion, the hardships in life can easily consume your relationship. Similarly, if you only enter a marriage based on suitability as the only criterion, your marriage will easily be defeated by the mediocrity in life.

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She is an older leftover girl who is still left empty-handed on the road of choosing a mate. She often told us that marriage is like wearing shoes. No matter how gorgeous and favorite shoes are, they are meant for walking. Only the right shoes can make you comfortable and allow you to walk a longer distance.

One day, a relative introduced her to a blind date. The man's conditions are good, both in terms of family background, education, height and appearance, and he looks very suitable. When she went on a blind date, she looked full of admiration, but when she came back, she looked depressed!

She said that the man was very good, mature and steady. But she didn't like him the first time she saw him. No matter how hard she tried to convince herself, she still didn't like him! She said, let alone getting married and having children with him, I would not even want him to lay a finger on me.

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This is a story I heard. The girl was born rich, and her father was doing business outside all year round. The girl loves to cry, and her mother keeps telling her all day long that if she cries again, the police will come and take her away. Then the girl stopped crying.

Later the girl grew up and fell in love with a policeman. The policeman was born in an ordinary family and his family background was not good. The two have been in love for six years, and their families have been quarreling for six years. They quarreled about buying a house, quarreling about betrothal gifts, and even quarreling about banquets. Finally, when the police got tired, he chose to return to his normal life and married another girl.

On the day of his wedding, the girl sat quietly at home, smiled and asked her mother, do you think if I cry now, will the police come back and take me away? The story makes people want to cry, but around us, there are many similar peacock women and phoenix men whose love died due to the inappropriateness of reality.