Do married women need security? You still need a sense of security after marriage, and we also need to know where your sense of security comes from after marriage.

First, it comes from the goodwill between husband and wife.

We've all heard a saying that relationships that don't aim at marriage are hooligans. A good relationship between two people is the basis for entering a marriage and the greatest guarantee for a marriage. Marriage without love is fragmented. Even if it can be maintained at present, it will inevitably lead to the ending of "mutual dislike, strange bedfellows" after a long time.

Marriage without love exists in name only, and this kind of marriage will usually go wrong in the end, because your feelings are not answered in marriage. Moreover, a deep emotional foundation will make both parties feel at ease, and the other party will always keep you in mind, without suspicion, doubt, blx and carelessness, so that the marriage will be happy. So in my opinion, deep feelings are the greatest sense of security in marriage.

Second, it is not limited by economic conditions.

Many people say that when they are in love, they either give me a lot of money or give me a lot of love. Love and money are both necessary conditions for marriage.

Now, but unlike those people who used to be poor together, as we all know, the economic conditions are relatively affluent, so two people will not quarrel over trifles. Money can give you too much security in marriage. For example, if two people quarrel, they can spend money to buy expensive gifts for each other. If they are too tired to do housework at work, they can pay hourly workers. If they don't want to affect the relationship between husband and wife because who has more children, they can ask for a gold medal. If you want to make each other happy, you can often buy gifts for each other's parents and relatives. If one parent is sick, the other parent can spend money to find the best hospital and invite the best experts.

Money can solve too many problems, and many quarrels between husband and wife are also because of money. Therefore, there is a sense of security in marriage, and only money can give it.

Third, it comes from the balance of strength between the two sides.

A good marriage must grow together, and at least two people should not be too different. There is a classic saying in Jane Eyre: too strong opponents make people tired, and too weak opponents make people tired. Only when our own strength matches each other's strength can we have enough self-confidence and security to better protect our marriage. For example, I am a girl who looks plain and doesn't work hard and has a bad personality. Even if I give you a rich second-generation boyfriend with high sunshine, are you confident to stay?

The above belongs to me? Some personal suggestions and ideas, if you have better ideas, you can comment at the bottom of the article. If my answer can satisfy you, I hope you like collecting and commenting. .