Recently, I am also learning to cultivate my emboldened. The following is the best information I have found and I will share it with you! I hope it helps you! The so-called bottom spirit is a stream of righteousness, heroism, talent and courage from the heart.
It is often said that a certain leading cadre is confident in speaking and doing things, which means that he is confident in speaking and doing things, and has the ability to complete a certain task or achieve a certain goal.
if you are lacking in confidence, you will be hesitant and indecisive; With sufficient confidence, you can be confident and capable and decisive.
is there enough confidence to show the personality and work style of leading cadres?
where do leading cadres come from? It comes from the rich accumulation of knowledge, experience and ability, from the constant tempering of thought, character and will, and from the hard work, hard work, hard work and concentrated practice.
If a person is well-read and knowledgeable, instead of sitting in the well and watching the sky, he can take the overall situation into consideration, conform to the general trend, treat people and things in a different way, and form his own unique and profound opinions. If a person struggles hard, takes pleasure in suffering, and doesn't covet comfort, he won't retreat and make a detour when he encounters difficulties and hardships, and he will face up to difficulties and overcome difficulties when solving scratching his head. If a person is upright, upright, law-abiding, strict in self-discipline, does not engage in crooked ways, does not do things that violate the law and discipline, and faces wrong words and deeds or unhealthy trends, he can criticize with confidence and take a clear-cut stand to resist.
It can be seen that the bottom spirit of leading cadres in dealing with people means that a leading cadre has a good atmosphere of diligence and clean government, and he has full confidence in being a person or doing things.
this kind of confidence is not innate, but is cultivated bit by bit, cultivated by a little thing, and obtained from study and practice.
nowadays, knowledge is power, ability is capital, and quality is wealth.
To build an information-based army and win an information-based war, the challenges and difficulties of leading cadres at all levels in the army have obviously increased. To perform their duties well, they must have the ability to solve various complex contradictions and promote the development of their careers.
to improve the ability and quality, the most fundamental thing is to arm ourselves with scientific theory, edify ourselves with noble morality, and restrain ourselves with strict requirements, and always keep the vitality, high spirits and integrity of the * * * party members, pay attention to practice, be diligent in thinking, constantly improve the ability to understand, study and solve problems, and cultivate a pair of discerning eyes for people, time and situation.
whether leading cadres have enough "confidence" and "confidence", whether they are not afraid of evil, do not believe in ghosts, and are upright and upright in front of others depends on how their subjective world is transformed.
Bernard Shaw, an English writer, famously said, "Self-control is the instinct of the strongest.
"Li Shimin, Emperor Taizong, once said," If you want to win, it will cost you a lot of money; if you want to win, it will give you weight; if you give it weight, it will lead to people's resentment; if the country is in danger, you will lose your monarch.
I often think about this, so I dare not indulge myself.
"Leading cadres should have stronger self-control ability than ordinary people, pay attention to cultivating healthy life interest, maintain noble spiritual pursuit, resolutely resist such erroneous ideas as" power+money+beauty = life "and" capacity for drinking+courage = boundless future ",practice the socialist concept of" eight honors and eight disgraces "in an exemplary manner, and keep your mouth shut. Take care of your legs and don't run around; Take care of your hands, don't take them indiscriminately, and constantly purify the work circle, life circle and entertainment circle, so as to be an official, behave in a decent way and behave in a rude way.
To cultivate your confidence, you should "learn to be a teacher and behave like a model".
Because of their responsibilities and position, leading cadres are often in the sight of subordinates and the masses. To take care of their subordinates and the team, they must first take care of themselves and set an example.
ask people to do what they do first, and ask others not to do it for themselves. You must keep your word, do what you do, and be consistent in appearance. Only in this way can officers and men have a good reputation and the masses have high prestige.
especially on some hot and sensitive issues involving the vital interests of officers and men, we should really put the interests of officers and men first, be good at listening to the opinions of the masses, concentrate collective wisdom, and handle problems openly, fairly and justly, so as to seek justice openly and lead by example.
We should always cultivate the virtue of politics, always think about the harm of greed, always be self-disciplined, pay attention to ethics and conduct, be unshakable in the face of inducements, be unmoved in the face of money, not reach out in the face of bribes, be upright and be honest, and do things in vain. Only in this way can we do things without harming the public for selfish desires, losing our integrity for small profits, being energetic, upright as an official and being confident.
what do you mean when you talk without confidence?
confidence is essentially a breath.
but it is different from breath.
In a true sense, emboldened spirit refers to a noble and upright spirit that comes from the soul, and upright spirit extends the atmosphere, domineering and curiosity.
so as to enhance self-confidence.
Just as people see people with big bodies, they are more envious than sneering.
because of the huge body weight, the chassis is also sufficient.
isn't it just a sigh of relief? How can a person with insufficient confidence achieve great things?
How to speak makes people feel confident
Read more books to improve their language organization ability.
such as white lies, weakness of human nature and speech and eloquence are all very good.
Find the most familiar friends or classmates, look them in the eye and say anything, so as to exercise not to be timid when communicating with strangers.
and looking into each other's eyes is not only a kind of respect, but also a kind of full confidence in yourself.
I believe you can overcome the problem, come on! /
Do you have no confidence in doing things?
first, try talking to the mirror.
Look at yourself in the mirror and say it over and over again.
carefully observe your manner, even the subtle expressions on your face.
strive to see yourself, feel good and confident.
secondly, find familiar people.
try to communicate with them.
Try to speak a lot to improve your language skills.
finally, go shopping in various shopping malls and communicate with shop assistants.
Salespeople are generally experts in persuading others. If you try to communicate with them, you may learn something.
the above are just some of my humble opinions.