How to manage a good marriage relationship has become a top priority for modern people. Marriage, like work, also follows the principle of "choice is greater than effort".
Many people are unhappy in marriage because they made the wrong choice from the beginning. In this world, you may not get love if you give it, but only when you know how to love can you be truly happy.
After listening to Mr. Zhou Wenqiang's audio, I would like to share his four realms of love, hoping to help you further understand the marriage relationship.
Material love is the lowest kind of love, that is, carnal desire, which values the surface.
For example, if you love her beauty and good figure, her appearance can't stand the test of time. No matter how you maintain her aging, it is irreversible. You can always meet a more beautiful woman than her.
What about girls who are really attracted to young beauty? The result can be imagined. So, this is not true love.
If an adult can't control his instincts, what's the difference between him and an animal?
Emotional love refers to lust, and your partner may choose him because of your emotions, not your heart.
For example, if you are lovelorn and want to get through this difficult stage quickly, you can go on a blind date or find someone who has a crush on you before. During this period, he has been with you, taking you to eat delicious food, traveling together and so on. In short, he will try his best to make you happy, and you will mistakenly think that you are in love with him.
You chose to get married. It took you a long time to get over the pain of lovelorn, only to find that you don't love him anymore. It was only at that stage that you were carried away by emotions and mistakenly thought that you were in love with him.
You try to love him and keep telling yourself that he is good, but you can't do it no matter how hard you try. Such a marriage relationship is naturally very difficult.
This love refers to a person's level of thinking and material desire, and your heart falls in love with excellent material conditions.
The most typical thing is that you fall in love with the daughter of a rich man, which is very common in TV dramas. Ancient men's high school champions wanted to marry the princess for their careers, while modern men pursued the daughter of the company boss for their careers.
Such men are all poor in their own families. In order to fight for breath, face and power, even people with love in their hearts will give up decisively. When he is truly successful, he will find that his heart has always been empty, and the so-called happy marriage life is only superficial.
This is the soul mate. If you want to have a soul mate, you must have an interesting soul, and the higher self is the soul of each of us.
If you follow your soul to choose the other half, such a marriage relationship is comfortable, comfortable and happy, because your body, mind and brain are integrated and complementary.
Qian Zhongshu's marriage contains morality, emotion and interest. They become each other's soul mates and experience the best side of love.
Only you know whether the marriage is good or not. You won't do it, but you are patient. I hope you have a happy marriage and don't live together.
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