1. Ancient Chinese sayings about controlling anger

Too many words spoken when you are happy will be untrustworthy, and too many words said when you are angry will be inappropriate.

When the anger is boiling, you clearly know what you are doing and you are clearly committing the crime. If you know who it is, who is the offender? If you can suddenly change your thoughts here, the evil demon will know the true gentleman.

If you are not angry when you are angry, if you are happy or not, you can nourish your heart; if you do not interact with the worldly things, if you do not enter the world, you can establish yourself; if you do not fight for small gains, if you do not express small anger, you can be in harmony with others.

If you don’t control your anger, you can’t accept remonstrance; if you don’t do good, you can’t correct your mistakes.

Those who are officials. Take anger as a warning first. Something is wrong. It should be discussed in detail. It's bound to hit. If you get angry first. You can only harm yourself. How can it harm anyone?

Tolerant of triviality. Get used to trouble. Not happy. Not irritable. The wonderful word "tolerance" is the word "don't be excited, don't follow along". The former residence official regarded this as a virtue

Anger is like a tiger, desire is like an abyss. Anger is like fire, if not contained it will start a prairie fire. Desire is like water, if it is not contained, it will surge to the sky.

When happiness comes, take care. When anger comes, take precautions. When you are lazy, take a check.

Observe the existence of things in times of profit and loss. Observe your energy when you are hungry and tired. Observe quantity when you are happy or angry. Observe calmness in times of shock.

Big and difficult things depend on responsibility, and adversity and good times depend on tolerance. When happiness comes or anger comes, look at self-cultivation; when people walk together, they stop to see knowledge.

If talent is insufficient, the person will be too resourceful; if knowledge is insufficient, the person will be troubled; if authority is insufficient, the person will be angry; if faith is insufficient, the person will talk too much; if courage is insufficient, the person will work too hard; if knowledge is insufficient, the person will observe too much; if reason is insufficient, the person will argue too much. If it's not enough, it's too much.

Think less to nourish your heart qi, be less active to nourish your kidney qi, do not move rashly to nourish your bones, abstain from anger to nourish your liver qi, eat less to nourish your stomach qi, speak less to nourish your spirit, read more to nourish your spirit. Nourish courage and follow the seasons to nourish vitality.

Sorrow will cause Qi to be stagnant, anger will cause Qi to be reversed, fear will cause Qi to sink, oppression will cause Qi to be depressed, and anxiety will cause Qi to be exhausted.

You have to tolerate unreasonableness, you have to endure anger, you have to endure cravings.

Eliminating cravings, reducing worries, abstaining from anger, and exercising moderation in diet are all ways to maintain your health.

Those who make good use of power will not be irritated, and those who make good use of kindness will not give in vain.

Don’t accept personal favors from villains. If you do, the favor will be unrequited. Do not offend the public anger of the scholar, otherwise the anger will be irreversible.

When you are happy, express your true feelings, but when you are unhappy, be careful not to let it out. When you are angry, you will express your sadness, but no matter how good you are, you will feel ashamed.

Don’t admit people when you are happy, don’t answer people when you are angry.

Two favors will always lead to resentment, two pursuits will always be acquaintance, and two angers will always lead to disaster.

When the desire is strong, it can be cut off; when the anger is strong, it can be contained; these are all areas where learning is effective.

If a person can be pure in desire and mind, without being angry or overthinking, his blood will naturally be calm and his energy will be calm, but he will be sick and live longer.

The superior is angry and the inferior is disabled; the inferior is angry and offends the superior. If you are angry with the country, you will fight with the sun and invade. If you are angry with the family, the elders and children will mourn.

. . 2. How to say "I am very angry" in classical Chinese

1. I am so angry

Definition: I am so angry that I am so angry

2. What is my heart? Angry

Definition: I am very angry

3. Fighting for Dier with my head

Definition: I am so angry that I want to hit my head on the ground

1. Use your head to grab Dier

From: "Tang Ju Fulfills His Mission".

2. Explanation of quotes and explanations of anger:

"Book of Han Wei Xiang Zhuan": "Those who fight against each other and cannot bear anger are called angry soldiers, and those who are angry will be defeated." "The Biography of Tan Daoji in Southern History": "When Daoji was finished, he was very angry and his eyes were like torches. He drank a handful of Dendrobium. Then he took off his crotch and threw it to the ground, saying: 'This is ruining your Great Wall!'" "Zi Zhi Tong Jian· "The Second Year of the Kaiyun of the King of Qi in the Later Jin Dynasty": "The sergeants were all angry and shouted: 'Why don't we use soldiers when we are recruiting envoys and let the soldiers die?'" Ming Fang Xiaoru's "Book of Discussing the Well Field with Friends": "And Wang Mang's rebellion was not about the well field." , deceived the old mother of the Han family and took away her seal, and claimed that she was controlled in the sea. The people in the sea were angry and wanted to eat her, so she rose up because of the rebellion. Li Mu was so angry when he saw his innocent victim that he fled over the mountains and valleys in one night, and Zhao Cong couldn't stop him. "Lu Xun's "Huagai Collection·Miscellaneous Feelings": "The brave are angry and draw their swords at the stronger; the timid are angry. But he draws his blade at the weaker one.

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3. The harm of out-of-control anger:

Uncontrolled anger can harm physical health

Uncontrolled anger can harm career development

Uncontrolled anger can damage interpersonal relationships 3. Write classical Chinese essays about anger and contempt for others

This is the one by Yue Fei

When flying to filial piety, mother remains Hebei sent people to ask for a visit and welcome them back. The mother was seriously ill and the medicine and bait must be used to kiss her. The mother died and the water and slurry could not be eaten for three days. There was no concubine in the family. Wu Jiesu took a flight and was willing to have sex with her. She was named Shu Yi. Fei said: "My lord, it's midnight, will the general be happy?" "But he didn't accept it, and he respected him. He didn't drink too much. The emperor warned him and said: "You come to Heshuo at the same time, so you can drink." So he never drank. When the emperor first served as Feiying, Feici said: "The enemy has not been destroyed. , what is home for? "When someone asked when the world was at peace, Fei said: "Civil ministers do not love money, military ministers do not hesitate to die, and the world is at peace." Every time the teacher rests, the soldiers pay attention to the slope and jump in the ditch, they all practice it with armor. Ziyun tastes Zhupo , the horse stomped, and whipped them in anger. If the soldiers took a piece of hemp from the people and tied it with the cud, they would be beheaded for favor. The soldiers stayed at night, and the people opened their doors and were willing to accept them, but no one dared to enter. The military trumpet "If you freeze to death, you will not demolish the house. Hungry" If a soldier is ill, he will bow to give medicine; when generals are far away from home, they will send their wives to help their families; those who have died will weep and raise their orphans, or marry their daughters with their sons. Wherever there is a reward, all rewards will be given. As for the military officials, they are not selfish. They are good at attacking the masses with a small amount. If they want to make a move, they must summon all the commanders and planners to make a decision and then fight, so they will win but not lose. When they encounter the enemy unexpectedly, they will not move, so the enemy's words are: "It is easy to shake the mountains, but it is difficult to shake the Yue family's army." Zhang Jun asked about the art of using troops, and said, "Benevolence, wisdom, trust, courage, and strictness are all indispensable." When adjusting the army's food, he frowned and said, "The people's strength in the southeast is wasted. "The Jing Lake is leveled, and people are recruited to set up fields and farm fields, saving half of the water transportation every year. The emperor wrote to Cao Cao, Zhuge Liang, and Yang Hu to give him three things. Fei followed him, saying that he despised Cao Cao as a traitor, especially Hui. The evil thing. When Zhang died, Fei felt grateful for his old kindness and bowed to his son Zongben as an official. Li Bao came back from Chu, and Han Shizhong stayed with him. Bao cried bitterly and wished to return to Fei. Shizhong wrote to think about it, and Fei Fu said: "We are all countries, how can we distinguish each other? "Shizhong sighed. In the battle of Xiangyang, he ordered Guangshi to come to the rescue. After the six counties were restored, Guangshi came, and Feizou first appreciated Guangshi's army. He was a good scholar, read the classics and history, sang elegant songs and threw pots, and was as pathetic as a scholar. Every word The official must say: "Officers are effective, so what merit does Fei have?" "However, loyalty and indignation are strong, and opinions are upright, and he does not frustrate others, so he will get disaster. Yue Fei was very filial, and his mother stayed in Hebei. (He) sent people to visit (mother), (and welcomed her back). His mother had a disease that was difficult to cure, and she had to come in person to give her medicine. After (his) mother passed away, he did not drink water or eat for three days. There was no concubine in his house to accompany him. Wu Jie always admired Yue Fei. Wanting to make friends with him, he dressed up as a famous woman and gave it to Yue Fei. Yue Fei said: "(Now) the Lord has not slept (worried about the new world) until very late. How can we (as generals) enjoy peace and happiness." when? " Yue Fei delayed and refused to accept it, and Wu Jie respected and admired him even more. (Yue Fei) liked to drink a lot when he was young. The emperor warned him: "When you arrive in Heshuo one day, you can drink as much as you want. "(Yue Fei) stopped drinking. The emperor initially wanted to build a mansion for Yue Fei. Yue Fei refused and said: "The enemy has not been eliminated, how can he build his own home? "Some people asked when the world would be at peace. Yue Fei said: "If civil servants do not love money and military ministers are not afraid of death, then the world will be at peace. "Every time Yue Fei's troops set up camp, (he) ordered the soldiers to go down the steep slope to jump into the trenches. The soldiers all wore heavy armor to practice. (Yue Fei's) son Yue Yun once practiced going down the steep slope, and his horse stumbled. (Yue Fei) was angry He whipped him with a whip. Among the soldiers, there was a man who used a piece of flax from the common people to tie the haystack. (Yue Fei) immediately killed him to comply with the (law). The soldiers rested at night, and the common people opened their doors and were willing to accept them. , no soldiers dared to enter. The bugle (Yue Fei's troops) was "Frozen to death without demolishing the house, starved to death without looting." "When soldiers were sick, (Yue Fei) personally prepared medicine for them; when soldiers went to distant places to guard the border, (Yue Fei) sent their wives to greet and comfort their families; for soldiers who died in the war, (Yue Fei) cried for them and raised their orphans, or Marriage his sons with their daughters, and distribute rewards evenly among the officers and minor officials. (Yue Fei) is good at using a few people to attack many people. When (he) wants to do something, he will recruit them all. All the commanders came together to plan and decide the strategy before fighting, so he could only win but not lose. When he suddenly encountered an enemy, he would stand still.

Therefore, the enemy said that they are: "It is easy to shake the mountains, but it is difficult to shake the Yue family's army." Zhang Jun once asked (him) about the art of military use, and (he) said: "Benevolence and righteousness, wisdom, confidence, courage, and strictness are all lacking. "(He) would frown and say when allocating military rations: "The strength of the people in the southeast has been severely depleted." Jinghu was pacified, farmers were recruited to manage the fields, and they were also used as garrison, saving half of the water transportation every year. The emperor personally wrote down the deeds of Cao Cao, Zhuge Liang, and Yang Hu and rewarded him. Yue Fei mentioned a postscript at the end of the article, simply pointing out that Cao Cao was a traitor and therefore despised him, especially Qin Hui. Zhang Suo passed away. Yue Fei, in gratitude for his old kindness, raised his son Zhang Zongben and petitioned to give him an official position. Li Bao came from Chu to submit, but Han Shizhong left him behind. Li Bao cried bitterly and wanted to submit to Yue Fei. Han Shizhong told (Yue Fei) in a letter, and Yue Fei replied: "It's all for the country, why should we divide it between you and me?" Han Shizhong admired and admired him. . There was a battle in Xiangyang, and Guangshi was ordered to serve as reinforcements. The six counties had been recovered, and Guangshi had just arrived. Yue Fei sent a memorial to reward Guangshi's army. (Yue Fei) I like scholars who are virtuous and know etiquette. They read classics and history, sing songs elegantly and drink a few sips of wine, and are as submissive as scholars. Every time he resigned from an official position, he would always say: "What credit does Yue Fei have for the service of the soldiers?" However, he was loyal, grief-stricken and indignant (too) fierce, and he maintained integrity in his comments and did not let others defeat him, so he got disaster.

I hope it helps you and I hope you will adopt it