When a friend invites you to lunch, do you secretly plan when to invite you back while tasting delicious food? I believe that ordinary people will have this experience. Because we know that there is no free lunch in the world.
In this world, there will never be free lunches and gifts falling from the sky. There will be no pie in the sky. If you want to get a precious gift, you must pay. Catch me, and I'll catch you. When others give us kindness, we should know how to be grateful and return, either with material returns or with ability to help. If you can't, you will also pay for it, offsetting the gains with spiritual guilt and distress.
There is no free lunch, and there is no shortcut to success. Everyone has worked hard for success, and if you want to get ahead, you need to fight for it. Don't just see the brilliance of others, but understand the sadness they pay. Successful people, such as famous writers, scientists, entrepreneurs with amazing wealth, etc. I don't know how many difficulties and twists they have experienced before, how much suffering they have suffered, and how much family happiness they have lost ... When athletes stand on the champion podium and face the cheering crowd excitedly, they will also think of hard training day and night, and how long it has been since they went home to visit their parents ... Success is a feast that everyone envies, but it is not a myth without paying the price.
There is no free lunch, so we must follow the principle of conservation of energy. Nature's gift to us is not endless, it will only make it devastated, destroy the energy balance, and ultimately hurt ourselves. When you see that rivers and lakes are no longer as clear as before; When you see the car spitting exhaust gas, gray smog covers all around; When you see that the cut-down forest is no longer lush ... do you know that when human beings cause harm and pain to nature, they will eventually hurt themselves? Therefore, saving energy, traveling green and optimizing the environment are our due respect and feedback to nature. We should take concrete measures and actions to follow the principle of conservation of natural energy.
Similarly, social life also follows this law. When life gives us plenty and happiness, if we are arrogant and extravagant, we just want to have fun instead of making progress, and disaster will come unexpectedly. When life gives us pain and misfortune, there is no need to be pessimistic and disappointed, and life will also give us considerable joy and happiness to compensate. The joys and sorrows in life also constitute the balance of bitterness and joy.
Nothing for nothing. You don't envy wealth, you don't complain about poverty, you have to make yourself strong. While enjoying the splendor, the rich and nobles also experienced the ups and downs of intrigue and chaos. As soon as you enter the giants, it is as deep as the sea. At all times and in all countries, how many people have tried their best to enter the giants, but they have come to a tragic end, which makes people sad. Nowadays, there is no one you can really rely on. No one can always help you if you don't work hard; If you are not strong, no one will blindly pity you. As a civilian, you don't have to envy other people's wealth, and you don't have to complain about personal poverty. Only by constantly striving for self-improvement can we gain a foothold in today's society.
Life is long and there is no such thing as a free lunch. All the surprises and gains in life need our own efforts to get.