On August 20, a message about the "Admission Rules for Hengshui Middle School Freshmen" hit the screen, triggering a lot of heated discussions.

The instructions for new students released by the school read:

Standard hairstyles for boys and girls:

As soon as the requirements for new students came out, there was a lot of discussion on the Internet, and most parents Applauded, but some people said that it is normal and there is nothing to discuss

Indeed, many schools have begun to formulate and implement such requirements in recent years, but why is it being banned again now? Everyone is talking? Because there are still many schools that do not pay enough attention to students' behavioral requirements and the cultivation of self-discipline. Even if they set rules, they are just decorations and are not strictly enforced. There are still many children with dyed curly hair, weird clothes, and sneaking around. The name of the mobile phone is school.

This is also the source of parents’ worries. Youth should be striving for progress, but they waste precious time on unimportant things. Take cutting short hair and banning mobile phones, for example. As children age, they are in the ignorant stage of youth. It is inevitable that they will have a love for beauty and want to dress up. Many boys are even more beautiful than girls. This series of behaviors can easily lead to a decrease in attention to study, lack of time, etc.

Not to mention mobile phones. In recent years, what parents are most concerned about is the problem of teenagers addicted to the Internet.

Children are in an important period of personality development. Three views It is not yet perfect, and self-control is far from enough. It has already fallen into the hardest hit area of ??Internet addiction. It is not uncommon for people to drop out of school due to addiction to mobile phones, squander excessively, and other wrong things.

But on the one hand, with the rapid development of the Internet and the advent of the information age, children’s source of knowledge is no longer textbooks, but a richer material library comes from the Internet. Many schools even have classes and homework assignments. The use of electronic devices together, such as mobile phones, iPads, and computers, has become an excuse for many children to use the Internet as learning tools.

It is conceivable that a complete ban is impossible and unscientific. Not to mention the implementation issues such as the establishment and implementation of school mechanisms. Even if mobile phones are prohibited in schools, children will not hand over a hidden one. A handful? And once they get rid of the constraints of school (weekends, winter and summer vacations), will children still worry about not having access to mobile phones at home? Moreover, blindly prohibiting suppression can only cause a child to have a strong rebellious mentality. No matter what you say is good for you at this time, if you will thank me in the future, he will only think that you are trying to harm him.

Instead of talking too much, take practical actions to make your children really appreciate you! Everyone knows that giving a sweet date with a slap in the face is meant to give the other person some benefits immediately after teaching him a lesson... to make him gradually forget the pain of being taught a lesson last time. This is what we usually call a combination of hard and soft tactics, to ensure that children are addicted to mobile phones. The same principle applies to the above. When children play with mobile phones for a long time and refuse to listen, parents can use certain means to forcibly stop them, and then give appropriate rewards based on the child's specific behavior.

But the prohibition here does not mean such drastic measures as confiscating mobile phones and throwing them away. You must leave a certain amount of room and give the other party a little hope so that this rule can continue. This is the most effective method used by most parents today. It is to use some software that can control children's mobile phones, and gradually cultivate their self-discipline by setting the time period for children to surf the Internet. Among them, Gray Box has a good response. It has powerful time management and software management functions. Parents can set their children to read with one click. and rest period, the screen will be automatically locked when the time is up, and the use of game applications can also be remotely restricted or prohibited, and then some small rewards can be added at an appropriate time, such as "You have performed well during this period, I can give you half an hour more Internet time." , let the children endure hardships while also tasting some sweetness, so as to prevent children from overuse.

The development of good behaviors and habits does not happen overnight, it requires persistence over time. In addition to the children's efforts, the school's control, and the parents' companionship and supervision are inseparable!