There was a blackboard newspaper in high school, and everyone worked hard to paint the whole blackboard. Finished, start the class. The students are whispering, and then they hear some unpleasant sounds.

"What is that picture on the left? It seems nothing, haha. "

"The middle word is so ugly, why don't you let me write it?"

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A full face of anger can only be suppressed.

In universities, there are always some professors or outstanding figures in a certain field who come to give lectures. During or after the speech, there will always be some whispers.

"Speaking so much, or an associate professor?"

"The one who spoke today, the PPT is so beautiful, if I do it, it won't have such an effect."

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( 1)

There will always be such whispers in life, and others will pass when they hear them, but when the parties hear them, their hearts are really different.

We don't know the ability of the people who say these things, but it is superficial to think that others are not good and others are not better than you. As the saying goes, there are people outside the mountain, and there are always people who are better than you.

Moreover, they usually deliberately make noise, suppress the ability of people on the stage, and deliberately exaggerate their own abilities. I mean, how capable are you?

"One minute on stage, ten years off stage"

You see the Excellence of others, but you don't recognize the Excellence of others, and you try to highlight how capable you are. That's boasting, that's excessive inferiority. The more people show off, the more they lack.

If you have the ability, then you can speak instead of others. You can stand on the stage. I have a PPT, and I'll give it to you. Under the same conditions, you may not do as well as others. What you see in the audience is simple. Just talk, move your mouth and move your hands. Then you try for the last time. When you stand on the podium, all eyes are on you. Are you still so relaxed and sober? Are you sure? You promise? Everyone who is relaxed and comfortable on the stage has a certain ability to control the speech after many exercises and speeches.

You have to believe that everyone's success is not so easy, not what you said, "If I do it, I will do it well."

Self-confidence is good, but you don't know your ability clearly. This is not self-confidence, it is ridiculous.

(2)

You can do it. You go ahead.

I met a serious teacher when I was doing a computer question bank. He will ask you to take the stage to do some test questions, and once I happened to be drawn. I practiced that set of questions when I went on stage to do it, but suddenly I couldn't remember the steps and went back to my seat in a despondent way. Why did I use the word "depressed"? Because just a few classes ago, I laughed at the classmate who went on stage and did it with the people next to him.

Because at that moment, I suddenly realized that sometimes you can do something, but sometimes you can make mistakes when you have answers. You will be nervous and encounter some unexpected situations, so the reality is not that if I do it, it will be so perfect.

You have to admit that everyone is on stage, and you can only enjoy it under the stage, so there will definitely be a certain level difference.

Just because he is on the stage and you are off the stage, there is a gap between you.

(3)

If not, shut up.

You think you can do better, then you can go to school. After all, this society belongs to the survival of the fittest, and whoever is strong will go to school.

But I'm sorry if you can't. You can shut up. Don't use your thoughtless words to deny others' achievements, but also feel proud of how powerful you are. It's better to shut up and do your own thing than to exaggerate.

It's better to do more than talk. It is better to talk more than to do something that can convince everyone. In fact, everyone will have a measuring ruler in their heart more or less, and everyone can weigh who is capable.

So there is no need to use words to emphasize how capable you are. Keeping your mouth shut at a critical moment is actually a virtue.

He who talks too much will lose.

God has given us a pair of Ming Che's eyes to discover the advantages of others, and a mouth to praise others, but don't use it in the wrong place.

Don't just see the advantages of others and magnify them infinitely.

Don't judge others with your mouth. First, you have not experienced other people's lives, and you have no right to judge them. Second, keeping your mouth shut at the right time is a virtue and a cultivation.

After all, everyone is worth learning.