1. Ideal is the sail of a long voyage. Speaking of ideals, Paul's wise words echoed in my ears again. He said: life is the most precious thing for people, and life belongs to us only once. A man's life should be spent like this: when he looks back on the past, he will not regret wasting his time, nor will he be ashamed of his mediocrity in the past, so that he can die. My life and all my energy have been devoted to the most magnificent cause in the world, fighting for the liberation of mankind. ? This is a lofty ideal. We can't ask everyone to be like Paul. But everyone should have their own ideals, especially in children's adolescence. I think there are two levels of ideals. One is a broad ideal, which can be summarized by Confucian self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and calming the world. Self-cultivation and family, I think, is to be a self-reliant qualified citizen. Governing the country and calming the world means becoming a social elite and a pillar of the country. The second level is the specific career ideal. Whether to become a towering tree, when to plant what kind of seeds, of course, is extremely important. Therefore, junior high school children are vigorously carrying out the education of ideal future, and senior high school children begin to carry out the education of life and career planning to further concretize their ideals. The urgent task is to decompose the ideal into various goals with different sizes and distances, and realize them one by one. 2. The combination of responsibility and interest constitutes the power system of the ship. Responsibility is rational and permanent, while interests are more emotional, which may shift and fade over time. It is not reliable to study only by interest, but if you are not interested, you will study too hard. Someone asked which is more important in the process of learning, responsibility or interest. My answer is that both are indispensable. If there are some natural factors in the interests, then the sense of responsibility depends more on the cultivation of the day after tomorrow. A few days ago, in the case of Xue Baobao in Nanjing Children's Hospital, it was clearly pointed out in the responsibility determination that the doctor on duty lacked the sense of responsibility. I suddenly remembered something that happened to me. I was in the first grade in town. When I went to school in the morning, my mother told me that there was no salt at home and asked me to buy a catty of salt after school at noon. Somehow I forgot. When I got home, my mother only said calmly, please run again. Fortunately, three miles is not very far for me. I turned around immediately without saying anything. When I came back, the food was ready and served on the table, as if I had borrowed salt from my neighbor's house. Looking back now, I am very grateful to my mother. She made me understand that I should take my own responsibility. I didn't run three kilometers in vain. I am forty years old. Every time I go home, the old man often nags me and teaches me to be devoted to my students. You should do your duty. Sometimes, for children, adult discomfort is an opportunity to cultivate children's sense of responsibility and filial piety. This time is a kind of exercise for him, let him know that he also has responsibilities in this family. Don't think that the responsibility belongs to parents, they came to this world just for enjoyment. It is also a responsibility to let children know that you are studying for yourself, your family and society today. So, no matter what your mood and interest are, you should try your best to study hard. Of course, our parents want their children to study easily and happily. Many children are in this state, but not necessarily. Because of hard study, hard practice is still one of the indispensable elements in the learning process. Habit is an oar. When habits begin to form, two things are indispensable, one is scientific methods, and the other is tenacious will. It can be expressed by a formula: good habits = = scientific methods+tenacious will. It may be difficult or even painful at first, but once you form good habits, you will benefit for life. It is much more difficult to get rid of a bad habit than to cultivate a good one. Therefore, the sooner you pay attention to the habit problem, the better the effect will be. Many good habits should be gradually developed in the lower grades of primary school and even in kindergarten. Preview before class, listen carefully, raise your hand to speak, do your homework carefully, review and reflect after class, and keep your study materials well. , all need to be gradually developed. 4. The breadth and depth of reading. Classics, romance, martial arts, magic, popularity and so on, one is that there is no time, the other is that it will not be of much help to Chinese learning and comprehensive quality improvement. So don't read it. For extracurricular reading, please ask competent parents to give guidance. Apart from some innate things, the number and difference of reading may be the main factors that form the difference. Last semester, every student in our school got a reading guide for famous books. Some parents may have seen it, so you can borrow it and read it according to the above content. Magazine recommendations include readers, selected essays, essays and short stories. In-depth understanding, except for a few extracurricular reading exchange classes, we really read by ourselves, rather than passing by or pursuing the plot. In addition, the most important thing for deep reading is that the teacher takes the students to analyze and understand each article in class. In addition to taking students into the text and experiencing it deeply, teachers will also give teaching guidance in combination with examination requirements and reading methods. In all the learning links, the classroom is the most important. 5. The overall situation of the composition is good. Suggestion 1: combine reading and writing, extract more good words and sentences, remember them properly, and write more thoughts after reading. Suggestion 2: Write more narratives, which is the premise of writing other styles and the basic stage of writing. Recommendation 3: Pay attention to the society and express your views clearly. While letting children acquire knowledge and ability, we should cultivate all kinds of qualities that will benefit them for life. The two complement each other and are indispensable. The former is the medium of operation, and the latter is the ultimate goal.