There is no unhappy marriage, only unhappy couples. Couples walk into the marriage hall with good hopes for marriage, but finally they are disappointed, so they complain about marriage and say that marriage is the grave of love. In fact, they are really to blame.
3, love can not be forced, marriage does not need to be forced, both men and women, love and marriage should be treated with caution, emotional marriage can not be arbitrary behavior.
Facing the unhappy marriage, the first thing we should do is to give up the war. Of course, we don't expect to be sweet right away, but we should calm down and think about it. Without thinking, there is no action, and it is impossible to find the key to solving specific problems, because what you want, the details of your marriage are always the clearest, and the key to solving problems is ultimately in your own hands.
5. Loyalty is the bottom line of marriage. Once it is broken, it may upset the boat of marriage, hurt the lover, hurt the child and hurt the loved one. Although many people understand this truth, there are too many temptations in this world. It is important to be clear-headed, learn to reflect on yourself and let yourself mature.
6. Husband and wife love each other and are loyal to each other. This is the most basic requirement. Of course, we must do it first, but the quality of marriage is more reflected in the details of life. It is not difficult to work out the details. The key is not to turn a blind eye, let alone turn a blind eye.
7, love is an art, love is two people grow together, which requires communication, communication to understand, understanding to have deeper love. There is bound to be disputes in communication, but this is not a bad thing. Exposing contradictions is ultimately more conducive to marital harmony than covering them up. Silence is not to solve problems, but to hide and avoid problems.
8. When we complain about the boredom or misfortune of marriage, in fact, we are all making the same fatal mistake, that is, pointing the root of marital misfortune at marriage itself rather than ourselves. This is really a big misunderstanding and also our sorrow. Who made the unhappy marriage? It's ourselves, luck and misfortune, all on ourselves.
9. Modern couples have three major psychological misunderstandings: they only pay attention to the small world of husband and wife and ignore each other's big family; Always hope that the other party will act according to their own thinking and habits; Take each other for granted as their own completely private property.
10. Couples living in two places have to endure more temptations and more emotional candidates than before, which is a great challenge to their feelings. Since husband and wife are separated from each other because of the insurmountable reality, they should first accept this fact, and secondly, they should manage their marriage more diligently than other couples.