1. Suffering makes people stronger Composition
Not long ago we learned a text called "The Prince in Distress".
It is a fable genre, very short, but concise, perhaps all fables are like this, the short content can always tell us a profound truth. This article is about a sentimental prince who, whenever he hears those tragic stories, sighs with tears in his eyes: "Oh my God, it's terrible! I can't stand it when this happens to me!" However, when he later suffered a lot and was now disabled and living by begging, he met the author and told the author the story. When the author heard about it, he said to him what the prince had said before. The same words: "Oh my god, it's terrible! I can't bear this happening to me!" However, the prince said something to the author that made us think deeply: "Sir, don't say that, everyone in the world No matter who the disaster falls on, everyone has to suffer it, and everyone can bear it - as long as he doesn't die, death will be even easier."
Yes, remember. A master once said: "Except for being blind, I have suffered from everything." But in his later years, he really lost his sight. When someone asked him, he said: "When I was young, I thought blindness was the most painful thing." Yes, but now it seems like it’s nothing.”
Indeed, some people are in trouble and have a hard time, but God is fair and will open the door for you at the same time. A window, and that window is strength. All kinds of hardships in the world can make people stronger. Of course, a sharp stone cannot roll like a wheel on the ground, but when it is smoothed by wind and frost, even if it faces setbacks, it will be able to face it calmly.
Only by going through hardships can we achieve success. I remember a friend told me a story of his own: "I really liked painting at that time, and I had already made a name for myself in the local area, so I participated with the neighbor's children. In a provincial art competition, after going all the way, I finally qualified for the finals. But by then I was exhausted, and when I learned that the finals would be held in Shijiazhuang, I chose to give up. The little boy from my neighbor got on the bus to Shijiazhuang resolutely. I knew he had severe motion sickness. Later, I heard from his mother that he was vomiting in the car, but he still managed to hold on when he got to the stadium. p>
I was puzzled. In the end, I didn’t achieve anything in the art field.
But he was admitted to the Beijing Academy of Fine Arts.” I saw my friend smiling helplessly. , Yes, although the boy went through many hardships, he finally received the reward. No matter how hard he worked, he reaped the same. The world is fair.
In fact, we should not think that we can overcome vulnerability only by experiencing hardships. Even if you are in trouble, you may not be able to overcome your downfall and cheer up.
Even if we are not in trouble, it will not change the current situation of slump. You can become strong without going through hardships. A small thing can actually temper a person, such as long-distance running at a sports meeting. Some people can no longer run in the end, but they still insist on running the whole distance. This is not Is it a valuable spirit? They deserve more respect than those who have given up.
From this article of less than 300 words, I realized so many profound and introspective truths. Sure enough, concentration is the essence. 2. Famous aphorisms and celebrity examples about how setbacks make people stronger
What is failure? Failure is the first step to a better place.
——Phillips
Failure is the final test of perseverance.
——Bismarck
For the perseverant, there is no such thing as failure.
——Bismarck
A failure only proves that our determination to succeed is still strong enough.
——Bo Wei
Failure is also what I need. It is as valuable to me as success.
——Edison
What we care about is not whether you fail, but whether you can have no complaints about failure.
——Lincoln
Temporary defeat is much better than temporary victory.
——Abu Faraz
Frustration
●After some setbacks, I gained some insights
●The more I encounter difficulties, the worse Careful
●The newborn calf falls eighteen times
●Learns to walk from the falls (Kazakh people)
●No bumps, no bumps, no hard bones
●Children gradually grow up by falling down again and again (Soviet Union)
●The success or failure of a thing is determined by the result, not the twists and turns in the process (Germany)
●Regardless of the many twists and turns, I hope the outcome will be good (Russia)
●Flowing water will liberate its vitality only when it encounters conflict (Goethe)
●Not recognizing obstacles Who can tell the difference from the upside down, the ups and downs of gold and wood (Lv Yan of the Song Dynasty)
●I think setbacks and hardships are good opportunities to exercise the will and increase the ability. Speaking of this, I would also like to express my gratitude to those who have tried every means to frame them. Infinite gratitude (Zou Taofen)
●The fire will never be strong all day long, and the flower will never be red for a hundred days
●The sky will be cloudy or sunny, and everything will succeed or fail
●The moon will not be permanent The moon is round, and the flowers are impermanently red
●The moon is round and wane, and people gather and part ways
●The moon is round and wane, and the flowers are blooming and fading
●When the flowers fade, the feast ends
●The moon is covered by clouds, and the flowers are blown by the wind (Japan)
●Every success must be followed by failure
●If a river is not crooked, water will not flow
●Things are full of twists and turns
●The road to bad things is smooth, but the road to success is crooked (Uyghur)
●A long journey must be bumpy
●The most tortuous road is sometimes the easiest (Feuchtwanger)
●The right road is not necessarily a straight and smooth road , it is inevitable that there will be some twists and turns, rugged obstacles, detours, and even going astray (Zhu Guangqian) 3. The famous saying that hardships make people become talents
1. If you get carried away after getting out of adversity, you may quickly fall into another. adversity.
After the adversity is eliminated, we shrink our hands and feet, but it means that we have not overcome the adversity. ——Liu Xinwu 2. It is confusing to compare one's own adversity with the good fortune of others.
It is foolish to compare your current adversity with your past good times. Comparing one's own adversity with that of others is humiliating.
——Liu Xinwu 3. Strong-willed optimists think about problems with the outlook on life that "nothing is difficult in the world". The more they are hit by tragedy, the stronger they become. —— Seniga 4. Being unlucky has at least one advantage: you can clearly identify who your true friends are.
——Balzac 5. Although the world is full of suffering, suffering can always be overcome. ——Helen Keller 6. It is not accurate to say that suffering can sublimate personality; happiness can sometimes do this, and suffering often makes people narrow-minded and develop a revengeful mentality.
—— Maugham 7. Failure can train generally excellent characters: it singles out a group of hearts and puts aside the pure and strong ones to make them purer and stronger; but it puts aside the pure and strong ones to make them purer and stronger; Other minds hasten their fall, or cut off their power to leap. ——Romain Rolland 8. The tragedy of life is not how much people suffer, but what people miss.
—— Carlisle 9. People must learn to walk and wrestling, and only through wrestling can they learn to walk. ——Marx 10. If a person is afraid of pain, afraid of various diseases, afraid of unexpected events, afraid of life danger and death, he will not be able to endure anything.
—— Rousseau 11. People’s misfortunes often become his knowledge. ——Aesop 12. There are always ups and downs in a person's life.
It will not always rise like the rising sun, nor will it always be miserable. Repeated ups and downs are training for a person.
Therefore, those who are floating above do not need to be proud; those who are sinking below do not need to be pessimistic. We must be frank and humble, optimistic and enterprising, and move forward.
—— Konosuke Matsushita 13. Let us advise people in crisis: Don’t focus so much on the dangers and difficulties involved, but instead focus on the opportunities —— Because there are always opportunities in crises. ——Caroline 14. Isn’t adverse luck the touchstone of character? ——Balzac 15. There is always adversity, and life is about attacking and defeating others.
——Feng Ding 16. Talents are revealed in adversity and hidden in good times. - Horace 17. Adversity has a scientific value.
A good scholar will not give up this opportunity to learn. ——Emerson 18. Adversity is an uninvited guest on the road to career. For a thoughtful person, no place is desolate and remote.
In any adversity, he can enrich himself. ——Ding Ling 19. Adversity can make people smarter, although it cannot make people rich.
——Toffler 20. Adversity gives people valuable training opportunities. Only those who can withstand the test of the environment can be considered truly strong.
Most of the great men since ancient times struggled through adversity with an indomitable spirit. ——Konosuke Matsushita 21. Adversity is often embarrassing; however, even if you find a hundred people who can endure adversity in the crowd, you may not find one person who can treat good times correctly.
- Carlyle 22. The more you fight to solve a problem, the more impatient you become - the deeper you sink into the wrong thinking, the harder it is to escape the pain. ——Caroline 23. Every tragedy creates heroes among ordinary people.
——Stephens 24. No matter what the fate, man is not born a savage, nor a beggar. Man is surrounded by true and noble wealth - wealth of body and soul.
—— Horace Mann 25. Difficulties are just opportunities to put on work clothes. ——Kaiser 26. Difficulties and torture are like a hammer hitting a blank. What should be knocked off are fragile iron filings, and what will be forged into a sharp steel knife.
——Chekhov 27. Distress is undoubtedly a good teacher; however, the tuition fees charged by this teacher are very high, and what students get from him is often not worth the tuition fees paid. ——Rousseau 28. Suffering is the teacher of life.
——Balzac 29. Suffering tempers some people and destroys others. ——Fuller 30. The environment is a university of complete self-study and self-realization. Suffering, for the weak, is the tomb of death, but for the strong, it is the soil for the growth of ambition.
——Rousseau 31. Most traces appear in bad luck. ——Bacon 32. Adversity and hardship are the highest schools for tempering personality.
——Liang Qichao 33. Melons are the sweetest when grown in nutrient fertilizers, and geniuses are the best when grown in malignant soil. ——Bacon 34. After the great disaster, there will be great blessing.
- Goethe 35. Almost any situation - whether good or bad - is affected by our attitude towards the situation. ——Seniga 36. Don’t regard the past as lonely, because it will never look back.
Find ways to improve the present, because that’s who you are, and have the courage to move forward into the future without fear. —— Longfellow 37. Misfortune is a good school.
—— Belinsky 38. Misfortune may become a bridge to happiness. ——Japan 39. Misfortune is the stepping stone for genius; the baptismal water for believers; and the bottomless abyss for the weak.
——Balzac 40. How can you get the fragrance of plum blossoms without a bone-chilling cold?
——Pei Xiu 41. No matter what happens, please accept life quietly and happily, bravely, boldly, and always smile.
— Luxembourg0 This content was helpful to me. 4. Suffering can make people strong
The sunshine of hope in the morning rises from the tranquil sea in the east, starting a new day. Like a hard-working bee, Heidi entered work and study.
One morning not long ago, before the clock reached eight o'clock, a young man from Japan called across the sea. He enthusiastically congratulated Heidi on the release of his novel "Dreams in a Wheelchair" in Tokyo. Published by Xinchaoshe.
He said that after reading this book, it was like a fresh wind blowing into his life. This gave him great admiration for Heidi, a disabled female writer in China. He wished he could immediately grow a pair of hard and powerful wings and fly across the vast sea to see China with his own eyes. He also said that many of his friends, like him, read this book and dream of going to China one day. Longing to get to know Heidi, the wise woman they admire in their hearts. Because the books she writes are so charming! The book she wrote not only portrays Fang Dan, a strong and brave girl who fights against illness; it also depicts the vast natural beauty of China. The green-paved military horse farm, connected to the sky and the earth, is a prairie for brave fighters. How they want to see the beautiful and rich places that the younger generation bought with their sweat in the past. At the same time, they also sincerely expressed their associations after reading: such as the love destination of the protagonist Fang Dan, the life destination of the herding educated youth Li Hong, etc. In short, this book shocked their hearts.
However, they would have never imagined that Heidi is a disabled girl who has never entered school and is completely self-taught.
For more than 30 years, Heidi has seized all the available time in her life to read and write. She has the hard-working skill of "seeking quietness amidst the hustle and bustle" in reading. As long as she picks up a book, she will immediately become greedy. readers.
I remember that in the early 1980s, my family lived in Shenxian County, and Heidi had not yet found a job at that time. We often worry about this. But Heidi did not give up on herself. She never wanted to waste any time. When she got tired of reading one book, she would change to another. She said that reading is to lay a good foundation for her lifelong entrepreneurship, so as not to regret the lack of books when they are used.
One day when it was lunch time, I saw that Heidi was still busy reading, so I had to put the food in front of her and go do other things. When I came back, I saw that the food on the table had not been touched at all. I scolded her distressedly:
"You just read and don't eat?" She replied absently: "I've eaten, Mom."
I saw her reading to the point where she forgot to eat and sleep. At this point, I feel extremely relieved.
As she grows older, Heidi has become a lively and enthusiastic girl, but the disease always causes her physical and psychological pain. Because of her reading, she was influenced by the thoughts of heroic characters in the book, such as: Liu Hulan, Sister Jiang, the Soviet Union's footless flying general... Heidi's character became extremely strong. She not only had the courage to fight against the disease, but also had the courage to open up her own life. road. When people who have worked hard for a day have already fallen asleep, she is still fighting in the sea of ??books. Whether it was the baking from the hot lights and mosquito bites in summer; or the freezing cold weather in winter that left her unconscious legs bruised and ulcerated; or even the intercostal neuralgia like an electric drill cut left by the surgery was still there. Even when the long-term and difficult-to-heal bedsores were still in trouble, she completely ignored them. She used reading to cope with the hardships in life. The knowledge that Heidi has today was obtained at a high price!
With the country's reform and opening up, Heidi also found employment as a radio repairman. After more than ten years of hard study, the knowledge I learned has become useful. It's time for her to rest. But I saw that she persisted in working like ordinary people during the day, and she was more engrossed in reading at night. The field of her study has developed in depth, and she has covered a wider range of knowledge: medicine, literature, philosophy... She is also learning several foreign languages ??at the same time. It was at this time that she started writing her first translated work, "Haidi Clinic".
Heidi never reads for fun, let alone to kill time.
She read books selectively to benefit herself academically, so she read books with great care, and she could never forget some books. Once, Heidi introduced her growth experience to people at the Great Hall of the People in Beijing. She said that because of reading, she was confident about the way forward and understood that "all roads lead to Rome." Her speech was published by newspapers. A worker in a southern city wrote to a newspaper: Heidi was a role model for youth in the 1980s. Why didn't Heidi say that all roads lead to Beijing? Or communism? The comrades at the newspaper forwarded the letter to Heidi. She read the letter and said that she remembered that this sentence was from the revolutionary teacher Lenin about the prosperity of ancient Rome. That day, Mr. Xue Xuzhi, a professor at Beijing Normal University, was discussing with Heidi the elective course of Chinese classical literature. Professor Xue happens to have "The Complete Works of Lenin". He verified it and happily praised Heidi's serious and solid self-study spirit to me. He hoped that young people would learn from Heidi’s reading spirit.
Heidi became a writer and obtained a master's degree from Jilin University in recent years. Reading gave her the motivation to move forward and gave her a vivid world. Books enabled her to stand up strongly from the troubles of the disease and liberate her spirit; books gave her special resilience: she could endure the pain more than others, expend more brain and blood and sweat than others, and less young people. With her laissez-faire and casual attitude, reading enabled her to always defeat herself. To this day, Heidi still insists on studying outside of work. Books are always Heidi's friends. 5. There are inevitably setbacks in life, and hardships make people stronger
That’s it.
A friend talked about his experience.
About 10 years ago, because of his trust, he lent 18 million yuan (Taiwan dollars, the same below) to a friend for turnover. This close friend of many years is a businessman with a huge career, lives in a mansion, and owns expensive cars. Just two months later, this "good friend" disappeared from the world. No information could be found at all. It was said that he ran to the United States to avoid debts. And that 18 million instantly became an irrecoverable debt. What is even more impressive is that among this huge number, 8 million of them were borrowed by this friend from relatives and friends with shame.
After what happened, my friend became very depressed and felt that there was no hope in life. He began to close himself off, not interacting with others, and his heart was filled with resentment and hatred. Until he listened to a speech, a story in this speech completely changed his ideas and the rest of his life.
The content of the story is that a man was driving home. The car was driving on the highway and followed closely behind a truck. The truck was filled with heavy objects. Unfortunately, the ropes that fixed the cargo on the roof were not tied tightly, and the things fell instantly. In those tense seconds, a car accident occurred.
This man’s legs were broken and he would spend the rest of his life in a wheelchair. He was full of resentment. Later, this man's teacher came to see him, hoping that he could be freed from his pain, so he asked him a few questions.
The teacher said: "Who chose to drive on the road?"
"It was me."
"Who chose to go home at this time?"
"It's me."
"There are so many ways home, who chooses to take this road?"
"It's me."
"There are so many cars on the highway, who chooses to drive behind this car?"
The young man lowered his head and replied thoughtfully: "Or "Me."
The teacher continued: "If something is not tied properly, it may fall. This is a fact. The result of falling will definitely happen no matter what. If it doesn't hit you, It might also hit someone else, but who made it happen? If you didn't choose to go on the road at this time, you didn't choose to follow this car, or you didn't even choose to stay. Enough safe distance, so even if something falls, no one will be hurt, right? So, do you think you should be responsible or not?"
These conversations in the story are like Zen. Like a "good drink", it hits my friend deeply.
Yes! It was he who decided to borrow the 18 million yuan, not the 1.8 million yuan or 18,000 yuan.
My friend figured it out and decided to take on all the responsibilities. And at that moment, all the resentment was gone. He got a haircut, bought a new suit, and started working on his career again. My friends are working harder and more cautiously than before. Later, he not only paid off the debt in a short period of time, but also found a new position in his job. Now he is the chairman of a well-known construction company.
No one’s life is smooth sailing. Everyone will encounter some difficulties and obstacles to some extent and will “learn a lesson through setbacks.” You can choose to blame others and curse God for being unfair, but these cannot change the facts. And if you can learn from these setbacks and take responsibility for yourself, then this "lesson" will be worth it no matter what the cost.
Stop complaining from now on, your future will be different from now on! 6. Quotes about hardships that make people successful
There is no road in the world. The more people walk, the more people become the road - Lu Xun walked his own way and let others talk about it - Dante The road is boundless, everyone goes his own way. On one side - As the saying goes, there is a road to the mountain of books, and diligence is the path - Ancient poetry tells the horse's strength over time, and one's heart is revealed over time - Proverb: The road is long and long, I will search up and down - Qu Yuan Adversity reveals genius; fortune conceals it. ( Horace, ancient Roman poet) Suffering reveals talent, good luck conceals talent.
(Lucius Annaus Seneca, Ancient Roman philosopher) Almost any situation---good or bad ---is affected by the attitude we bring to. (Lucius Annaus Seneca, Ancient Roman philosopher) Almost any situation---good or bad ---is affected by the attitude we bring to. – both good and bad – are affected by our attitude towards the situation. (Ancient Roman philosopher Seneca L A) Although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it. (Hellen Keller, American writer) Although the world is full of suffering, suffering can always be overcome (American writer Helen Keller) As fruit needs not only sunshine but cold nights and chilling showers to ripen it, so character needs not only joy but trial and difficulty to mellow it. (Hugh Black, American writer) As fruit needs not only sunshine but cold nights and chilling showers to ripen it, so character needs not only joy but trial and difficulty to mellow it. night.
Cold rain can ripen it. The molding of human character requires not only joy but also trials and difficulties.
(American writer Blake H) Everything can be taken from a man but one thing; the freedom to choose his attitude in any given set of circumstances. (Leonhard Frand, German novelist) Anything but one thing, which is the freedom to choose one's own attitude towards life under certain circumstances.
(German novelist Frank L) Every tragedy makes heroes of common people. (Normna Stephens, American writer) Every tragedy makes heroes among ordinary people.
(American writer Stephens N) He who allows himself to be insulted, deserves to be. (F.C.Comford, British writer) He who allows himself to be insulted deserves to be insulted. (British writer Coford F C) I find life an exciting business and most exciting when it is lived for others. (Helen Keller, American writer) I find life an exciting business and most exciting when it is lived for others.
(American writer Helen Keller) I wept when I was born, and every day shows why. (Jack London, American novelist) I started crying when I was born, and every day shows why. reason. (American novelist Jack London) If you want to live your whole life free from pain You must become either a god or else a coupes Consider other men's troubles Consider other men's troubles That will comfort yours Menander, Ancient Athenian playwriter In this world there is always danger for those who are afraid of it. (George Bernad Shaw, British dramatist) Dangerous people are always dangerous in this world.
(British playwright Bernard Shaw G) It is not true suffering ennobles the character; happiness does that sometimes, but suffering, for the most part, makes men petty and vindictive. (William Somerset Maugham, British novelist) It is not accurate to say that suffering can sublimate personality; happiness can sometimes do this, and suffering often makes people narrow-minded and develop a revengeful mentality.
(British novelist W S Maugham) Let us suggest to the person in crisis that he cease concentrating so upon the dangers involved and the difficultie, and concentrate instead upon the opptunity---for there is always opportunity in crisis. (Seebohm Caroline, British physician) Let us advise people in crisis: Don't focus so much on the dangers and difficulties involved, but instead focus on the opportunities - for there are always opportunities in a crisis.
(British doctor Caroline S) Light troubles speak; great troubles keep silent. (Lucius Annaeus Seneneca, Ancient Roman Philosopher) Small troubles, shout loudly; great troubles, keep silent. (Ancient Roman philosopher Nega L A) Mishaps are like knives that either serve us or cut us as we grasp them by the handle or blade. (James Russell Lowell, American poetess and critic) Mishaps are like knives, just hold the handle and we grasp them. Can serve us, holding the blade will cut your hand.
(American poet and critic Lowell J R) No one can degrade us except ourselves; that if we are worthy, no influence can defeat us. (B.T.Washington, American educator) Except ourselves , no one can belittle us. If we are strong, no bad influence can defeat us.
(American educator Washington BT) No pain, no palm; no thorns, no throne; no gall, no glory; no cross, no crown. (William Penn, British admiral) No sowing, no where to come Harvest; without hard work, there is no success; without suffering, there is no glory; without setbacks, there is no glory. (British Admiral Paine W) Optimists always picture themselves accomplishing their goals. (Lucius Anaeus Seneca, Ancient Roman philosopher) Optimists always picture themselves accomplishing their goals.
(Ancient Roman philosopher Seneca L A) Perhaps you can't control your job, but you may be able to make other changes in your life. (Alan Loy Mcginnis, British writer) Maybe you can't control your job, but you may be able to make other changes in your life. (Alan Loy Mcginnis, British writer) Take control of your work, but you can make a difference in your life.
(British writer McGinnis A L) Prosperity doth best discover vice, but adversity doth discover virtue.