How to make sure that you like someone?
We will meet thousands of people in this life, and there are many possibilities to meet your conditions; But how many people can be with you in the end? Who will accompany you to the end? Before you know how to answer these questions, all your self-righteous screening by feeling and intuition is basically blind, because there is probably a situation where you just like the feeling of someone.
But the question is, what does it really look like? There is a very important premise, understand! Indeed, many people, like I said before, classify everyone who meets his favorite standards in life as a person who can be together, but usually after being together, the result will disappoint him. What is the problem? I finally came to his conclusion: maybe you don't really like her, that kind of love, for example, I like flowers, grass, a dress, and so on. I will be attracted, or I admire her, but that's all.
Why is this happening? The answer is what I mentioned earlier, just like Marilyn Monroe once said such a classic sentence. "If you can't accept my worst side, you can't have my best side." On the premise that you only see him/her well, what you say is like and moved, and at best it can only be called like!
So what is true love? As mentioned above, you not only know his/her advantages. At the same time, you also know where he/she is not good enough. Before you have enough understanding and psychological preparation, you get along with this person and then enter the intimate relationship between two people. After that, the gap is much smaller than if you have blind fantasies, so that the relationship will naturally be maintained.
The key is the last point. That is, I know not only your good, but also your bad. However, all your shortcomings are not enough to cover up your goodness, and all your imperfections are not enough to make me hate, because I know that this is all you are, and this is what I like about you.
How can you be sure that you like someone? How to imply that you like each other? We went to school and many people learned everything. Love and marriage are inexperience, inexplicable heartbeat and inexplicable blush.
For example, 27 common manifestations of a person.
1. I don't feel tired talking to others, and the more I talk, the harder I work.
If you see him/her/playing well with other girls and boys, you will feel very sad.
The first step to enter the school gate is to look for him/her everywhere.
I am worried about him/her when he/she is ill.
I have to think about him/her every night to fall asleep.
6. Will take good care of what he/she gives you.
7. Always like to play with other friends in front of him/her.
8. Unless there is something important, he/she will not dial the home phone casually.
9. Every time the phone rings, I hope it is him/her.
10. When he/she doesn't pay attention to himself, he/she will always look at him/her, but if he/she turns to look at you, he/she will immediately look away.
1 1. If he/she is ill, he/she will be very worried.
12. You can pay any price for him/her.
13. Looking at his/her bright smiling face, you will smile unconsciously.
14. Don't want him/her to see his/her bad side.
15. When you see him/her being bullied by others, you will want to beat that person up.
16. When I saw him/her, my heart beat faster, but my expression was stable.
17. If you hurt him/her, you will feel anxious and afraid that he/she will be angry with yourself. Even in normal times, you are always afraid that he/she will be angry and always want to say "I'm sorry."
18. Laugh at his/her voice.
19. When you call him/her late and he/she hangs up, you still miss him/her, even if the phone only hangs up for 2 minutes.
20. You read his/her information over and over again.
2 1. When you walk with him/her, you walk slowly.
22. Do you dare to be shy with him/her around you?
When you think of him, your heart beats faster and slower.
24. When you are with him/her, you can't see everyone around you, you only see him/her.
25. When you think of him/her, you will listen to lyrical slow songs.
All you can think about is him/her.
27. You get excited when you smell him/her.