Yesterday, I accidentally read this sentence from Weibo: "When a person is most powerful, it is not the time to persist, but the time to let go. When you choose to be empty-handed, who else can take anything from you! How many people lament the helplessness of fate, but forget the three most powerful words in the world: don't care. ? "I like this sentence very much and forwarded it to a circle of friends, which has been well received by many friends. Let me talk about my understanding of this sentence.

What do I care?

One. Don't care what other people think. I used to be a fragile person like blx. A look, an expression, an action and a word from others can make me think for a long time. With the growth of experience and maturity of mind, I gradually feel that there is no need to care about other people's attitudes towards myself. I like Mr. Jiang Yang's famous saying best: "The most beautiful scenery in life is inner peace and calmness. We are so looking forward to the recognition of the outside world that we finally know that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others. "

As long as you are sincere to others, do your best, speak your conscience and have a clear conscience, there is no need to care about others so much. Besides, I am also an individual with independent thoughts and souls. Why should I care about other people's thoughts and eyes? My world is up to me: happiness or sadness is up to me, not others.

? Junichi Watanabe, a Japanese writer, once put forward a kind of "passivity", thinking that this passivity is the most important whether it is from the maintenance of the body or the shaping of the spirit, or from solitude, nurturing the heart or interpersonal communication.

He said: "I think too much about everything and worry that my time should be over."

"People who have achieved success in all walks of life certainly have talents, but behind the talents, there must be a useful sense of dullness. Insensitivity is a kind of talent, a kind of power that can make people's talents blossom and carry forward. "

Have a sense of dullness, and can still face external stimuli and negatives calmly. Compared with sensitive people, being insensitive can make people open-minded, not serious, open-minded, sensible and not overly concerned about other people's eyes. In life, in the workplace, we need a sense of dullness to warm and moisten.

I don't care how much money I earn. People's desires are endless and insatiable. It is difficult to embellish their desires and swallow an elephant with insufficient hearts, which tells us that people's desires are the most difficult to control. In the face of money, I think it is enough for a person to earn enough money. Don't be greedy. Don't sacrifice your health, your rest time, the number of times you spend with your children, and the opportunity to spend time with your parents for money.

Everything you need in life is not expensive and luxurious, but expensive and concise; Not expensive and rich, expensive and elegant; Not expensive, expensive, expensive and appropriate. -Lin Yutang

Feng Tang said, "If you really can't let it go, go to the intensive care unit or the cemetery. It's easy for you to understand that you get too much, and then you want to be greedy. " Think about it, most of us already have a lot: a house, a stable income, a healthy family, sensible and enterprising children, intimate friends, rich food ... If we are more satisfied, we will be happier.

? My favorite state of life: simple material and rich spirit. Live a simple life, can concentrate, polish sensitivity and pursue the process of knowledge accumulation. The more knowledge, the simpler the material pursuit.

? Don't care about the departure of friends with different views. All my friends are like-minded. When you associate with a friend with different views, everything you say and do is very offensive to him, not to mention approval and approval. Their views, opinions and understandings are not on the same channel at all, nor on the same level, let alone on a high level. It is really tiring and annoying to associate with such friends, and there is no happiness at all.

As the saying goes, "always compete with peers, not fools." It is a pleasure to associate with people with the same views; On the contrary, it is a kind of suffering. Believe in it and never argue with people with different views. It's a waste of breath to say more than half a sentence with people with different views.

I agree with the famous writer Han Han:

"How far a person can go depends on who he travels with;

How good a person is depends on who gives him advice;

How successful a person is depends on who he is with. "

? With people with different views, I feel that I can't breathe properly. I left them without hesitation; I readily accepted their departure.

4. Don't care about fame and fortune. I like the following famous saying:

"Women are the vane of a country.

When women pursue knowledge, this country is progressive;

When women advocate freedom, this country is civilized;

When women worship money, this country will be corrupt;

When women cling to powerful people, this country falls. "-Martin Janke

Compared with money and power, fame and interests, I value knowledge and freedom more, and I value spiritual richness and simplicity of life more.

? Yanbian people's publishing house "low-key life, high-standard work" has several paragraphs well written:

? "Fame and fortune, take Youdao, use Youdao, benefit others and benefit themselves. Only people who are indifferent to fame and fortune can reach this level. Indifferent, so it is no longer a shackle. Fame and fortune are given by others, as long as it is yourself! "

? "In fact, a person's energy is limited, and the most easily tired is the heart. If the mind is not free, it will be on tenterhooks all day long, and eventually heart failure and exhaustion will occur; If we can dilute the gains and losses in the world and always keep a calm heart, then we will have more energy to do what we should do and will not be interrupted by foreign things. "

Of course, I can't care nothing. I care more about: children's education, physical health, the elderly at home, family members, good friends and personal efforts. I have spent as much time, energy and effort as possible in these areas, and devoted as much care, love and help as possible.

? The above is my personal opinion. What about you, dear friend? What don't you care about? Welcome to communicate.

About the author: Zang Xiaoyun, female, born in February, 197 1, 49 years old, Aquarius, a teacher (English teacher) who loves education, cares about students' growth and likes reading and writing in her spare time.