As parents, we are afraid that one day our children will say, I don't want to study. When children say this sentence, parents often panic, and they hate iron for their children, and they are disappointed and angry. If you are a kindergarten child, I believe that parents have many ways, but if you are an adolescent child, it is much more difficult. Fourteen-and fifteen-year-old children, whether they are big or small, may be taller than their parents, and even if they want to force their children, they are a little overwhelmed. Therefore, many parents have adopted a well-meaning persuasion strategy: instead of going to school, you can only move bricks, and you can't even marry a daughter-in-law. I work my ass off. I only ask you to go to school well and get into a good university in the future, but you are so disappointing that you are specially angry with me.
Every word of parents is a lesson learned from decades of life. Although every word is a famous saying of truth, I hope that children will take fewer detours, but children will never understand their parents' well-meaning if they have not experienced it personally. One parent gave a textbook answer. His 14-year-old son is tired of school and doesn't want to go to school. Instead of beating and scolding his children, he reflects that he has been busy with his work for years and neglected to accompany his children, so that he can't get into their hearts at all. After learning from a painful experience, he decided to quit his job and take his children to see the world. He believes that instead of forcing children to continue reading, it is better to let children think about it during this time and think about the value of life on the road.
It is a lifelong regret for most people not to study hard and get into a good university. Some netizens voted out the top ten regrets in life, which listed the most common things that people easily regret. What is surprising is that "I failed to cherish being admitted to a good university when I was young, so that I was mediocre in my life" won more than 8 million votes and won the first place, defeating "choosing the wrong marriage partner", "going into the wrong business" and "I want to raise my son but don't wait for my relatives" and so on.
Many people have been floating for half their lives, suffering from the hardships of life. When they look back on their first half of their lives, which step did they go wrong? To get to this situation? Many people come to the conclusion that what they regret most is that they didn't study hard while they were young and get into a good university. It is often said that ordinary people have three chances to change their destiny in their lives. One is reincarnation, the other is further education, and the third is marriage. Reincarnation depends on luck, not everyone can be born in a happy family; Marriage depends on fate, and there is always so much helplessness in the beginning and end; And only entering a higher school is to really change your destiny by your own ability.
When graduating, there are still many big manufacturers holding job fairs in prestigious schools, and they are faced with many opportunities before they leave school. This is not to say that a person who has graduated from junior high school but works hard can still make a career and reach a certain height after a few years in society. But with a high degree, you can take a lot of detours. It also allows you to have a bigger pattern, a better platform and a farther vision. Let you get to know a group of equally excellent friends and have more high-quality contacts. When the people around you are excellent, you will probably not find anything.
Studying hard will help you face your destiny better. Therefore, reading more books may not change your destiny, but we can live a better life and face our destiny better.
conclusion: as far as I am concerned, I definitely hope that my children will go to school for as many years as possible and receive more education. Children's life has just begun, and the future is full of infinite possibilities. We should stand on a higher platform and have a more splendid life. Instead of limiting your life to a small stage.