In other words, your life has been decided to be dedicated to the country, not to love. You have to choose between national interests and being immersed in love. The former is the body of fearless patriotism: the body of a man. Cai E is attached to the nation and vowed to earn personality for "40 million people", so he can only let go of his children's affair. There is a song in "Tengger Singer" that it is difficult for a big man to do it. If you work hard, you will be immersed in love and make it bumpy all the way. That's what it means. Maybe this is a test. On the surface, it is a euphemistic refusal, but if you really love her, you must pursue it bravely and don't give up. I wish you success!