Quotes that encourage people to open up and communicate with others

1. Only by judging yourself correctly can you judge others

2. Have you deceived others? Or yourself? Think clearly before answering

3. It is futile to try to persuade people who do not think with their brains

4. People who think that the whole world is wrong are most likely to be wrong

5. Goodwill needs appropriate words and actions to express

6. For a person who keeps saying "Everyone else says...", if you ask him who "others" are, you will see him speechless and embarrassed.

7. In addition to doing something, a wise man can also do something else

8. Requests can get better results than orders

9. Unless you yourself Be willing to be hurt, otherwise no one can hurt you

10. Don’t be afraid of unfair criticism, but you must know what unfair criticism is

11. Don’t criticize other people’s behavior, Unless you know why he did it

12. If you want to be more popular, praise more and criticize less

13. Being good at asking questions made Socrates the wise man of his time

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14. How you say is as important as what you say

15. You can think as you wish, but you must be careful when expressing your thoughts

16. People who are good at fishing choose fish Favorite bait

17. The best way to get help is to start helping others

18. Friendship needs to be expressed frequently to last forever

19. Don’t be too demanding Those who complain have made their lives miserable enough

20. Smiling is the first pass in interpersonal relationships

21. There is never a winner in an argument

22. It’s best to keep your mouth shut when you don’t know what to say

23. Show sincere concern for what others are doing and get along with anyone

24. Ask others When doing something, tell him: what to do, why to do it, when to do it well, where to do it, how to do it better

25. Smart people know when to stop talking and listen to others

26. Attitude determines everything. Why can’t I open my heart to communicate with others?

Maybe you have been living in your own world. If you try to open your heart, you will have a different effect and you will feel relaxed. , the prerequisite is to meet the right person.

＞＞＞How to communicate with autistic people so that they can open up? ＜＜＜

Take the initiative to talk to him more

It is best to smile when you talk

Make the atmosphere of the conversation more relaxed and pleasant

You can’t just talk for yourself

You should also encourage the other person to speak

It’s best not to stare at him all the time when you first speak

Otherwise, he will feel uncomfortable Zi Zi

Pay more attention to him

Especially from the details of life

Autistic people are generally very sensitive

Pay attention to details The warmth

And never act too hastily

Getting autistic people to open up is a very long process

Be mentally prepared for the long term

(Of course, it also depends on his degree of autism)

True love will come true over time

He will feel your sincerity and how to make others open their hearts

Face him/her with a smile. ．

Say something to him/her

For example, what happened today. ．

Don’t ask about him/her

Get in touch slowly

Even if he/she doesn’t talk

Let time prove everything Question: How to get others to open up their hearts

Friends, from your actions, psychology, and language, slowly let the other person feel that you truly care about him, love him, and make the other person trust you. , so that he will be willing to open his heart to you! .Friend, wish you good luck!

When interacting with others, should you pretend or open your heart!

People! Are you really stupid sometimes? It's not that I'm really stupid, but that there are so many things I want to say pop up in my head, and I accidentally choose the sentence that I shouldn't say the most. But sometimes ~ you don’t ask, I don’t tell, creating a distance. You ask, but I don't tell, it becomes a barrier. You... cannot open your heart to communicate and are hostile to others

Of course, opening your heart to others in this situation is not innocent, it is stupid. This kind of behavior is tantamount to seeking death and opening your heart

Topic composition - "Love"

Love is a lubricant, an amino acid, and the honey of life. Because of love, our hearts are rippling; because of love, our lives are filled with fragrance; because of love, our studies are flourishing; because of love, our souls are shining...

Please say "love" "Write an article on the topic. You can choose your own style of writing and draft your own title, no less than 600 words.

[Tips]

When facing this open-ended question, you must first let your imagination run wild and search for materials accumulated in your own life and reading, and then make your own conclusions based on the materials you have and your own Select style of specialty.

When writing a narrative, you must first pay attention to the selection of materials. When you select an event from your personal experience to narrate, you can associate other similar events nearby and use the details of other events to enrich and improve the content of the essay; or use opposite events to contrast and strengthen the expressiveness of the essay. Secondly, we must pay attention to the structural arrangement. You can write only one thing and advance the story according to the plot; you can also capture several events and combine them into fragments to express the theme of "love". When writing argumentative articles, in addition to clear arguments, typical arguments, and clear arguments, it is best to write with a certain degree of literary talent.

Although the scope of topic composition is huge, there are still rules to follow. Generally speaking, it can be roughly divided into four steps:

1. Select materials around the topic. (Selection of materials)

Topic essays are no longer new to students. They have appeared in high school entrance examination essays for several years. The so-called "topic" is the center of the conversation and the reason for the conversation. A composition inspired by a certain conceived "topic" is a "topic composition".

It can also be understood this way: the topic is like the center of a circle, and the line connecting the center to any point on the circumference can be regarded as the writing angle of a topic composition.

The topic "love" has a very wide selection of topics. The basis for selecting materials is what you think you are most familiar with, what you are most confident about, what you have something to write about, and what is new. What needs special attention is that topic composition must closely follow the topic and select materials. Although the scope of topic composition is wide, it is not broad and boundless. The limitation is the scope of the topic, so when writing, you must not deviate from the topic, start over, and write an article at random. For example, in the topic composition "Calling", some students wrote a story about their grandfather and him being good friends. There is not a word or a thing in the whole article related to the topic of calling, which is really suspected of being off topic.

Students think, communicate and select materials

2. Focus on the materials and clarify the center. (Intention)

Topic composition has openness, diversity and innovation. Among the three major characteristics, openness, diversity and innovation of idea are the key. Divergent thinking is the most prominent feature of topic composition. Traits.

Ask students to talk about their ideas around "love"

3. Choose an attractive title. (Title)

Composition topics are actually like people’s clothes. Just like newspaper titles, they often play an eye-catching role. Many students do not pay attention to it. A considerable number of students draft it hastily after finishing the composition. A title, sometimes even forgotten, without a title, this is a misunderstanding, and you will suffer a lot. Some people say that a good title is half the success of an article. Therefore, when conceiving an article, it is very critical and important to spend more energy on the title. As far as essays on the topic of love are concerned, you can consider drafting the following topics and let everyone compare and select them together. One method is to add modifiers before or after the topic to make the big topic smaller; another method is to not include the topic in the title, but to reflect the content or center of the composition.

Ask students to think divergently to come up with a title

4. Write the style (form) that you are best at

The requirements for topic composition are often not limited to style, narrative essay , expository essays, argumentative essays, novels, essays, fables, fairy tales, diaries, letters, etc. are all acceptable. This gives students the opportunity to choose freely. Generally speaking, we should choose the style of writing that we are best at.

Writing example

Writing goal: Learn to care and express love.

Writing ideas: A world without love is dead, losing vitality and vitality, without family affection and friendship, and lacking sincerity and devotion. Contemporary middle school students, mostly only children, are often selfish and indifferent to the people and the world around them. They only have eyes for themselves and no one else. Through this training and learning, we can call on their love and let them understand that loving relatives, loving others, and loving society is a kind of happiness. If you give others a love, the world will become a beautiful world.

Writing process:

1. Preparation before class

1. Accumulate famous sayings, lyrics, poems, etc. on the topic of "love".

2. Visit and collect touching stories of sending warmth and care to relatives, others, and society.

3. Teachers and students accumulate and prepare song CDs and related CDs at the same time.

2. Confess love

1. *** Incorporation: Play the song "Devotion of Love" before class to create a strong emotional atmosphere.

Then the teacher uses the transitional language of *** to introduce the new lesson.

Yes, as long as everyone gives a piece of love, the world will become a beautiful world. Students, stretch out your hand, stretch out my hand, and let us create a beautiful world. Beautiful world.

2. Exchange and accumulation

Exchange famous sayings, songs, poems, etc. on the topic of care (teachers project what they have accumulated for students to excerpt)

Tell touching stories about yourself or others showing care to their loved ones, others, and society.

(Teachers and students speak together, first in the group, and then recommend touching stories to share with the whole class)

Teachers and students talk about their feelings after hearing these stories

3. List Negative phenomenon, talk about feelings and strategies.

Abandonment of parents and children, elder abuse, domestic violence, and multiple tragedies still occur from time to time. Have you witnessed or heard of these things? What do you want to say when you see or hear these things? What do you think should be done to prevent these vicious incidents from happening? (Either writing or speaking, or communicating in a group or sharing with the whole class, teachers and students write and speak together)

3. Broad care

1. Play or tell about people in a beautiful environment Happy morning exercises, walks, heart-to-heart talks, work and other scenes, "leave a green shade", "clean a pool of water", "pure a blue sky"... This is also a kind of care for yourself, others and society. Have you ever had such an experience? ? How do you feel about studying and living in such a beautiful environment? (Teachers and students discuss together)

2. Tell us about the scenes of pollution and destruction: the river is turning black, garbage is being thrown around, trees are being cut down, animals are being hunted... What have you done? What have you seen others do? What do you think this will do for others? (Teachers and students said together)

4. The Eternity of Love

1. Listen to "Love's Dedication" to let students once again feel how beautiful a world full of love is, thus inspiring them to love emotions.

5. Assign homework:

Complete the essay on the topic "Love".

Tips: Based on the study of material selection, topic review, conception, and proposition, students are asked to identify an angle they are familiar with through comparison and screening, establish an appropriate conception, and complete the entire article. Of course, when it is written, Also pay attention to issues such as the layout of a certain article.

Appreciation of the model essay "Where is Father's Love Now?"

Where is Father's Love Now?

Deng Renhua, No. 7 Middle School, Qiyang, Hunan

People often say , the father is the ladder to the sky, the father is the ox pulling the cart; some people say that the father is the spiritual support of the family and the safe haven for the whole family.

I have been looking for an action that represents father's love.

Smoking

In the hearts of others, my father is like a soldier standing tall in the wind and rain, and my father is like a tall and straight green pine on the edge of the cliff. In short, my father is a man who can stand upright. However, in my heart, my father is just a smoker, a real smoker. His fingers, already browned by smoke, were still holding a cigarette constantly.

My father loves to smoke. He has always been like this. I don’t know why. No matter at home or out, there is a strong smell of smoke on his body, a smell that I can't bear. Especially towards the time I went to school, the smell of smoke became stronger and more overwhelming. At this time, I was anxious because I was worried about not having enough tuition, but my dad was still smoking his cigarette leisurely, seemingly indifferent to my affairs. Seeing him smoking deeply all day long and then spitting it out softly, I wanted to drive him out of the house. This situation really makes me want to cry without tears, and I can't bear the hatred. Could this be my father? Is this what is called "standing upright with the sky and the earth"? He is so "great", what else can I say?

Still, I was sent to school on time, which confused me. I seemed to be slowly realizing that while he was smoking deeply, he was also thinking deeply and worrying silently. Recollecting the smell of smoke again, I found that it had a faint fragrance; seeing the shadow of smoke again, I felt that many of my father's worries were enveloped in it.

Looking back

Another time my father sent me to school. When he was leaving, he still didn’t say anything, didn’t even leave a smile, turned around and left. I can't understand, let alone accept, such a cold father. Suddenly an idea occurred to me: to spy on him secretly. Just when he reached the corner, he stopped and turned around, only to see that his affectionate eyes seemed to be looking for something, oh, he wanted to take another look at his son, but he didn't see it. He turned his head again, and I was finally noticed by him.

A smile that he had never seen before finally appeared on his face. That smile was as crystal clear as morning dew, as short-lived, and as rare. From his eyes, I finally discovered the most beautiful thing in the world - selfless love.

Since then, this exquisite movement has been deeply ingrained in my memory. What a touching look back!

Finally, I fully realized: I didn’t lack father’s love, but lacked discovery. The smell of smoke was full of fragrance, and the look back was full of deep affection. At the same time, I also understood father's love: father's love is like a mountain, father's love is like an ocean. Behind my father's cold appearance is a hot heart of responsibility and a sincere love for his son.

Where is father's love now? All in a wisp of smoke, all in the moment of looking back.

Thanks to the Internet for letting me get closer to "topic composition"! How to open your heart and make friends with others?

In fact, the reason why you can’t let go is because you care too much about other people’s opinions. Try it, put yourself first, and put yourself first in everything. Center, as long as you think that you should be like this, it should be true, maybe the situation will change.

Others’ opinions are always just a reference, your own mentality is the most important.