Confucius' The Analects of Confucius keeps a respectful distance from others. Show respect on the surface, but actually don't want to get close.
In the Analects of Confucius, Wei Linggong said that if there is no common goal, there will be no common goal: people who take different paths cannot plan together.
Zhou Dunyi's "Love Lotus" is straightforward, not sloppy, fragrant and clear, graceful and quiet, and can be viewed from a distance without being ridiculous. Its stem runs through the middle, with straight shape, no branches and no branches. It smells far and more fragrant, stands upright and clean, and cannot be flicked from a distance.
Yan Zhitui's "Mu Xian", a good living environment, such as entering the room of Lan Zhi, is fragrant for a long time; Being with the wicked is like entering the land of abalone, which stinks. Associating with noble people is like entering a room with fragrant orchids. After a long time, it will naturally emit fragrance; Associating with morally corrupt people is like entering a shop selling pickled fish. It will stink after a long time.
Sui Zhong Xiang: Gentlemen choose first and then make friends, while villains choose first, so there are fewer gentlemen and more villains. Educated people look at things before making friends, while uneducated people make friends before choosing from them. So the former has less troubles and the latter has more hatred. Explain that you should be careful when making friends.
Gentlemen and gentlemen take the same way as friends; Villains and villains are like-minded friends. -(Song) Ouyang Xiu translation: A gentleman and a gentleman are friends with the same way; Villains and villains are like-minded friends.
It is extremely dangerous to make friends with a dishonest person.
If you don't know who you are, you are not your friend.
Relatives are not dispensable, but friends can.
Different roads do not seek common ground, that is to say, people who take different roads cannot plan together. For example, people with different views or interests can't do anything. From Confucius' The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong: "Different Tao, no common goal."
2. a beautiful and sad sentence: it is not worth having between people, just right. Life is a long chess game. There is no hunting for the west wind in this chess game, and there is no performance of smoke everywhere. There is only a choice between choice and advance and retreat. Only like a chess piece, March forward along the road of life, and never back down, with hard work and perseverance, March forward, can write the most magnificent song of the strong in life.
2. In the flower season, we should live like flowers. To be young is to be passionate, not confused. Some people say that life is a kind of enjoyment; Some people, just met, are not suitable for company. That's a mirage, not a long stream of water. Some scenery, lucky enough to meet, do not ask for long company, just take a look, it is also a long time.
3. There are no regrets in life. Beauty is wonderful. If it is bad, it is called experience. Love is like a flower. If it doesn't bloom, it will be pregnant. If it blooms, it will be brilliant. If it blooms, it will be perfect. The price of loving someone is too high. You should be enthusiastic, disappointed, and take time and energy. Losing money is certain, but you are happy and painful.
4. There are joys and sorrows. Everyone has an extraordinary life, with joys and sorrows! There are also helpless times! But some people are different. You don't need any trouble to go out to work. Only because you have lucky people behind you to support you, will you have the atmosphere of thank you! Enjoy the endless excitement of life! This is called good luck, which can give you a happy life!
5. There is a word in life called treasure, and treasure is the meaning of happiness. People who have experienced hunger will know how to cherish food and clothing; Only those who have experienced bondage will know how to cherish freedom; People who have experienced pain will know how to cherish happiness; Those who have experienced loss will know how to cherish the present. Happiness is not a struggle or a snatch, but a treasure. Only by cherishing can there be no loss.
3. What are the best quotes about what is suitable? 1. In daily life, because each of us has different personalities, hobbies and preferences, we have our own standards for judging whether things are good or bad.
2. Everything that is easy to go is downhill: the road of life is not Ma Pingchuan, and it is not easy to make progress without hard work. Many times, it is precisely because I gave up my efforts that I missed the chance of success in vain.
People with great wisdom and talent must keep a low profile. They walk in the world with kind eyes, kind faces, humble waists, peaceful hearts and quiet souls. As the saying goes, great wisdom is foolish, great wisdom is foolish. Low-key, not heavy, not strong, not anxious, not impetuous, not sad, not happy, not arguing, not floating, is a plain face as low as dust, is a character that holds high the soul and flies.
4. Appreciate things around you with a beautiful heart; Treat everyone sincerely; Do a good job with a responsible heart; With a modest heart, review your mistakes; Adhere to the correct concept with an unchanging heart; With a broad heart, tolerate those who are sorry for you; With a grateful heart, thank you for what you have; Accept what has happened with a normal heart; Face the hardest thing to give up with a relaxed heart.
5. No matter whether there is a result or not, no matter how difficult it is. Even if it fails, there is nothing wrong with it. The key is whether you have the courage to get rid of the shackles and face it bravely. Many times, we don't lack methods, what we lack is the determination and courage to go forward bravely. Don't be timid from the beginning and don't look back and forth when things are going on. Only in this way can everything be possible.
6. A person's achievement is not measured by money, but by how many people you are kind to and how many people miss you in your life. The merchant's account book records income and expenditure, and the subtraction of the two figures is profit. The ledger of life records love and being loved, and the sum of the two numbers is achievement.
7. Bad things will always happen, but there are still many ways to solve the difficulties. Never forget to learn and broaden your mind. All the troubles in life will always follow, but knowledge cultivation can make a person analyze and deal with these problems more rationally and calmly.
8. Appreciating other people's conversations will improve our eloquence; Appreciating the generosity of others will broaden our minds; Appreciating the kindness of others will purify our hearts. Appreciating others is actually less picky and more trusting; More enthusiasm, less indifference; Look up more and despise less. With more appreciation, there will be fewer contradictions and misunderstandings, and people will be closer.
9. Time is like a song and life is like a poem. In the poetic years, we can always take pleasure in suffering, tirelessly cultivate our acre of land, plant carrots and vegetables in our garden, and spread hope. ...
10, likes water and chews repeatedly, just to identify the desired taste. Marriage, indeed, is like carrots and vegetables planted in their respective gardens. Growers are not measured by economic value or nutritional standards, but by taste.
1 1. If you like flowers in the garden, you don't have to fold them up and put them in a bottle. To love someone, you don't have to keep it for yourself, but wait silently in your heart, wish him good luck and pray for his peace. ...
12. Love is the best scenery in life. Most people know how to enjoy flowers and the moon, but they are different according to their personal tastes. Some people like azaleas, roses and peonies. Some like thin bamboo, plum, orchid and narcissus; Yes, I like climbing flowers or iceberg snow lotus.
13, some may be extreme, some may not be up to grade, but that is the most suitable for you, what you need, and the most beautiful in your own eyes. For example, beauty is in the eyes of lovers, that is, each has his own hobbies, different aesthetics, different needs and different feelings about beauty.
14, in life, the best is not necessarily the most suitable, but the most suitable is the best; In life, the most beautiful doesn't necessarily suit us, but what suits us must be the most beautiful.
15, as the saying goes, "Only the feet know whether the shoes are suitable or not." This sentence is very reasonable. You have to try everything yourself, and only when you feel the same way can you know whether it is suitable for you.