When it comes to wine, the first thing I think of is the ancient literati Li Bai who said: "To be successful in life, you must have all the joy, and don't let the golden bottle stand empty against the moon." Su Shi said: "When you are drunk, full and asleep, your true career will be the most interesting in this life." The talented girl Li Qingzhao also said: "I often remember that the sunset in the creek pavilion is so intoxicated that I don't know the way back." But "raising a glass to relieve sorrow will make me more sorrowful", but it is too difficult to "give up drinking", and I can't do it. In fact, the same is true for modern people. Alcohol is actually not that delicious, and many people just can’t quit it.

As the Chinese New Year is approaching, I suddenly think of a friend who is a frequent drinker. He screams every time he drinks and swears to quit drinking. But what’s the result? Repeating every action and word, every time this friend talked to me about drinking, there was a sense of self-blame and helplessness. I thought it might be due to willpower and human feelings, but my friend said that it was not like this. , In fact, I didn’t really want to drink before drinking, but I started drinking again for various reasons.

The following summarized reasons may explain why we are always unable to quit drinking. Please read on.

1. Forming dependence

Wine is a very unique drink. Some people will become addicted to drinking and form dependence. Smell the wine and feel particularly friendly, even though they are telling themselves in their hearts that this is The second step is to quit drinking, but the subconscious mind is completely uncooperative, and eventually it becomes a vicious cycle.

2. I like liveliness

The liveliness I am talking about refers to the unique atmosphere in the wine shop. Especially during the holidays, we often see such a scene. In this situation, this person is very calm when he is not drinking, but when he touches alcohol, his personality changes immediately, and he becomes very lively when he is laughing and joking. This is because of the stimulation of wine. For a long time, I like the wine shop environment very much. After seeing the wine, I have already forgotten the previous vows.

3. Afraid of losing face

This kind of person regards face as everything, and will not hesitate to damage body hardware for the sake of face. I don’t know if you have such relatives or friends. Anyway, I have met many , especially during the Chinese New Year, all the good-looking people come out. They obviously can't drink and don't want to drink, but when eating, they are afraid that others will say they are pretentious. For the so-called face, they forget everything and drink.

4. Unable to withstand persuasion

Actually, this is very similar to saving face. Some people sit in a wine shop and don’t want to drink at all. They can refuse a few times and do whatever they want. Don't drink. If you persist at this time, others will not drink from you. But sometimes there are people who are so stubborn and just want to persuade people to drink. They continue to persuade them repeatedly. For those with soft ears, when everyone is in high spirits, they slowly give in and finally join the drinking team.

5. Herd mentality

In fact, this is a characteristic of China. It is very obvious in the environment of the wine shop. Since you are sitting in the wine shop, then start it and let others drink. Yes, people like this have a very serious herd mentality because they don’t want to be special and are afraid of not being able to get along with others. This kind of mentality still depends on the occasion. If you don't do this in a drinking party, you may lose yourself. Even if you really quit drinking, everyone is drinking. If you don't drink, are you being special? Then drink.

6. Winning Emotions

In today’s society, there is a very special consciousness that society is a drinking establishment. If you don’t drink, you will be decoupled from society. This is to rely on alcohol to win over feelings. In this era, if you quit drinking, you will lose many opportunities. For your own benefit, you cannot ruin social relationships just because you quit drinking.

7. Show your charm

Have you ever heard of the theory that wine reflects character, and the criterion for judging right and wrong is placed in drinking. If you want to be recognized, To be recognized by everyone, I must work hard on wine. Drink to show your style, drink to show your style. Moreover, on many occasions, only by drinking more can you be qualified to speak, and only by drinking enough can you show your boldness. How can you stop drinking?

The summary above may be a bit one-sided. Which views do you agree with more? Comments are welcome. Let's "tell the truth after drinking" together.