1. A person's life is neither so good nor so bad as imagined. Behind everyone, there will be sadness and unspeakable difficulties. Everyone has their own tears to wipe and their own way to go. Remember to add a coat to yourself when it is cold; Buy yourself a loaf of bread when you are hungry, and give yourself strength when you are injured; If you fail, give yourself a goal. If you fall, get up painfully. Give yourself a tolerant smile and move on, and be your truest self.
2. Don't ask others by your own standards, and don't look at people with colored glasses. Because everyone has his own preferences, personality and value. What you don't like is not necessarily bad. There are thousands of understandings of happiness, and everyone has different interpretations. The greatest happiness in life is to be yourself. Believe in yourself, follow your heart and intuition, don't blindly follow the creed, and don't blindly compare with others. You are the happiest. Gold is not barefoot, no one is perfect, because we are not perfect, we are the truest.
Happiness is accumulated bit by bit and managed day by day. Don't hurt the person who likes you, and don't let the person you like get hurt. No matter how good a person is, but he doesn't want to accompany you to your old age, then he is a passer-by. No matter how many shortcomings a person has, he can tolerate you everywhere and is willing to accompany you to the end. This is happiness. Everyone wants to find a perfect lover, but there are always shortcomings. Love is mutual tolerance, mutual sincerity, and life together. The goal of life is to have someone who can make you happy all your life.
4. When all possession and persistence become a kind of injury, giving up is the best destination. Who can understand whose pain; Who can understand whose pain, whose tears, not hanging on whose face, who does not know its cold; The injury is not on anyone, and no one knows its weight. Perhaps, you can see the tears in your eyes, but you may not feel the sadness in your heart. Perhaps, you can see the scars on your body, but you may not feel the sadness in your heart. Turn around and leave before you cry, leaving a gorgeous back and letting your heart go easily.
When you meet more people, you will know the value of friendship. You will know the value of understanding when you meet many things. If you fail more, you will know the value of mentality. If you succeed more, you will know the value of courage. There are more contradictions, and you will know the value of your mind. If you don't like it very much, you will know the value of training. How much flattery knows the value of sincerity. Only with more fame and fortune can we know the value of calmness. You don't know the value of purity until you have more entertainment. How many greetings do you know the value of persistence!
6. When I was young, I didn't understand; When people reach middle age, they can't bear it; Some things are boring when you have them all; Some things are precious only when you lose them forever. Life is too short to stop what you want, and you can't keep what you want. Between gains and losses, as long as you have cultivated, sown and watered, how much you have gained is not the only criterion for success or failure. What matters is your painful and unforgettable experience hidden in the details.
7. Life is like a door. Some people are pessimistic about the inner darkness, while others are optimistic about the inner peace. Some people are worried about the wind and rain outside the door, and some people are happy for the freedom outside the door. In fact, many things in life are not the best, as long as you think it is worth it. Success and failure, happiness and misfortune will not be the same definition in their own minds. The key is how to grasp what you want, don't let it pass you by, and don't let yourself have too many regrets. People live in a state of mind and emotion. Keep a good attitude and make life a happy paradise.
8. No matter how deep feelings and good friends are, friendship will fade away. That's the way things are in the world. Many familiar people, if you don't take care of them, they will gradually disappear. Many familiar things fade if you don't remember them. It's not that our hearts have changed, nor that we no longer regard each other as friends. It's just that we are far away and can't share joys and sorrows. The wind of years can not only dilute the feelings in your heart and mine, but also cool the righteousness in your heart and mine. The hand of time can not only blur me in your eyes, but also dilute you in my heart. If you don't take the familiar road, you will be unfamiliar. This is life.
9. It often takes years or decades to make a friend; It may only take a few minutes or one thing to offend a friend. The worldly glitz, the complexity of people's hearts and the sensitivity to some small things all hinder the development of friendship. Maybe just because we are friends, we have less worries and less respect for each other. Sometimes friends get too close, the relationship will become complicated, and if we go too far, we will lose contact. Don't force friendship, cherish and care for a friendship with your heart. If not forever, at least it was.
10, what makes women forget is feelings, and what makes men forget is feelings. Feelings slowly precipitate with time, and feelings gradually disappear with time. Maybe you can get love, marriage and a superior life; But if there is no sense of security, what's the use of all this? It is better to live in stable poverty than to live in fear of abundance. Happiness is not trying to love, but living with peace of mind.
1 1, "understand" is the most affectionate and profound word in the emotional world. Know that it is to soothe your sadness with my eyes; To know is to compare my heart with yours; Knowing is listening to your soul without words; Knowing that you are always in my eyes, knowing that I love as much as I can. A sentence of "I know you" can melt the iceberg, make despair climb the vine of love, and make the withered heart full of flowers. Because only by "knowing" can we be calm and relaxed. If you know, please cherish it.
12, the bow of life, if pulled too full, people will be tired and dissatisfied people will fall behind. People who regard life as a trip will always encounter scenery, which is light and far away; And those who regard life as a battlefield will always encounter struggles, which are exciting and intense. Life is like this. You will meet everything you choose. There is no right or wrong, only bear or not. Learn to let go of things that make you unhappy and people that make you humble. As long as there is tomorrow, today is always the starting point.
13, people have four pains: First, they cannot see through. I can't see through the entanglement in interpersonal relationships, the hidden injury after struggle, the dullness in the hustle and bustle, and the tranquility after prosperity. The second is reluctant. I can't stand those wonderful and untimely years, and I can't stand the vanity and applause when I am above. Third, I can't afford to lose. Can't afford to lose a relationship, can't afford to lose a life. Fourth, I can't let it go. I can't let go of people and things that have gone far away, and I can't let go of right and wrong that have long been dusty.
14, you don't have to dig people, but you will complain more when you dig. You don't have to finish what you say, but you won't have any friends after you finish. There is no need to be harsh on others, it is far from being harsh. You don't have to be modest to respect others. Modesty means less bones. People don't have to retreat, and it's hard to retreat. Feeling cheated by others, not angry with words; Being insulted and not moving; Look at people's mistakes and don't praise them; The benefits given to people are not remembered; Be grateful to others and keep it in mind; Do difficult things, be strong and lifeless, and people with difficulties need not say it.
15, life is the accumulation of bitterness and joy, and there is joy in bitterness. Life is a mixture of sorrow and joy, and there is joy in sorrow. In ordinary days, we all have our own troubles. In ordinary life, we all have our own trajectories. Whether we are happy or sad, we are planning our own future and exploring our own future. On the road of life, not every sunny day warms people, not every rainy day. We can't control the direction of fate, only we can walk through every day calmly.
16, don't live in your own world, blindly arrogant; You don't have to live in other people's world and lose yourself. Tomorrow's sun will not rise because of your disappointment; The moon won't stop setting tonight because of your complaints. Even if you blindfold yourself, it doesn't mean that the world is dark; Even if you are blindfolded, it doesn't mean that the light belongs to you. Don't take yourself too seriously and ignore the achievements of external factors; Don't take yourself too lightly and become a pedal for others. Live in the present, live yourself, live with your heart and keep yourself.
17, don't cry because no one will give you money. Don't shout tired, because nobody will help you. Don't give up because no one wants you to win. Don't rely on others, because only you are the most reliable. Don't cry, because everyone is waiting for a joke. Don't beg, because someone wants you to be a beggar. Don't be down and out, because a bunch of people are waiting to hit people when they are down and out. Don't look back, because things are terrible. Don't be sad, because you will only frown but go to your heart. Don't bow your head, because there is no gold on the ground, only stones. Don't force it, because twisting melons is not sweet.
18. Life is a journey. From the day you put on your first pair of shoes, you are doomed to a bumpy and extraordinary life. There is too much uncertainty about the road we are going to take. A word of advice from others, a flash of thought from yourself, and occasional gains and losses will change the direction of fate. You never know, you don't have to be too persistent when you meet something, so why bother about a person, an instant or something. Instead of showing people with a lonely face, it is better to change it into a fresh and clear image, which will give people a sense of trust and gain more opportunities for growth. Changing a mentality can change a way of life.
19, after a certain life course, the rhythm of life has smoothed away sharp edges and corners, the passion for dancing has gradually faded, and sad eyes have begun to understand life. Life is like a wandering, only wandering can know the beauty of stability; You don't know the original beauty until you experience it. Sometimes I want to stay away, but after a while, I find that I have returned to the original point. Sometimes I want to turn around, but after turning around, I find there is no way to go behind me.
20. It should be said that it is a level, and dumb is a kind of intelligence. Doing what should be done is a kind of ability, and retiring when it should be done is a kind of accomplishment. It is a kind of wisdom when it is obvious, and a gift when it is hidden. Roar is a kind of dignity, and slip is a kind of strategy. Flexibility is a kind of maturity, and eating and sleeping with peace of mind is a kind of temperament. As the saying goes: "Don't be intentional when harming others, and don't be intentional when preventing others." This shows a simple truth: to be a man, you must have some calculation. "scheming" is not a trick or sophistication, but a kind of wisdom and strategy for being a man. With it, you can meet your needs, be comfortable and invincible forever.
2 1. In front of some people, the closer you are, the more you care, which will ignite his arrogance and indifference, and the less valuable you are; In the face of some things, the more you want to solve it, the more urgent it is, and the more it is, the worse it will be. When dealing with people, be calm and well-founded. You don't have to lose your character to please others, and you don't have to lose the fun of being a man for fame and fortune. Don't give up things that belong to you easily, blindly pursue things that you don't have a chance, live up to heaven and look down on people.
22. The same thing will have different results from different angles. Doing the same thing with different attitudes will have different results. Sometimes, the difference is not the thing itself, but people's mentality and way of doing things. Hate a person, the advantages will be regarded as camouflage, like a person, the shortcomings will become beautiful. No one is perfect, we should also think about our own shortcomings while asking others. Don't be in a hurry to express yourself or correct others. Listen, watch and ponder.
23. There are many misfortunes in the world, all of which occur in the process of being eager to prove themselves to others. There is nothing wrong with "proving yourself". What is wrong is that many people are just trying to "prove themselves to others". Life is your own, and you don't have to frame your own life by other people's standards. If you want to please everyone and meet everyone's standards, you will eventually lose yourself. Trying to make everyone like you is futile and irresponsible to yourself. Don't get lost in other people's comments, just listen to your inner voice and be yourself.
24, many times, we always want to get the good of others. I will be grateful at first, but it will become a habit after a long time. If I am used to a person being kind to you, I will take it for granted. One day, others will treat you badly, and you will have resentment. In fact, it is not that others are bad, but that our initial requirements have changed, and we are always used to getting it, but we forget to be grateful. Only by living with gratitude can you feel the beauty of life.
25. The most exhausting thing is often not the distance of the road, but the depression in your heart; The most decadent thing is often not the bumpy future, but the loss of self-confidence; The most painful thing is often not the misfortune of life, but the disillusionment of one's own hopes; The most desperate thing is often not the blow of setbacks, but the death of one's own heart; So look down on everything, relax a little, and everything will get better gradually.
26. Only when you have tasted the pain can you cherish the happiness that you have neglected; Only when you know how to appreciate the ordinary can you collect the happiness that was discarded at the beginning. Without pain, the feast of life will be dull; Without the ordinary, the picture of life is shallow. It's no use complaining. No matter whether you laugh or cry, no one will listen to you. Fantasy is useless, whether you go or stop, we have to face the bloody cruelty in reality.
27. Some things are destined to be stories, some people are destined to be old friends, and some roads are destined to be left alone. Some people, some things, broke into life, gained and lost, yesterday's sadness, today's happiness, joys and sorrows should be remembered. When all this becomes a memory, what will remain in our memory? Many things have passed, many people have left and experienced more, and their hearts will be strong and their roads will be solid.
28. Most people, most of the time, can only rely on themselves. I don't have any background, I haven't seen any noble people, and I haven't been to any good schools. None of this matters. The key is which way you are determined to go, what kind of person you want to be, and how you are going to intervene in your laziness. Go ahead, believe in your dreams and stick to them. Only in this way can you have a chance to prove yourself and find the dignity you want.
29. Me Before You, I thought love was earth-shattering, vigorous and tearful; I thought love was thrilling, passionate and happy. I thought love was suffocating madness, and love was boiling coal. Hand in hand through ups and downs, warm and hard married life, I began to understand that love can stand the dull fleeting time.
30. Don't give up. If you give up, it will end on the spot. If you don't cry, you will only arouse others' sympathy for you. Laugh when you want to cry; Don't resent, don't compare yourself with others, no matter how small, pursue your ideal happiness; Don't be angry, don't be angry with others. Now my life is all my own responsibility.
Editor's note: People's sufferings in their lifetime and youth are just a springboard. The hardest thing for people on the springboard is the inner struggle and helplessness before taking off. I hope all the burdens will become gifts, and suffering will light up the road of confusion in the future.
You don't have to explore people, but it is suspicious to explore people.
There are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love be a kind of harm. Some destinies are doomed to be lost, and some destinies will never have a good result. You don't have to be loved, but you must love someone well. Who made who laughed, who made who cried, who held who's hand, who married who. Whose eyes touch whose eyebrows, whose smile is worth whose tears.
2, knowing people does not have to explore, exploring is suspicious. You don't have to finish what you say, but you won't have any friends after you finish. There is no need to be harsh on others, it is far from being harsh. You don't have to be modest to respect others. Modesty means less bones. People have no retreat, and there is no retreat. Sorry is a kind of sincerity, it doesn't matter, it is a kind of demeanor. If you give your heart, but you can't get grace, it can only show the ignorance and vulgarity of the other party!
3, learn to forget, forgetting is a good thing. Be optimistic, be positive and laugh. You see, when you are happy, the world becomes beautiful ... sometimes, what you say is not the same as what you think. Have a good cry and wash your heart. If you hold back your tears, they will tear you apart. The saddest thing is to meet in a hurry, get in a hurry, and lose in a hurry.
4. Life is one desire after another. Old desires are satisfied and new desires are born. Life is when you realize that you can't change everything at present, and you begin to know how to let nature take its course; Life is often beyond our imagination. There are so many places around a person that you can pay so much. In this small circle, some people want to come in and have to leave.
Classic quotations from Lin Tanxi
1. Qianshan went with the army.
When you get rid of the fetters of reality, you can get pure feelings. There are two situations in this, one is when I was a child and the other is when I was successful.
I just think this moment is the most rare time in my life. My whole body is warm and my heart is floating in the clouds. I hope it will last forever.
4. The life of a person who creates loneliness by himself and chews it in his mouth.
It doesn't matter, life is still very long, there are flowers and trees everywhere, so we don't have to make hasty decisions for life at an ignorant age. If you forget, how can you live to forget?
6. Sometimes, you have to see through the scenery to find the right person who is qualified and capable of watching the running water. If you forget, how can you live to forget?
7. In that dark grave, how much better is life passing by than a dry well? If you forget, how can you live to forget?
8. But Li Bihua, a talented woman, said: This wall is too high, and people who don't come are blocked. If you forget, how can you live to forget?
Classic quotations from Detective Dee Renjie.
1. If people are not removed, God will punish them.
I'll tell you myself then.
3. Stop it, stop it.
I must beat these evil thieves to pieces.
I feel a faint uneasiness!
6. Adults are really gods.
7, the road talks about the fog in the mountains, and sings the songs and Tibetan forests skillfully. A foot of sunshine is scattered, and the egrets are half green halfway up the mountain.
8, I vaguely feel that there must be inextricably linked!
9. Before this coin hits the ground, I promise it will be just you and me here.
10, I'm in love with Ying and I'm from Bingzhou.
1 1, you talk too much. Answer the question.
12, born in Hehuang, afraid of death. I left this time, like the spring breeze!
13, Fiona Fang, what do you think of this?
14, can you believe that you will see your brain?
15, heaven has eyes, heaven has eyes!
16, I know more than you think.
17. How do people like you change? Only death!
18, there are not more than five people in the world who have your skills.
19, Di Gong is the only one who can solve this case.
20, its means are not clever, its intention is not deep!
2 1, how hard it is to be a good person!
22, know me, Di Gong also.