Frustration pinyin: cuzhé English: 1. Frustration 2. Counternote: refers to the obstacles that people encounter or think can't be overcome in purposeful activities, so that their needs or motives can't be met. In the fifth edition of Modern Chinese Dictionary, it is interpreted as: 1) inhibit, hinder, weaken or pause 2) fail. (1) suppression obstacles; Frustration or failure: despite setbacks, we will never waver | frustration education. (2) Social psychology refers to the individual's psychological state caused by obstacles or interference in the process of purposeful activities. Show disappointment, pain, depression, anxiety, etc. Frustration can make weak-willed people passive and compromise; It can also make strong-willed people accept lessons and rise up in adversity. Frustration is the greatest test of courage, that is, to see if a person can fail without being discouraged. Every setback or unfavorable mutation carries the same or greater beneficial seeds. Failure and frustration can exercise ordinary excellent character: it picks out a group of hearts, puts purity and strength aside, and makes them purer and stronger; But it accelerates the decline of the rest of the brain, or cuts off their jumping power. Origin of meaning: (1) refers to defeat; Frustration. "The Biography of Feng Yi in the Later Han Dynasty": "There are soldiers in the north of the camp, but now they are biased towards the city and the soldiers are frustrated." ② Also called "archiving". The Biography of Gai Miao in Yuan Dynasty: "Although the volume has been set up, there is no shortage of rolling tongue sounds." Basic explanation 1. [Knock]: Suppress, hinder, weaken or pause 2. [jolt]: The argument advocating evolution has suffered a serious setback. [fruit; The cruel setback of failure made him lose confidence gradually. Han's "On Salt and Iron Punishing Qin": "Those who control the string and those who are good are all afraid of it and frustrated." "The Story of Geng Yan in the East": "Where there are 46 counties and 300 butchers, there is no setback." Song Yang Wanli's Biography of Zhang Qian: "From Yuan You to the beginning of Longxing, dozens of people were the first to push things straight and frustrated." Zou Taofen's irrelevant hat: "I think setbacks and hardships are good opportunities to exercise my will and grow my ability." 2. Break, destroy and damage. Kang Hai's "Luo Xiang Dai Li Silk" divertimento in the Ming Dynasty: "Even if I am frustrated, I can't solve my worries." "Yang Jiajiang" back to the thirtieth: "I broke three arrays and frustrated its spirit!" Mao Dun's Midnight XVII: "As far as public debt is concerned, they have not lost their motivation." 3. Give in. The Story of Sui and Tang Dynasties by Liu Kui in Tang Dynasty: "Xu Dali contributed greatly. Whenever he sees that Wuhou wants to kill people, he will fight according to law ... he will not be depressed. " 4. insult. Yue's A Record of Emperor Wendi in Han Dynasty: "Ancient ministers ... knelt down for a big crime and committed suicide, punishing them without causing setbacks." The fifth journey to the west: "but why are you so depressed today?" The eightieth time in A Dream of Red Mansions: "Qiu Ling is trying his best to recover because Jingui has suffered many setbacks recently."
[Edit this paragraph] Synonym
Suffering, difficulties
[Edit this paragraph] antonym
Success and smoothness
[Edit this paragraph] Interpretation of setbacks
Psychologically speaking, people's behavior always starts from a certain motive and works hard to achieve a certain goal. If you encounter difficulties and obstacles in the process of achieving your goals, there will be setbacks, and setbacks will lead to various behaviors. It will have psychological and physical reactions. Individuals will be depressed, negative and resentful after suffering serious setbacks; Physiologically, it will be manifested as high blood pressure and rapid heartbeat, which is easy to induce cardiovascular diseases; Decreased gastric acid secretion can lead to ulcers and gastric perforation. In short, personal frustration can lead to abnormal behavior. In the process of achieving the goal, there are setbacks, and the following situations can occur: (1) Change the method, bypass the obstacles, and choose another path to achieve the goal. (2) If the difficulty exceeds, modify the goal and change the behavior direction. (3) There is no way to go in the face of obstacles, and the goal cannot be achieved. People will have serious frustration.
Frustration theory
Give a systematic psychological explanation of setbacks, including their meaning, contents, forms, causes and solutions. It belongs to the category of incentive theory. Generally speaking, frustration refers to the emotional experience when an individual is hindered or interfered by objective or subjective reasons in the process of engaging in purposeful activities, and his knowledge motivation cannot be realized and his needs cannot be met. There are various hypotheses about wit caused by frustration, such as frustration-retrogression hypothesis, frustration-attack hypothesis and frustration-stubbornness hypothesis. Frustration is directly related to the level of personal ambition. Frustration is twofold. On the positive side, give people a deal and exercise their will; On the negative side, people are disappointed, miserable, depressed and even depressed. Frustration will lead to different behavioral reactions, which can be rational behaviors, such as changing strategies, lowering requirements, and finding excuses to comfort yourself. It may also be irrational.
[Edit this paragraph] Famous sayings
1. Running water will only release its vitality when it encounters conflict. -Goethe 2. Every obstacle has a solution-either crossing, drilling, bypassing or breaking through. 3. The difficulty is not terrible. What is terrible is that there is no courage to face difficulties and confidence to overcome them! If there is no wind and sail, paddle hard. Prosperity makes energy idle and useless, so that we can't feel our own power, but obstacles awaken this power and use it. -Hume English 6. The hardships and failures you have experienced are the only way to success. Dare to challenge them and believe in yourself, and you will succeed! -Wang Shaonan Middle School 7. Overcoming difficulties is an opportunity to win. -Churchill English 8. Don't bow your head because of difficulties. As long as we pick up the scissors of our dreams and cut its net hard, we can get out of confusion. At that time, you will find that the sky at that time is particularly beautiful! 9. When a person has the courage to look up from the darkness and walk towards the bright road, there will be no shadow behind him. 10. Short-term setbacks are better than short-term success-Pythagoras 1 1. Every setback or unfavorable mutation carries the same or greater beneficial seeds. 13. I think setbacks and hardships are good opportunities to exercise my will and improve my ability. -Zou Taofen 14. Struggle is a school to master skills, and frustration is a bridge to truth. -Goethe 15. Suffering is the teacher of life, and through suffering, it leads to happiness. -Beethoven 16. A person will always have some rebellious experiences, otherwise he will be unconsciously depressed. People are afraid that they will fall, and others will not fall. —— Guo Moruo 17. Human life is like a flood. Without touching the islands and reefs, it is difficult to stir up beautiful waves. -ostrovsky 18. The seeds fell not in fertile soil, but in rubble. Vital seeds will never sigh pessimistically, because they are tempered by resistance. -Xia Yan 19. Even if you fall a hundred times, you should stand up a hundred times. -Zhang Haidi 20. Difficulty and torture are a hammer that hits the blank. What is to be knocked out is fragile iron filings, and what is to be forged is a sharp steel knife. -Chekhov 2 1. Adversity inevitably promotes the development of human wisdom mineral deposits. Powder needs pressure to ignite. -Dumas 22. If we have accepted the worst, we have nothing to lose. Carnegie is 23 years old. There is only one road to the truly great realm of mankind-the road of suffering. -Einstein 24. God has put many obstacles in our way just to strengthen our will. -Tagore 25. Don't be complacent because of good luck, and don't be depressed because of bad luck. A truly strong person is good at finding shadows from prosperity, finding light from adversity, and always calibrating his goals. Ibsen is 27 years old. Life is full of thorns, and the only way we can think of is to quickly cross those thorns. -Voltaire 28. Hope is the faithful sister of bad luck. -Pushkin 29. Face adversity bravely. -Horace is 30. All happiness is not without troubles, and all adversity is not without hope. -Bacon 3 1. The difficulty is bullying. The more you fear it, the more it threatens you. The less you look at it, the more respectful it is to you. -Xuan Yongguang 32. No matter when and where, I will never allow myself to feel a little frustrated. Edison 33. With the support of a lofty goal, persistent efforts, even if slow, will certainly succeed. -Einstein 34. Ambition and perseverance are the wings of career-Goethe Since nature has caused different degrees of strength on the earth, it often uses a desperate struggle to make the weak no less than the strong. -Montesquieu 35. One of the great advantages of outstanding people is their perseverance in adverse and difficult encounters. -Beethoven 36. At any height, there is nothing beyond human reach. However, if you want to achieve your goal, you must have determination and confidence. -Andersen is 37 years old. Persistence and change can conquer any peak in the world. Dickens 38. The road to art is full of thorns, which is also a good thing. Ordinary people are afraid, except the strong-willed. Hugo 39. Advancing towards a certain goal is "ambition", and never giving up halfway is "gas". Together, the two are "ambitions." This is the success or failure of all undertakings. Carnegie is 40. All persistence will pay off sooner or later. -Anger 4 1. Steel is tempered by fire and rapid cooling. So we can get hard and not be afraid of anything. Our generation has also been tempered by struggles and terrible tests, and has learned not to give in to life. Ostrovsky is 42 years old. What is a road? In other words, it was trampled out from the place where there was no road, and it was opened up from the place where there were only thorns. -Lu Xun 43. It is only an illusion that we will never experience difficulties and twists and turns and make great efforts, and we will always be smooth sailing and easy to succeed. 44 Mao Zedong. I never knew what depression was. If I fail, I will come back. The future is created by myself. -Xu Teli 45. Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. A man of will is determined in the afternoon, but he is determined not to be afraid of things. -Ren Bish is 46 years old. When you meet a deep forest, you can turn it into a flat ground; When you meet a wilderness, you can plant trees; In the desert, you can dig Jing Quan. -Lu Xun 47. Suffering and hardship are the highest schools to temper personality. -Liang Qichao 48. Fighting against yourself is the most difficult struggle, and defeating yourself at the same time is the greatest victory. -[Germany] Rollo
[Edit this paragraph] Frustration
There is not a ship in the sea that is not injured.
Lloyd's Insurance Company of England once bought a boat from the auction market. The ship was launched on 1894, encountered icebergs 138 times in the Atlantic Ocean, hit rocks 1 16 times, caught fire 13 times, and the mast was broken by the storm 207 times. However, it never sank. Lloyd's Insurance Company finally decided to buy from the Netherlands and donate it to the country based on its incredible experience and considerable premium income. Now the ship is moored at the National Ship Museum in Salem, England. However, it was a lawyer who came here for sightseeing that made this ship famous in the world. At that time, he had just lost a lawsuit and his client committed suicide not long ago. Although this is not the first time that he failed in his defense or committed suicide, he always feels guilty whenever such a thing happens. He doesn't know how to comfort these people who have suffered misfortune in business. When he saw the ship in the Salem Ship Museum, he suddenly had an idea, why not let them visit the ship? So, he copied the history of the ship and hung it in his law office together with the photo of the ship. Whenever a business client comes to him for defense, he doesn't care whether he wins or loses, and suggests that they go to see the boat. It lets us know that no ship can sail at sea without injury.
Papermaker
In Germany, a paper-making worker accidentally made a mistake in the formula when producing paper, and produced a batch of unwritten waste paper. Therefore, he was fired by his boss. Just when he was frustrated and sad, one of his friends advised him, "Everything has two sides. You might as well look at it from another angle, maybe you can find something useful from your mistakes. " So, he found that the water absorption performance of this batch of paper is quite good, and it can absorb the water on household appliances. Then, he cut the paper into small pieces, named it "absorbent paper" and sold it in the market, which was very popular. Later, he applied for a patent and made a fortune specializing in the production of absorbent paper.
The story of the donkey
One day, a farmer's donkey accidentally fell into a dry well, and the farmer racked his brains to save the donkey. A few hours later, the donkey was still wailing in the well. Finally, the farmer decided to give up. He thinks the donkey is old and it is not worth the trouble to save it, but the well must be filled up anyway. So the farmer asked his neighbors for help and buried the donkey in the well together to avoid the donkey's pain. "Began to shovel dirt into the well. When the donkey realized his situation, it began to cry sadly. Unexpectedly, it soon quieted down. Everyone looked at the bottom of the well curiously. What appeared in front of them surprised them: "When the shoveled dirt fell on the donkey's back, it shook off and stood on the pile of dirt." In this way, the donkey rose to the wellhead step by step and then stood on the mound.
Barene who overcomes disability.
Barene was disabled by illness when she was a child, and her mother felt like a knife, but she endured grief. She thinks that what children need most now is encouragement and help, not mother's tears. Mother came to Barone's sickbed, took his hand and said, "Son, mother believes that you are an ambitious person. I hope you can bravely walk on the road of life with your own legs! Good Barene, can you promise your mother? " Mother's words hit Barene's heart like a hammer. He threw himself into his mother's arms and burst into tears. Since then, whenever my mother is free, she will practice walking and doing gymnastics for Barene, and she is often so tired that she sweats. Once my mother caught a bad cold. She felt that a mother should not only teach by example, but also set an example. Despite her high fever, she got out of bed as planned to help Barene practice walking. Soybean-like sweat dripped from her mother's face. She wiped with a dry towel, gritted her teeth, and helped Barene finish the exercise plan for the day. Physical exercise makes up for the inconvenience caused by disability to Barene. His mother's example deeply educated Barone, and he finally withstood the severe blow of fate. He studies hard and his academic performance has always been among the best in his class. Finally, he was admitted to the Medical College of Vienna University with excellent results. After graduating from college, Barene devoted all her energy to the research of otology. Finally, I finally got on the podium of the Nobel Prize in Physiology and Medicine.
Struggle is struggle.
When Zeeman was a child, his consciousness of reading was not high, and his grades were always average. Zeeman's mother was very anxious to see her son's performance. One day, she called her son to her side, looked him in the eye and said excitedly, "Son, I knew you were a mediocre and incompetent person, and you shouldn't have struggled in the waves at the beginning ..." Then, she recalled the past to the silent Zeeman: when Zeeman was about to be born, her hometown was suddenly hit by a flood, and she escaped and boarded a boat. Zeeman was born here. After listening to her mother's memories, Zeeman realized that her mother had experienced difficulties and was deeply shocked. She secretly vowed to study hard and never let her down. Hard work pays off, and he finally won the appreciation of the school with excellent results and was hired as a teaching assistant by the school. When he went to visit his mother in high spirits, she was very ill and dying. Before she died, she looked at Zeeman with affectionate eyes and her lips trembled with difficulty. "Struggle, earn and plunge!" He died suddenly after leaving this last sentence. Struggle is struggle. Struggle, struggle again, not satisfied with the status quo, always struggle. Zeeman took his mother's words to heart. He has been hanging a small golden photo frame embedded with his mother's portrait on his chest. When encountering difficulties and setbacks, he stared at his mother's portrait and recalled her inculcation to increase his courage to overcome difficulties. Zeeman struggles on the road of science, and struggles again! Finally, he reached the peak that ordinary people can't reach. 1902, Zeeman won the Nobel Prize in Physics.
An article about setbacks.
Life is a long journey. There are smooth avenues and rugged paths; There are brilliant flowers and dense thorns. Everyone will encounter setbacks in this journey, and I always believe that the value of life is to overcome setbacks and get out of the ups and downs! If you fall, don't beg others to help you up; If you lose it, don't ask others to find it for you. Everyone has a different view of losing. And I think the so-called loss is the frustration in life, you know, it is inevitable! Just in that confused and inaction day, I wonder if you have seen the pine and cypress standing upright under the haze and the twinkling stars on the night road; I don't know if you have ever thought that a firm belief can overcome failure. Losing doesn't mean you are worse than others; Failure does not mean that you will never succeed; Losing doesn't mean that you have come to the end of your life. Smart people tell you that the end of failure is often the starting point of success. As long as you dare to face up to failure and struggle bravely, you will certainly pick a successful flower-that wonderful flower in the distant horizon. Life is like a rushing sea. Without islands and reefs, it is difficult to stir up beautiful waves. Lose, driven by failure! Young people should have a broad mind and never care about trivial trauma. Even if life has 1000 reasons to make you cry, you should give life 10000 reasons to smile. "Rain or wind is better than walking around." Only in this way can we maintain a balanced mentality, go through hardships with our own fighting spirit, and go forward with the lofty sentiments of "catching the bright moon in nine days and catching the tortoise in five oceans". Regardless of prosperity and adversity, we must face it calmly; Regardless of gains and losses, we must accept it calmly. I think this is the way of life of our young people. I think the road is at my feet, no matter how dim the past is, no matter how prosperous the future is, all the past is based on the present and all the future is based on the present! Losing is not terrible. In order to pursue our ideals, we should fly and accept the baptism of wind and rain. In order to realize our long-cherished wish in life, we should fly to meet the spring breeze and sunrise. Although our fragile wings may be hurt, we must fly far away. Youth is like a burning flame, a blazing red sun. Let's work together to describe the style of the new century with youth, to understand the true meaning of life, and to write the music of life! (2) It is good to have friends, so why meet strangers? When you first meet online, you may just want a spring breeze, but friends in space give you the whole spring. Warm greetings, sincere concern, considerate understanding, original and incisive opinions and sincere enlightenment are all a kind of friendship that appreciates the sincere efforts of others. When you are frustrated, talking to your intimate friends can help you get psychological counseling, otherwise this depression will make people sick. No medicine can cure heart disease unless you have a close friend. Because only to friends can we talk about our troubles and happiness. All the burdens that weigh on our hearts are shared by the shoulders of friendship. A mind, a treasure, is loved and recognized by everyone. This shared happiness is beyond words. You and I smile between our fingers and in the gaze of our hearts. It is an unforgettable pleasure brought by the feelings of close friends. A small space is like an unconstrained world. Everyone can listen to each other, encourage each other, comfort each other and show tenderness everywhere. A friend is an umbrella. Without friends, it is like a person walking in the rain without an umbrella, but silently suffering from the pain in his heart. Friends are a kind of spiritual communication, and you may get unexpected happiness in the impact of language. Memories and imagination drove away loneliness, and a cavity of tenderness also fell to the ground. The balance of mind brings humility and tolerance, so human nature is good and the world is better. Originally, the world should be like this. Every time my fingers tap the keyboard, it seems that the whole person is immersed in the fragrance of fragrant teas. It's good to have friends! Friends are as touching as meeting a bosom friend, which makes people unforgettable for a long time.