1. There are three qualities to a person: he can hold his breath, he can bend down, and he can hold his head up

A person’s strongest trump card is actually his character. Learn how to behave and be kind. Only by doing things reliably can you go further. Anyone who achieves success cannot do without the following three valuable qualities.

Yigui: Keep your composure

Only when you do things with composure can you become great. What does it mean to be able to keep your composure?

As the saying goes, things without emotions are objects, those with emotions are people, and those who can control their emotions well are characters. In life, it is impossible for us to have everything go our way. We will always encounter some difficulties and grievances. Sometimes when we encounter annoying things, we can't help but want to lose our temper. Losing our temper is a human instinct, and learning to control our temper is a skill. Sometimes just after losing your temper, in retrospect it is actually a trivial matter that is not worth mentioning. The temper comes and goes quickly, and sometimes you will regret it when you think about it. When can you see a person's noble qualities, that is his attitude when he encounters troubles and difficult things. A mature person knows how to control his emotions. When he is happy, he will not get carried away, and when he is sad, he will not blame anyone but others. Being low-key and calm and doing things in an orderly manner is a sign of composure.

The second noble: being able to bend down

Being able to bend down and know how to give in is a kind of wisdom in life.

When looking at people, you need to look at the details. Being able to bend down means that when you meet someone who is weaker than you, your attitude towards the weak reflects your quality. When you meet someone who is worse than you, don't look down on others and learn to restrain yourself. Only by being sharp and knowing how to give in can you win the true respect from others.

To be able to bend down is to learn to be down-to-earth, instead of being high-minded and low-handed. The ancients once said: "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world." You don't want to do this, and you don't want to do that. What can you do? Many people who are successful in their careers have grown their business from small to big bit by bit. No one can succeed casually. Don’t think about getting fat in one bite. Haste makes waste, and you should start with small things. , you can do great things only after you develop your mentality and abilities.

Sangui: Being able to hold one’s head up

Being able to hold one’s head up is an expression of a person’s inner self-confidence, and it can also better see the facts and the future. The raised head symbolizes optimism and open-mindedness.

Have you ever noticed in life that positive and sunny people bring their own light wherever they go? Why is this? Because sunflowers all know how to grow toward the sun, let alone people! Everyone likes to deal with positive and sunny people, because confident and optimistic people are full of positive energy and high-spirited. When you are with such people, you can face the hardships and difficulties of life positively instead of escaping from reality. It's hard to change a person's appearance, but one's aura and temperament can be cultivated slowly, so you must learn to raise your head and straighten your back. If a person doesn't even look down on himself, others will definitely look down on you. , so in addition to working hard to improve your abilities, you must also learn to adjust your mentality, maintain an optimistic and open-minded attitude at all times, and raise your head to face the beauty and challenges of daily life.

Stay away from people with negative energy in life, so that your life can be better. If you meet people with these three qualities around you, spend more time with such people, and you can learn a lot of wisdom in life and doing things. , if you don’t ask yourself to cultivate these three qualities, if you are excellent, others will take the initiative to come to you, be calm, bend down, raise your head, and encourage you!

Compassion does not lead soldiers, righteousness does not support wealth, and love does not establish affairs... (It is so well said)

2. "Compassion does not lead soldiers, love does not lead to success." "Don't make things happen", this is a famous saying of the ancients when leading troops.

As Sun Tzu said: "Those who are thick but cannot be used, those who love but cannot be commanded, those who are chaotic but cannot be controlled are like arrogant men who cannot be used." People who have been good at using military force since ancient times all know this truth.

This does not mean that you should treat your subordinates with a black face, but that at the critical moment, you must not miss important events because of the kindness of women. As the saying goes, raising an army for a thousand days, using it for a moment, and doing it for a "moment" At this time, the commander-in-chief must have a steely will and determination to command and act, and must not ruin the overall situation because of being soft-hearted.

The shopping mall is like a battlefield: In the shopping mall, the same requirements are - "Compassion does not control soldiers, justice does not control wealth, and emotion does not establish affairs"!

1. Those who have strict requirements on you A leader is a good leader who can truly help you grow. Those who make me suffer will make me strong!

2. No powerful company will give its subordinates a sense of security. It will use the cruelest method to inspire everyone to become stronger and strive for self-improvement!

3. Any company that tries to give its subordinates a sense of security will be destroyed, because no matter how powerful a person is, he will lose his wolf nature in a docile environment!

4. Any company that tries every means to bring out the capabilities of its employees and develop their potential will continue to rise, because in this environment, it will either become a wolf or be eaten by the wolf!

5. The company that gives its employees the least sense of security actually gives them a real sense of security, because it forces them to become stronger and grow, and because of this they have a future!

6. If you really love your subordinate, assess him, demand him, set high demands, high goals, high standards, and force him to grow!

7. If you raise a group of little sheep, old fried dough sticks, and little white rabbits due to human feelings, low goals, low requirements, and low standards. This is the greatest irresponsibility to subordinates! Because it will only encourage their willfulness, jealousy and laziness.

Enlightenment: Let your subordinates grow up because of you, have a correct outlook on life, values, and perfect conduct. Allowing employees to continue to grow is the greatest love a leader has for his subordinates!

3. When a person is over 50 years old, remember one word: never forget two kinds of friends and stay away from three kinds of relatives

When a person is over 50 years old, remember one word: degree. There are rules in life, and there are limits in being a human being. Be generous and learn to be tolerant, so that the road will become broader and broader, and talents will become happier; speak in moderation, know how to handle things, do not do things until they are full, do not say enough, and leave a way out for yourself.

There is a rule in life and a degree in conduct. Be generous and learn to be tolerant

No matter how deep the friendship is, you must be measured; no matter how good the relationship is, you must keep distance. If you are far away, you will be harmed, if you are close, you will be repulsed. The most comfortable distance is neither far nor close. Respect other people's privacy, do not hurt other people's self-esteem, and do not dictate others' lives.

No matter how deep the friendship is, there must be moderation; no matter how good the relationship is, there must be distance.

When you are over 50, you should never forget the two kinds of friends. Don’t forget the friends who never leave you in your most difficult times. It is easy to add icing on the cake, but difficult to provide charcoal in the snow. When you are prosperous and prosperous, if you have wine, meat and brothers, those who stay by your side are not necessarily fake ones. When you are poor and destitute, those who stay by your side must be real people.

It is easy to add icing on the cake, but difficult to provide help in times of crisis

Don’t forget the friend who stabbed you in the back, I believe you will never forget it. Sometimes, we are caught off guard and find a stabbing pain in our back. When we look back, we find that the person who hurt us is our dearest person and best friend.

The truer the love, the deeper the hurt. It is only because of the intrigues in reality, and because I have misjudged the wrong person. You will gain wisdom from every experience. Only say a few words to people when you meet them, and never give up your whole heart. Friends, make them lightly and deal with them slowly, so that they can last long.

Friends, make them lightly and deal with them slowly, so that they can last forever.

When people are over 50, they stay away from three kinds of relatives. Selfish relatives. Take advantage and suffer no loss. You can't be too smart or too stupid. Some people say that hardship is a blessing. If you endure hardship for a long time, you will feel aggrieved.

Snobby relatives. There are rich and poor relatives, and people always like to fawn over the rich and ignore the poor. In their minds, the rich have benefits, while the poor may be implicated, wishing they were strangers to each other.

Relatives of the bottomless pit. Even among relatives, it is a matter of affection to help, and it is a duty not to help. They take other people's help for granted. Once they do not get what they want, they will look at each other with cold eyes. A small kindness will nourish the noble, and a big kindness will nourish the enemy.

When you are poor, no one cares about you in the busy city, but when you are rich, you have distant relatives in the mountains!