A family of three will be taken back by the company at any time, and there is only a staff dormitory of more than 3 square meters; Husband's monthly salary is just enough to eat and drink, and sometimes it takes a long time to think about buying a better toy for his child. A family of three has not bought clothes for half a year, and the children's clothes are still given by relatives ... If it weren't for the occasional help from their parents, they would have no place to live.
why does the classmate family live so hard? Because the couple refused to change the status quo and work hard. My classmate's husband clung to a factory with declining efficiency and refused to leave, just because the job was easy and there was no need to work overtime. As for my classmates, they don't want to go out to work after giving birth. It's not that I haven't been to work, but that every job is too hard.
I went to the factory for a few days, saying that I often have to work night shifts, and I can't stand staying up late to work overtime;
I went to the supermarket as a cashier, saying that one stop is a whole day, and my back is sore and my legs are numb.
go to an insurance company to sell insurance; It is said that it depends on the customer's face, and the sales pressure is too great to stand;
No job can make her feel relaxed, so she just doesn't go to work.
But, which job in this world is not hard? Born as a man, if you don't want to suffer from work, you must suffer from life.
why do many people prefer to eat the bitterness of life rather than struggle?
Because the bitterness of life will give people the illusion that they can bear hardships. Many people are proud to eat the bitterness of life, and think that they "can be a master only if they eat the bitterness", and even paraphrase Mencius' famous saying that "Heaven will drop a great responsibility to the people of Sri Lanka, and they must first suffer from their minds, work hard on their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, empty their bodies, and confuse their actions ..." Well, people are very good at deceiving themselves. As everyone knows, this is an excuse for people to be lazy and unwilling to struggle.
If you live at the bottom of life for a long time and get used to the hardships of life, it is easy to satisfy the status quo. Just like boiling frogs in warm water, after a long time, people become numb and muddle along.
In fact, they know that as long as they work hard, they can hope to change the status quo and bid farewell to the hard life.
But the struggle is full of unknowns. I'm not sure how much suffering I have to suffer to live the life I want. They prefer to choose the bitterness of life that they can see, to remain poor, to complain all day, and to try the bitterness of struggle that will bring them changes.
so they continue to eat the bitterness of life!
There is a hot article on the Internet, "Never choose comfort at the age when you can bear hardships most". Suffering here refers to the hardships of work and struggle. Missed the most difficult experience in life, and let yourself live worthless at a young age. Even if you don't care, you have to consider your family's life!
you can live in poverty, but who should you go to when your parents are ill and need money badly? Whether to beg grandpa to sue grandma for raising money or to regret that I didn't struggle earlier;
When your other half wants you to take her out for a trip, do you get angry and scold her for not being able to live at home, or are you secretly ashamed that you didn't struggle earlier?
When your child wants to enroll in an interest class, do you cheat the child that all the interest classes are for fun, and he can't learn anything, or do you immediately think of trying to give the child a good learning environment?
Some hardships in life are obstacles for you to get used to, and for children, they are obstacles to your vision and spiritual growth.
I don't want to suffer the hardships of life, and I don't want my family to suffer with it. So I chose to eat the bitter struggle!
My cousin, who graduated from high school, came to Shanghai alone with 2 yuan. In ten years, from a small restaurant waiter to a company boss. There are no nobles, no affairs, no ups and downs, only down-to-earth struggle and firm determination.
I have slept in the basement which is sultry in summer and cold in winter, and has no light all year round; Interview five or six families a day, frequently rejected; Encountered a lot of enthusiasm and cynicism, and he had only enough money left to eat steamed bread ... All the pains I could think of and unexpected ones happened to him.
my cousin said that I am not afraid of suffering from work, but from life, because it will make my family suffer with me. Because the poor can bear so many eyes, why can't they bear the pain of struggle? What's more, struggle will bring a good quality of life to their families.
to be honest, suffering from struggle will make people feel more at ease. You will feel that every day is full and guided by a hope. Eating the bitterness of life will only make people live in a daze, like ants falling into a deep well.
if you don't want to continue to suffer from the hardships in life, then try to start changing!
Set a goal for yourself, get up early, exercise, learn new skills, and start to make up whatever you lack.
I know it will be a difficult start, but if you want to spend your time gossiping with others, why don't you take this time to exercise;
You have plenty of time to lie in bed and watch Korean dramas, so why don't you sit up and read?
When you are sighing and complaining about the unfair fate, why don't you cheer up and study new skills?
again, I understand everything, but I'm too lazy to move!
One of the topics about hardship in Zhihu said that the real hardship is living in poverty but working hard.
Having said that, if you still think it's awesome to eat the hardships of life, then continue to be awesome! If you can't eat the bitterness of struggle, then eat the bitterness of life!