Warm, warm memories often remind me of a warm sentence: family members sit idle and the lights are amiable.
This sentence comes from the writer Wang Zengqi. Wang Zengqi's works are full of fireworks, and his words are simple and warm, which will go straight to the depths of human nature and give people relief. Because "the world loves me first, and I can't help loving it." I hope to be a gentle person, because I have been treated by gentle people and deeply feel the feeling of being treated gently. "
The first people who were gentle with him were his mother, a biological mother and two stepmother.
From Wang Zengqi's My Mother, we can see that all three mothers have high literacy, and their love for him since childhood influenced his later personality shaping and made him attractive in a high-profile life.
0 1, the kindness, tenderness and love of mothers taught Wang Zengqi a grateful heart.
There are many details in My Mother, which show that a mother's love for her children is silent dedication and no complaints.
Wang Zengqi's biological mother got lung disease and was afraid of infecting her children, so she shut herself in a small room. Even if you have no ability, even if you give up yourself, you should not hesitate to protect your child, because she is the mother.
The 80-year-old "little bride" can still remember how good Wang Zengqi's biological mother is to her, which shows that his mother is also very good to others. Mother's kindness and love will infect the child and make him an understanding lover when he grows up.
Although the stepmother is a stepmother, "mom likes me very much." Mother will "hug" me in the same van; "I" will also hold benzoin and "snuggle" in my mother's arms. A hug can express a mother's love for her children to the fullest. Wang Zengqi's maternal love lost due to the death of his biological mother has been made up, and the recovered love will make children feel cherished and satisfied. He will be grateful and will always remember.
"When I was in elementary school, I couldn't hold my stool and pulled it in my pants. Without saying anything, my stepmother quickly boiled water to wash my ass. Help clean up again, let me sit around the quilt. Then wash my underwear and brush my cotton trousers. Not only did she not say a word about me, but she didn't even frown. " You didn't even frown. This is your stepmother.
Love has no boundaries, only details. The details of love are based on kindness, and a kind and loving mother is very important to what kind of person the child will become in the future.
Kindness and gratitude will let go of suffering.
Only with love and respect can we feel warm and face suffering with confidence.
Among my mothers, his third stepmother, the stone man's mother, is very polite to the children. She called Wang Zengqi a "gentleman". Although "Mr" is just a name, it will make junior Wang Zengqi feel concerned and valued, and his heart is warm, happy and confident.
Politeness is the basis of respect, and love is produced under the interaction of mutual respect.
He also respects and appreciates the mother of stone lovers. It was the stone man's mother who accompanied his father through a long and difficult time.
Those who are still with us in difficult times are a beam of light that shines into our lives. This beam of light is hope, which supports us to have the courage to face suffering.
03, my mother told Wang Zengqi that there is another explanation for suffering, and seeking happiness in difficulties is a kind of interest and hope.
After her biological mother fell ill, she was trapped in a small room. She not only practiced writing "big" in the room, but also raised many red begonia flowers. When she is in better health, she will happily shout to her neighbors through a low wall: "Little bride, come here and give you a flower to wear."
Because the mother knows that the child is waiting for her outside the house, she can't see her son until she is well, and she is very happy to expect love.
Taking pains and having fun is another life inspiration that Mr. Wang Zengqi got from his mother.
No matter what kind of adversity, we must maintain our love for life and fight against the cold fate with subtle warmth, because hope is ahead and hope will be beautiful.
Therefore, when Wang Zengqi was in the rural agricultural college for labor reform, he started a pigsty, planed pig manure, carried grain, and went to the orchard to sow seeds. Every day, he is dirty and tired, but in hard days, he tries his best to have fun. He will compare the fungicide in the orchard to "a beautiful sky blue"; He will be happy to pick a big mushroom, because he can make a bowl of soup for his family.
He wrote in Plants on Earth: "If you come to visit me and I am not here, please sit outside my door with Hua for a while. They are very warm. I have been observing them for many, many days. "
Someone commented: Wang Zengqi is like a sugar squeezer, funny and playful. No matter how hard his life is, it also makes people feel My Sweetie's.
In adversity, we should learn to let go of suffering, find beauty, and make life full of sunshine and hope everywhere.
04, finally
The writer said of Wang Zengqi: "I love reading Wang Zengqi. When the first mate doesn't like me, reading two pages of Wang Zengqi will make people feel useless; When my hot wife bullied me, I read two pages of Wang Zengqi's book, so I was relieved and let him be willful. "
Yes, Wang Zengqi has such personality charm.
He is interesting, loving and warm, he is transparent and open-minded, and his heart is stable. He is neither sad nor happy about life, nor resentful or angry. He is an enthusiastic and optimistic person. He thinks people live happily. He said, "You must love something in life."
Learn to be grateful, let go and be simple. No matter how much suffering you encounter, you will be confident and happy. These high-level consciousness should come from his loving mothers who told Wang Zengqi that as long as there is love, the world is worth it.
Because of my mother, we are worth it.