Kindness is a virtue in life, but kindness also depends on the target, the occasion, and principles. In other words, your kindness must be a bit sharp, and you cannot treat certain people or certain people. Be too kind, otherwise you will put yourself in a very embarrassing situation and be easily hurt.

1. In most people’s impressions, kindness means tolerance and tolerance. If you show your edge, you will be considered unkind. But in fact, kindness can be full of edge. The reason why I say this is because kindness is conditionally beautiful, tolerance has a bottom line, and kindness itself is principled.

2. If you help anyone who comes, others will take it as a matter of course; if you give in without any bottom line, others will push you further; if you give without reservation, others will ask endlessly. If you have been a good person for a long time, others will think you are a coward; if you have too many smiling faces, you will become accustomed to illness. There is not so much that is natural and not that much that should be taken for granted. Don't take others' kindness to you for granted. I am willing to pamper you, and you have to understand the general idea.

3. People’s kindness must be measured, and people’s tolerance must be measured. Being kind to others, being humble and courteous is a good thing. But being soft-hearted without boundaries will only allow the taker to gain more; giving in without principles will only allow the bully to do whatever he wants. Your kindness must be a bit sharp. If you are used to silence, used to wronging yourself, used to not rejecting everyone, you will forget that you can actually have an attitude, you can have a bottom line, and you can have your own life without being disturbed.

4. But we know that for most kind people, they are willing to be with others and get along well. And they are unwilling to do things that hurt each other. Even those who have hurt her before, they will want to help each other. Even for those who have hurt them, they will take the initiative to care and love each other for the problems and difficulties they encounter. I believe that through the actions of these kind people.