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There is a famous saying:

No matter who you meet, he is the right person; no matter what happens, he is the only one What will happen; no matter which moment it begins, it is the right moment; whatever is over, it is over. If things go against your wishes, please believe that this is all for the best.

People should always maintain a happy-go-lucky attitude, because we don’t know what will happen tomorrow. Therefore, maintaining a good attitude and adapting to changes is the wisest way to live.

The journey of life began when Su Dongpo became successful as a young boy. He spent his whole life in exile across nine states and across the sea, living in no fixed place, only hungry and lonely. Who could put his whole life, distant, indefinite, desolate and exiled life on the water? In a poor place, sit and watch the clouds rise. To live like "the taste of the world is pure joy", maybe there is no other person except Su Dongpo. It is true that the mentality determines the fate, and everything is the best arrangement.

Su Dongpo lived his whole life in a coop of mist and rain. Looking back at the desolate place, there was neither wind, rain nor sunshine. I give time a smile, and time gives me tenderness. He took the adversities in life very lightly and turned them into poems, which were passed down to future generations and admired by future generations.

Learn to be strong in life and everything will pass.

2014 was an eventful year for me. My father and mother passed away within four months of each other. In September of that year, I suffered another recurrence of lumbar disc disease. It was not until October that I was discharged from the hospital.

In November of that year, my wife was admitted to the hospital for treatment due to gallbladder stones and received conservative treatment. A week later, she was discharged from the hospital and the disease recurred that night. She was admitted to the hospital again and had surgery that night.

I really felt tired and helpless that year, but if I think about the fact that life has to go on, I have to accept reality, solve problems, and face tomorrow.

Only when a person has experienced many things can he have a deeper understanding of life, and only through hardships and hardships can he mature faster.

I once saw a saying, "It's not difficult to live one day at a time."

At the end of darkness is light. There is no way out in the mountains and rivers, but there is another village with dark willows and bright flowers. Therefore, stay curious about the world. No matter how painful it is, don’t compromise and escape. Take a positive approach and it will definitely pass!

How many people have been unable to withstand the successive blows in life. They often feel that they are the most unfortunate people in the world, the most unlucky people, and feel that they have no hope for life. Later, when they become someone else After becoming parents, they bravely live for their children and the people they love.

A reader left a message saying:

Although I have never been a lucky person, I love life, have a wide range of interests, love learning, and like small animals, so I can always Give yourself a reason to live. The winter in the north is very cold. I started feeding stray cats and sparrows this year. When I saw them happily eating the food I prepared for them outside the window, my heart was filled with warmth and touch.

Tagore said: "The suffering you suffer today, the losses you suffer, the responsibilities you bear, the sins you bear, and the pain you endure will all turn into light in the end and illuminate your way."

You always have to face things when you encounter them. The setbacks you encounter when you are young and the losses you suffer will always be given back to you in another form in the days to come. Now you have suffered a loss and suffered financial losses. You need to adjust this by yourself, and you will gain wisdom every time you go through it. This is essential in life!

Every time you encounter an obstacle, you can think like this: God may have arranged a better result for you. You just need to keep working hard and wait for the result quietly. To you who have been working hard, one day you can get what you want, go where you want to go, do what you want to do, and be a truly willful person.

There is no unstoppable path for man, so long as the clouds open and the moon shines. Please believe that as long as we wait patiently and live seriously, we will all meet a better life.

Thank you for not giving up yet.