A girl went to a restaurant to eat and accidentally broke the tableware. Just at a loss, the young female shopkeeper came over and said kindly, "Little sister, it's nothing if the tableware is broken." Nothing old or new can go. "
The little girl was moved to tears and repeatedly said, "I'm sorry!" " "
The mother of the shopkeeper doesn't quite understand why she doesn't pay for breaking things. The daughter told her mother about the same problem she had when she was a waiter:
When she was washing dishes, she accidentally broke the plate and cut her hand. I'm worried that the female boss will lose her temper and make herself pay for the tableware. I don't want to. Not only was the female boss not angry, but she also asked her if she was in pain with concern, and she personally bandaged her wound without mentioning compensation.
Life is like this. No matter what you do, whether you are a company executive or a colleague, you will have a harmonious working atmosphere only if you have "empathy". Good interpersonal relationship. The work will be smooth and smooth, and the performance will double.
On the contrary, if you can't do this, you can't succeed in your career if the leaders are high above you or narrow-minded Relationships can be a mess.
The main connotation of this foundation includes the supremacy of understanding, mutual tolerance, learning to respect and care for each other. Look at the problem from others' point of view. For example, we live in a peaceful environment every day. Work and family are very warm and happy. However, behind us, it is the silent dedication of the PLA, the officers and men of the Armed Police and the people's police that enables us to live and work in peace and contentment and lead a happy life.
For example, how happy we are to walk on the clean way to and from work every day. At this time, we should think that this is the result of the hard work of countless sanitation workers.
Therefore, when we enjoy a happy life in this big social family, we must not forget how many people behind us have made efforts and made silent contributions.
Understand the problem, understand and tolerate each other, and the road of life will be bright. This is "empathy".
Confucius said, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." In other words, if you don't want to do something you don't like, don't impose it on others, thinking that others don't like it as much as you do, and the result will be boring.
When dealing with people in life, you should learn to put yourself in others' shoes and think from others' perspective. This is a quality that every smart person must have. Only by really facing the problem, standing in the perspective of others and thinking for others, will your popularity get better and better.
If a person doesn't know how to put himself in the other's shoes, he is always self-centered and thinks only of himself, and will eventually be ignored by the people around him.
"Empathy" is the premise and foundation of being a man and doing things. Let people calm down and face the reality objectively and calmly. Proceed from reality, seek truth from facts, integrate theory with practice, analyze concrete problems, grasp the main contradiction, and all secondary contradictions will be solved.
"Transposition" is the conscious behavior of conscious people, reasonable people and people who deeply understand each other in their career, family and husband and wife's life. Transposition can dispel all the haze and fog in life, so as to get a clear sky.
Be an upright person and be honest with each other. Only in this way can we win the recognition and respect of each other.
Life is more about "empathy", respecting, understanding and tolerating others. This is the best quality of a person.
"Empathy", although the reason is simple, is really understood, practiced and benefited a lot.