In life, twists and turns, hardships and failures are inevitable. It is often said that failure is not terrible, but being defeated by failure is terrible. However, after all, most people are "mortals". In this vast world of more than six billion people, how many people can really be defeated by failure at any time?

Many people take some famous aphorisms as their motto, saying that this thing can always remind themselves to be serious and optimistic when they fail ... but when things go wrong, what do we think of first? Is that a motto? For most people, it should not be, but hiding, crying and even venting. This is not because their self-control is too low, but because people are emotional animals first, and then "the spirit of all things." Even the world's top athletes, although their will has been tempered and they are well trained in emotional management, are inevitably frustrated, overwhelmed and disorganized because of a temporary mistake, so that the coach has to ask for a "time-out".

When failure comes, who won't be sad to see their labor go down the drain and hope go up in smoke? "People are not vegetation, who can be ruthless?" ? It is impossible to force everyone to be as strong as steel and as calm as a mountain. At this time, we should say to ourselves: "Oh, don't get excited, pause ..."

In this unpredictable world, sometimes we really should calm down and pause: let actions stop temporarily, let feelings stop temporarily, and let thoughts stop temporarily. This "pause" is not a collapse, but an emotional adjustment and a rational return. Is to calm down and think about how to save your failure.

Being strong is an excellent quality; Pause is indispensable wisdom.

When failure comes unexpectedly, when you are flustered, when you are overwhelmed by the maze of choice, give yourself a gesture-pause.