Text: Master Juggernaut Meow
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Let me tell you a story first: In a prosperous maritime forest, there is a little angel kindergarten that is quite famous. Bunny mothers are proud to send their children to this kindergarten.
Little Angel Kindergarten claims to have a strong relationship with the world’s largest League of Friends of Women. The management is appointed by the maritime branch of the League of Friends of Women. The principal and teachers are very professional. They are like rabbits. Mothers love children just as much. Whoever sends their children here will win at the starting line!
Indeed, the first-class school buildings and standard indoor facilities made the mothers who finally sent their children here feel very happy and happy: "Oh my god! Ula! _Mani Paimi_!" You can rest assured this time! "Of course you should pay a first-class fee for this!
However, however? Not long after, a rabbit mother discovered that the little rabbit she picked up from the kindergarten had some inexplicable scars on her body. The teacher said nonchalantly that the child had caused the injury; and An attentive mother discovered that her baby's little mouth sometimes smelled like mustard. Isn't it okay for kindergartens to feed their children sashimi? In the face of doubtful inquiries, the principal always smiled and said with an unpredictable expression, "Guess?"
Guess? You can guess the heart of a woman, but you can't guess the cruelty of the perpetrator!
What is even more depressing is that the children cry and do not want to go to the "model kindergarten" that claims to have everything for the children, as if there is something terrifying waiting for them there.
But parents have to go to work. Besides, where can we let our children lose at the starting line? So, she ruthlessly sent the child to the hands of an aunt who was both young and gentle.
Until one day, a video was posted online, and they didn’t know that Mother Rabbit had turned into Grandma Wolf, and her children were severely abused in Little Angel Kindergarten! Some children even have to see a psychiatrist for psychological treatment?
Don’t think I’m talking about fairy tales. Fairy tales in winter are not beautiful!
When kindergarten becomes a den of tigers and wolves, what will happen to the immature and helpless children there? I really don’t dare to think about it!
Everyone has been to the zoo, and everyone knows the laws and games of the jungle where the weak can eat the strong; if the kindergarten also becomes a jungle, and the nursery teacher becomes a beast, in that confined space, one or two people What might happen to a three-year-old child? I really don’t want to think about it anymore!
No one knows how painful the hearts of those mothers are. I only know one thing: how painful their hearts are, the more severe the abuse of their children will be!
And the fathers of those poor children must have glaring eyes, cracked eyes, full of anger, righteous indignation, gnashing of teeth, suffocating desires, harsh words, angry and thirsty?
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I know that when angry public opinion gathers to a certain level, the Maritime Branch of the Women’s Friends League will naturally come out to distance itself, saying that Little Angel Kindergarten has nothing to do with itself; if everyone still doesn’t If you appreciate the favor, then sacrifice your soldiers to save the chariot and attack a few so-called responsible persons to show that you have been deceived. In fact, you hate evil so much that you can't tolerate a grain of sand in your eyes. You have killed Ma Su with tears and your heart can read the world as proof?< /p>
I don’t want to watch such a farce, I am more interested in: “What turned Mother Rabbit into Grandma Wolf? What turned a young woman into a human killer?”
We have to face a slightly serious topic: human nature.
Everyone has both gods and demons in them.
Divineity makes people admire, make people know awe, understand right and wrong, be able to restrain themselves, and not dare to do anything wrong.
The demonic nature makes people arrogant, arrogant, extravagant and daring, without any fear.
A heart that lacks awe and restraint breeds arrogance and willfulness.
The female teacher in yellow in the Arrogant Envoy video doesn’t know how high the world is. She acts like “I am the master of my world” and does not believe or acknowledge that there are such things as heavenly principles, conscience, and retribution in the world. ; She thinks she is the queen in that confined space, she can be as violent as she wants, and she can do whatever she wants!
That push, pull, and take off are so skillful and natural. I don’t know how many children it has been used on, how many times it has been used, and how many children have suffered from this. Terrified and woke up from her dream? Of course, there is another thing she doesn't know: in addition to the camera above her head, there is also God who does not allow good and evil to be reversed and right and wrong confused!
The bullying scene she proudly staged in that confined space brought nightmare harm to the child that may be difficult to get rid of in a lifetime, but she also destroyed herself with her own hands!
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“You can still be saved if you do evil by God, but you can’t live if you do evil by yourself.”
Out-of-control demonic nature opens the way to destruction, although it The initial section of the road looks very comfortable and tempting, giving people the illusion that "the sky is high and birds can fly", but the final result, without exception, will lead to a loss of mind and spirit, like a devil.
The fundamental reason why people turn on the demonic nature is that their psychological energy is exhausted. When a person's spiritual power drawn from the bright side is exhausted, he will draw strength from the darkest side deep in his heart. .
Many legendary guardians in Europe and America fell in this way. The most famous one is Medivh, the guardian in World of Warcraft. He guarded Karazhan all his life. In the end, his mind was invaded by Sacras. Led the orc army to Azeroth.
He has a famous saying, loneliness is the most fatal thing, it makes us vulnerable.
But what is this debilitating loneliness?
This kind of loneliness has a term in psychology called "psychological exhaustion".
The concept of "psychosomatic exhaustion syndrome" first appeared in the early 1970s, by Herbert J. Freudenberger, a psychoanalyst in New York, USA. . Freudenberger) proposed.
At that time, Freudenberger noticed that his once extremely satisfying job was now making him feel tired and lost. Later, he noticed that as time went by, many doctors around him became depressed and cynical, and became more and more cold and indifferent to patients.
There have been many domestic studies on early childhood teacher burnout, psychological exhaustion, and emotional exhaustion in recent years. Researchers used the Preschool Teacher Burnout Inventory (MBI-ES Scale) to conduct a survey on more than 400 early childhood teachers in Shandong. The survey found that preschool teachers scored higher than the general population in three dimensions: emotional exhaustion, reduced sense of personal accomplishment, and dehumanization. Among them, rural preschool teachers, private kindergarten teachers, senior preschool teachers, and low-income preschool teachers had more problems. To be obvious.
Researchers believe that kindergarten teachers’ emotional exhaustion is closely related to their lack of social support. If their remuneration is not guaranteed, staffing issues are not resolved, work pressure is greater than their emotional endurance, and they do not receive support from the school, then the probability of them exhibiting abnormal behavior is very high.
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The psychology of preschool children is still in a very sensitive but ignorant period. In popular terms, children of this age group are often "confused", regardless of language. Expression, logical thinking, or behavior cannot be compared with a "normal person".
Therefore, communicating with a kindergarten child costs much more than communicating with a primary school student! For example, if a child in kindergarten is bullied, he may only cry, not necessarily tell what happened, and sometimes lie inadvertently.
If a teacher wants to accurately handle disputes between children, he must first figure out what exactly happened. Faced with a child who is out of control and incoherent, through communication and dialogue, he can finally figure out the ins and outs of the matter, and finally resolve the dispute. This process needs to be much more complicated than that of a primary school student who has basically formed his ideas. In addition to requiring the teacher's brain power, this also requires time.
However, children's emotional problems are not the main problem. The problem more often comes from the educational orientation of "parents have the right to be the master" and the school's principle of "keeping things quiet".
So, the guardian fell like this. There was a devil's voice shouting in his heart: "Look, look at what the people you sacrificed everything to help do to you. Come on! Invest in it." In my arms, you will be liberated."
At this time, the children become their toys. They can control them how they want, beat them how they want, and punish and abuse them to the best of their ability, but they have no sympathy or love. As a result of going all the way, in addition to the anger of heaven and man, the anger of humans and gods, he also put himself on the moral guillotine?
Child abuse is an unforgivable sin, and I have no intention of excusing the perpetrators. But when we are shouting hoarsely against "temporary workers", should we think about what is the trigger behind the vicious incident?
Kindergarten teachers, like Medivh, protect our most precious things, but they do not have the same power as Medivh, but like Medivh, they are always subject to the test of emotion and will.
In addition to his own inability to withstand the temptation of demons, Medivh's corruption also came from the selfishness of the Council of Mages. The Council of Mages hides in the tower, and the devil always orders the guardians to deal with it when the devil appears. They privately call the guardians "barbaric lunatics", but they require the guardians to turn in their magic power every year.
The Council always only thinks about how to drain the guardians of their magic power, how to consolidate their own power, and how to steal secrets from the guardians. They never thought about whether they had to help fight against the Burning Legion.
For this reason, the first thing the guardian wanted to destroy was not the demons, but these greedy mages. However, ordinary citizens of the human kingdom were left with corpses everywhere in this power struggle and paid a heavy price.
In an incident where regular employees stopped working, temporary workers were fired when something went wrong, and public opinion news was blocked in a flash, it cannot be justified that there is no problem in the general environment. People are just actors in this scandal. .
By the way, I am addicted to online games. I should have gone to Yang Yongxin for electroshock therapy long ago. The Guardian and the Council of Mages are all my delusions.