The quickest way to make people mature is to suffer. After suffering, people will naturally see themselves clearly, see the reality clearly and see the road clearly, which is more useful than any profound preaching.
0 1 Once in trouble, it is not easy to know sincerity.
Mr Jiang Yang once said, "When you are in a high position, all you see is a flashy dream of spring. When you are in a humble position, you have the opportunity to see the truth of the world. "
People always feel that they are surrounded by friendly people when they are proud.
Only in the trough can we really see people's hearts.
Li Mengyang, a scholar in Ming Dynasty, was brilliant since childhood. 265,438+0-year-old Jinshi, director of the household registration department.
At that time, local officials and wealthy squires came to make friends with him.
But it didn't last long. Because he is so popular, he is jealous of his spouse Zhang Yanling.
Soon after, Zhang Yanling framed him for treason. The emperor was furious and ordered him to be sent to prison.
While in prison, Li Mengyang wrote to his alcoholic friends for help.
I didn't expect that after the letter was sent, it all sank into the sea and there was no reply.
Just when he was most desperate, a man named Kang Hai, who had little contact with him before, stood up and pleaded for him everywhere.
Kang Hai found eunuch Liu Jin and promised to be his chief of staff in exchange for Li Mengyang's life.
When Li Mengyang learned about it, he couldn't help but sigh: "I didn't expect that it was the mountain (Kanghai) that saved me at last."
After getting out of prison, those friends came to you enthusiastically, but Li Mengyang refused.
He refused many banquets and invitations, and since then he has only kept in touch with a few friends, such as Kang Hai.
Time is the best filter, and time is the truest discriminator.
Those who are willing to stay with you when you are in trouble and help you when you are in trouble must treat each other sincerely.
Being bullied by life, I found reading useful.
If you haven't been to college, you must have heard many elders advise you to study more and get into a good university. Do you often feel indifferent and even think of the inspirational story of Bill Gates dropping out of school to start a business?
You know that Bill Gates dropped out of school, but you certainly don't know that Bill was already excellent in junior high school and high school.
He was admitted to Harvard University with a high score of 1590, only one point away from the perfect score. By the time of my junior year, I had already got a royalty of $654.38 +0.8 million by designing software programs.
Although there are many successful cases of dropping out of school to start a business, the reason why these successful people drop out of school is not that they are tired of learning, but that their ability is enough to achieve more dreams.
Hong Kong reality show "The Battle of the Rich".
In the first stage, according to the requirements of the program group, Tian Beichen, a rich man in Hong Kong, was invited to experience the life of a sanitation worker with an hourly wage of only HK$ 25.
He needs to live in a cage house with the lowest rent, where only one bed can be put down and there is no hot water in the room.
When he was exhausted from sweeping the street all day, he found that the income from a hard day was only enough to buy two lunches, and he had to work overtime to save enough money to go back by subway.
Because the conditions were too difficult, he only persisted for two days and then gave up.
After experiencing the bitterness at the bottom, he couldn't help feeling: "This society is severely punishing people who can't read!"
Tian Beichen's experience life just reflects the truest side of society.
Li Kuchan, a master of Chinese painting, once said, "Birds can fly high only by flapping their wings, and people can make progress only by learning." .
Think of a question I once saw on Zhihu: "Can't you really find a good job without going to school?"
I have seen such a heartfelt answer: "going to school is definitely not the only way out, but if you have no business mind and are not very talkative, then you can choose to study and have a threshold at work."
Education does not mean that there is absolutely a good way out, but without education, you may have a difficult and bumpy road to go.
Reading is a ladder to progress and a ticket to a better life.
Only when you have a serious illness do you realize that health is the most expensive.
A hundred years of life is like an instant.
Whether poor or rich, regardless of status, it is actually a past tense.
Only health is the most important thing in our life. ?
When you are sick, you will know that no one will pay for your health except yourself. ?
I still remember the actor Li Bingbing said in the program that when he was working abroad, he had a high fever of 2 1 day because of overwork and serious overdraft. ?
Finally, she had to stop filming and return to China for treatment in advance. ?
Li Bingbing said frankly: "Since I had a serious illness, I suddenly felt that my physical condition was not as good as before, and I was easily tired and had no strength, so I couldn't stand it as before.
I can't abuse myself My body will really be scrapped. "?
Therefore, after the initial recovery from a serious illness, she did not immediately enter the working state to catch up with the work progress.
Instead, I gave myself a long vacation and took good care of my body.
There is a famous saying: "There is no wealth better than health, and there is no happiness greater than inner happiness." ?
Yes, even if there is no rich life, as long as there is health, poor food is also very happy; ? Even if there is no prominent position, as long as there is health, ordinary is enough. ?
The world is big and the health is the greatest. ?
Rather than eager to have more money and fame, I hope I will be healthy all my life. ?
Because health is the greatest capital in a person's life.
Only by losing it once can we learn to cherish it.
Someone once asked the famous Japanese director Kitano Takeshi: What is your biggest regret in this life? Kitano Takeshi said: "I have been competing with my mother all my life, and finally I lost the game."
Mother's family education is very strict, but Kitano Takeshi yearns for freedom very much, and the contradiction between mother and child has been constant since childhood.
When he was a sophomore, he had a quarrel with his mother. Kitano Takeshi left home angrily and began to live alone.
For a time, he didn't have any income, not only couldn't afford to eat, but even the rent was overdue for half a year.
In order to avoid debt collection, he goes in and out through the window every time.
One day, as soon as he entered the room, he saw the landlord sitting in a chair waiting for him.
Kitano Takeshi suddenly knelt down and begged.
But I didn't expect the landlord to tell him, "When you moved here, your mother followed. She said to me, "this child is stupid and will definitely owe the rent." If he doesn't pay it in a month, come and get it from me. "
Although his mother helped him in times of difficulty, he still refused to bow his head and go home.
Only after I became famous, I paid my mother on time every month.
After so many years, until his mother died, his sister gave him a bag and a letter.
Kitano Takeshi opened it and found a savings passbook named after him.
1976 April, 300,000 yuan. 1976 July, 200,000 yuan. ……
It turns out that all the money he gave her over the years has been saved without spending a damn penny.
In the letter, my mother said: If you are a director, you may lose your job one day and you won't save money. I'll keep it for you.
Only then did Kitano Takeshi really understand how much his mother loved him.
Holding the letter, he felt remorse and finally burst into tears.
But whether it is a long-overdue apology or an expression of children's feelings, the mother will never hear it again.
In The Reader, Yolanda once read a letter with deep affection. There is a sentence in it: "Every passerby you meet casually on the road is someone that others dream of seeing."
Milk will be spilled, wallets will be lost, lovers will be separated, friendship will fade and parents will grow old.
When you ignore the people around you who love you the most because of temporary resentment and resentment, then you waste the best things in your life.
Don't wait over the mountain, only to find that no one is waiting.
Life is not long, please cherish the people who are still around you at this moment, cherish every moment, love and work hard.
Writer Teng Ping said: "I have always believed that only pain can really be remembered in this world."
What can convince a person is never the truth, but the south wall; What can awaken a person is never preaching, but suffering.
The more painful you are, the more you can wake up and mature.
As the saying goes: you don't gain wisdom by not doing something.
When you have a thorough understanding of life, when you have a clear understanding of life, you can also know how to cherish and own.