The stage can show love better than life. Because on the stage, love is always the subject of comedy and occasionally the subject of tragedy; But it has done many bad things in life; Sometimes like a siren, sometimes like rage. You may notice that among all the great and valuable people (whether ancient or modern, people still remember them), no one has reached the level of crazy love: this shows that the great spirit and great cause really shut out this weak passion. However, you must exclude Marcus Antonius, half a partner of the Roman Empire, and Appius Claudius, decemvir and legislators; The former is really a sexy person, and excessive; But the latter is a serious and wise person: therefore, love seems (though rarely) to find an entrance, not only into an open heart, but also into a guarded heart, if it is not well guarded. Epicurus famously said: "Change the big stage into a big stage"; It seems that people are born to meditate on heaven and all noble things, except kneeling in front of a little idol, making themselves a theme, although not with their mouths (like beasts), but with their eyes; This is for him for a higher purpose. It's a strange thing to notice the excess of this passion, how brave it is, and the value of things; Always exaggerating is only appropriate in love. And not just in phrases; Because there is a good saying that all small flatterers have wisdom, and flatterers are one's self; Of course, more lovers. Because there has never been a proud person who is so absurdly self-righteous as a lover; Therefore, there is a saying that it is impossible to love and be smart. This weakness not only appears in front of others, but also does not appear in front of the loved one; But the most important thing is to give to those who are loved, except the love that is returned. Because this is a true rule, love is rewarding, rewarding, or there is an inner secret competition. Love on stage is much better than love in life. Because on the stage, love is only the material of comedy and tragedy. But in life, love often brings misfortune. Sometimes it looks like a seductive witch, and sometimes it looks like a vengeance. You can see that all truly great people (whether ancient or modern, as long as their fame is forever engraved in human memory), "no one is crazy about love: because great causes suppress this feeling of weakness." Only Antony and Claudia of Rome are exceptions. The former is lascivious and dissolute, while the latter is a serious and resourceful person. Therefore, love will not only occupy an open and broad mind, but also sometimes break into a heavily guarded heart-if the defense is not strict. Pigras once said a joke: "Life is just a big stage." It seems that human beings who should strive for lofty causes should only take part in accidental amusement like doll slaves. Although the slave of love is different from the beast who only cares about eating and drinking, it is only the slave of eyes and color after all-and God gives people eyes for a higher purpose. Excessive pursuit of love will inevitably reduce the value of people themselves. For example, only in love do you need grandiose and flattering words. On other occasions, the same words can only make people laugh. There is a famous saying in the ancients: "The greatest flattery is always reserved for yourself". -only flattery to lovers is an exception. Because even the proudest person is willing to belittle himself in front of his lover. Therefore, the ancients said well: "Even God can't stay smart in love." This weakness of lover is obvious not only in the eyes of outsiders, but also in the eyes of the pursued-unless she (he) is also pursuing him (her). So, this is the price of love. If you don't get love, you will get deep contempt. This is the eternal law.