It means - your sincerity is "not worthy" of other people's sincerity. To some extent, this is an irony of unequal love (or any other relationship).

Let me briefly explain the background of the matter. The incident originated from a short video posted on the Douyin platform. Because Douyin’s unboxing videos were particularly popular some time ago, a man confidently posted a video of packing the sixth anniversary gift for his girlfriend online.

What’s just a little sad is that Douyin is a gathering place for performers and a paradise for theatergoers.

This man’s gift box is really a bit awkward. Because it was different from other exquisite gift boxes, this silly kid put the cotton-padded jacket he had worn for a year, a few boxes of Wangzai, a few small bags of snacks, and several layers of raffia into a big box. He also admitted that the box was too big.

Maybe it’s because the video keeps mentioning raffia (after all, it has been laid many times), so after watching it, most netizens only have the memory of raffia in their heads, so it is also called "Raffia" incident. In addition, this was a sixth-anniversary gift from a man to his girlfriend, so the word passed down became "six years for six layers of raffia" (if I remember correctly, it should not be six layers).

So why did it ferment to its current state? I feel that most of my thoughts are - after so many years, how many six years in life can be treated like this on such an important day? Is it really necessary for this relationship to exist?

My attitude is that there is no need to exist. What's even weirder is that many people think that this man fell into the hands of money after all. Sure enough, a girl's feelings need to be measured by money.

What I want to say about this is that it seems that you are poor and have no partner (there is a famous saying: the more people lack something, the more often they mention it. You are never without money, so you must be very short of money).

First of all, let me state that I can support myself, have a salary and parents. In the past 24 years, I have received many gifts, including cosmetics that girls like, snacks that the whole dormitory (12 people) has eaten for a month, and light transfers.

But among so many gifts, there are only two that I remember most deeply. One was two apples that my boyfriend brought by train before Christmas (he was in a different place at the time, but the train ticket was not expensive), and the other was a little doll that my college roommate bought for me with his remaining meal money (about 30 yuan). .

Is it expensive? Not expensive. Do I like it? I like it and think it is incomparable to many gifts. Sincerity deserves to be treated well~ What I like is his sincerity in personally delivering apples, and his sincerity in surprising me even though he can't afford to eat.

And as far as I am concerned, whether it is a friend or a lover, my point of view has always been - if you really like and really care, no matter how embarrassed you are, you will definitely give it. Make the other person happy, instead of taking it for granted that no matter how perfunctory it is.

So, don’t use money to talk to various circumstances. People who have no intentions deserve to be abandoned.