Basically true. This is an old saying, and it represents a common phenomenon. Of course, if I insist on taking an example, it is certainly not possible for all cases to be like this, but in most cases, it is indeed the case.

It is absolutely impossible for a child to have the same feelings for his mother and his father. The mother gave birth to her baby after 10 months of pregnancy, and the father did not have this process for the flesh on her own body. Women think about problems and things in a perceptual way, while men think in a rational way. All these factors have contributed to the fact that, normally, mothers love their children more than fathers. Of course, if you insist on saying this as an exception, it would be an exaggeration, but for most people, mothers must dote on their children more. .

Because of China’s culture, national conditions, customs, etc., the possibility of a mother living alone and never getting married is much greater than that of a father living alone. In other words, the probability of everyone being single and spending their entire lives with their children is much higher for women than for fathers.

The remarried father has another disadvantage for the remarried mother. In order to protect their own rights and interests when they grow old, stepmothers will most likely have children, but in rare cases they choose not to. Considering that the child is the flesh that fell from the mother's body, it can be simply inferred that stepmothers will inevitably love their children more by nature. After getting along for a long time, the stepmother's baby will gradually gain advantages. This is very easy to infer. Of course, if you insist on going against human nature and saying that most stepmothers are saints, then I have nothing to say. . .

The pillow wind has been blowing for 10 to 20 years, and the saints have been blown away. The vows of love we made back then were really useful, why would we want to get married again? . . Therefore, it is highly unlikely to expect the father to protect the rights of his first child.

Of course, the father will not be much kind to the baby, but the mother is the one who gave birth to the baby after all. Referring to the meat loss above, the remarried mother will be a little better than the father, although the good will be better. limited.

Based on all the above, the final conclusion comes out. Without talking about special cases and individual cases, the old saying is indeed true.