I suggest you don't do anything now, take a few days off to play, think about what to do when you have time, and don't let yourself bear such a burden when you are young and unrestrained! Believe in the power of youth, nothing can beat you as long as you want to do it! If you don't believe in yourself and me, look at it.
Hide your ideal first, so you don't have to think about it every day. Love is too expensive, because you can't afford a house; Interpersonal relationship is too hard to say; Thinking of wandering in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, you are the most wronged, uncomfortable and unfortunate generation now. Judging which generation you are from what you have done after drinking.
After 60: Stay where you are, have tea and chat.
After 70: singing karaoke.
Post-80s: Go to nightclubs.
Post-90s: A dozen people are sitting together, no one is talking, and they are all chatting with others on their mobile phones.
When I was growing up, I didn't know what news was because I was in a small border city in Inner Mongolia. We don't have news here, and we don't know what journalists do. Radio and TV university exams are easy, skipping classes is not caught, and extracurricular books are read casually.
That's why I applied. Now I'm taking an examination of Guangyuan, hoping that Tsinghua's score of Peking University can enter a popular major. I said, I bought the original shares. So many students don't think their school is a famous university, and I often tell them my story.
Peking University is awesome, not because of the students studying there now. We should use our own efforts to turn a school from a nobody into a famous school. Become the purchaser of the original shares. People buy futures, not spot. When my wife met me, I was just a lovely person. For love, this is enough.
But now we have to use the house and car to measure whether we want to have love with him. For those born after 60, even going to college is ignorant. Houses are so expensive that our generation never thought we could buy our own houses. Some people say that we are wandering in Shanghai and are ants. But our generation doesn't even have a chance to drift. Your pain is the happiness we envy.
It took 30 years for society to provide people like us with the opportunity to wander. In 89, our graduation was unprecedented. We are singing about winter. A group of people are crying at the railway station, full of despair, and don't know where the future is. Sometimes, experiences change, which seems to be a turning point.
My place is Zhoukoudian. I can see the site of the ape-man from my window. I have seen this site 2 1 time a year.
Occasionally, when I return to Beijing from Zhoukoudian, the first thing I do is to spend a dollar to buy a sausage and stand on the road to finish it. Compared with you, am I happy or miserable? I moved eight times in Beijing. My child was conceived in the process of moving. I have always kept my distance from the cities outside the Fifth Ring Road. Brother Bai, stop pretending. Can you still afford a house? I can afford a house now. Last time this station was divided into rooms, I came last. I'm sure I can't buy a house with a good orientation. "It doesn't matter, I have to come down!" "This has become the wisdom of CCTV. This is the story of our generation.
1949 born generation. They died of happiness, and in the words of a poet, time began. When they were 12 and 13 years old, it was a natural disaster for three years. When they started school, the Cultural Revolution began. When you want to fall in love, regardless of gender, everyone wears the same clothes, and both men and women should do what they can. When they finally settled down at the age of 27 or 28 and wanted to get married and have children, they suddenly resumed the college entrance examination. Some returned to the city, some took the college entrance examination, and their fate changed from then on. Finally, when I was in my thirties and wanted more, I had family planning. When they began to enjoy family happiness, they were laid off and college students could not find jobs. Are you happier than this generation?
Further up, Ji Xianlin, Ji Lao went to Germany to study, but he didn't know to catch up with World War II. I have been in Germany for 10 years, and I can't come back if I want to. Compared with this generation, you don't realize the distance between the two countries.
No generation of young people is relaxed. Every generation has its own destiny, grievances, struggles and struggles, and there is nothing to complain about. Thanks to the internet, you can show your grievances and complaints to the world, so the ant tribe and Beipiao were born, which is happiness in pain. Society should care about you, not spoil you. Adolescents should understand that there is no pie in the sky, and if it does, it is also a discus.
2 1 year-old, we walked out of the swamp of youth. This poem is beautiful when I recall it, romantic when I recall my youth, but cruel when I experience it. Youth is cruel. Many times in your life, you are in adolescence for the first time. You must make a choice. Don't think that every generation says that youth is good, you have an illusion. I often feel the pain and struggle of my adolescence. When we were internship, the collective slogan was, pretend to be a grandson. Our generation is more difficult than you and more difficult than you. At that time, we will draw water and mop the floor, but you don't have to. There are drinking fountains and cleaners. Since youth is not easy, face it. This is what it feels like to be an experienced person, some useful and some useless.
The first quality is not your talent, but whether you have a strong heart. Leaving the campus and going forward will be a great blow and the psychological quality will be useless. If you want to mix in this society in the future, it will not work. Not only in China, but also in the United States.
When I recruit people, I often observe the psychological quality of this person; Like a boxer. The important thing is that you can't be defeated by others. I saw many young people degenerate in the initial praise. Unreliable praise will ruin people even more. Tolerate criticism and be wary of praise.
Second, 17 years ago, Long Yongtu entered the GATT for negotiations. He asked me what negotiations meant. Just like you, he is fighting with his opponent. He said, no, negotiation is the art of compromise. I didn't understand this until I was 40 years old. Any unilateral negotiation is not negotiation, but war and aggression. People negotiate with their ideals, careers, partners and life, and never win unilaterally. Only compromise between the two sides can win. How can I completely let life go in the direction I want? This is not a negotiation, this is the battle of your life. The same is true of love and marriage. Divorce must be one party's intransigence or both parties' intransigence. At the critical moment, if you can hold back the words that hurt people, it will be legendary. The same is true of playing football. I play twice a week now, and one third of my teammates are from the national team. Don't forget, I'm over forty. Learn to play football in the way of 40 years old. I've been through all kinds of injuries. Still playing in his twenties. It was violent, and I wanted to win, but now I know I have to compromise.
Third, what is the truth of life? Simple. Today, July 5th, the graduates of Zheng Da University left the school. The most important thing is to accept the dull days when we move from university campus to society and life. Life is 5% happiness, 5% pain, and the rest is dull. That 5% happiness, like the meat on the fork of iron pliers, attracted us to finish the whole race. I hold the moon in front of thousands of people, but no, I am waiting for you, because I may not want to come.
Journalism is an industry in which the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop. There is no guarantee of what will happen in the future. Plans don't change as fast as the telephone. But more often it is dull. A middle-aged couple stayed at home, watching TV all the time, while his wife knitted a sweater, then washed her feet and went to bed. What do you think of this life? Leave at once. The most romantic thing I ever thought was to grow old with you. Fireworks are beautiful because they are set off once a year. If they are shown every day, you will sue me.
When I was a reporter editor in the United States, I first followed the car and left for several years. Do you accept it? Accept the dullness of life in advance.
Fourth, you are not afraid of losing if you want to win. Everyone wants to win, but have you ever thought that you are really not afraid of losing? Not afraid of losing is the real key. The funniest thing is that you can win only if you are not afraid of losing. Every athlete wants to win, but it is too difficult to be afraid of losing. Think of the worst result and do it, and often things are done. The same is true at school. Dare you be creative? Dare to accept the incomprehension and ridicule around you? Then do it. A man's ultimate judge is himself. In my life, many people live in the eyes of others. Always trying to please others, there is no need, everyone can't play the role that others have played for a long time. Still have to work hard to be yourself. Some words seem very sensitive, but we still have to say them, such as freedom and democracy. I never complain, because complaining is useless. In China's mind, he is bound, not free. Can you liberate yourself? It is good enough to liberate yourself. A college student should be the promoter of the train of the times. But not everyone walks behind and pushes, and some people stand in front. The most irritating thing is that there are people sitting on the roof. No matter where you push it, she is a vested interest. China will definitely move towards democracy. Can we listen to other people's different opinions, even harsh voices? Don't be a big liberal on the internet, but a tyrant in life. Democracy begins in every dormitory. Your generation must start from itself and build the foundation of freedom and democracy. Well, in an hour, I'll be done.
Someone once asked, what is the book that has the greatest influence on you? I said Xinhua dictionary. After dinner, you only praise the salt, and the vinegar is gone. It's a place where you find yourself instead of reading others. There are too many books that have influenced me to comment on them one by one.
For me, four years of college is the most important four years to become me today. The children who just entered school are all the same, but they will be different after four years. Friendship has no impurities, first; Witnessed your feelings with this country, second place; Learned reverse thinking; Learned how to look at yourself from the perspective of news; Learned how to learn. I am a college graduate and an undergraduate. I just want to know how far an undergraduate can go.
In today's media environment, there are too few valuable comments and voices on the Internet. The predecessor of democracy is disorder. At the age of 40, I defended common sense, established rationality and sought rationality.
China's college entrance examination is full of mistakes, but it is the fairest at present. College entrance examination reform is not your direction. China's college entrance examination must bid farewell to a piece of paper. In order to recruit students independently, you must trust it and be fair. The future of college entrance examination is not unification, but diversification.
You have the right not to watch the news broadcast, but you have no right to kill it.
Face it and experience it. Don't make trouble if you have nothing to do, and don't be afraid if you have something to do.
You define success yourself. I am never happy. This is fate. Someone always tells me, oh, it's hard work; I said, no, it's hard. Any career is a tool, not a song or a program, but an attitude.
Only those who occasionally feel inferior can succeed. When a thing is given to you, if you are not so confident and have a little inferiority, you will make 120% efforts and you will certainly do it well.