I haven't visited the old man at the foot of Nanshan for a long time. On this day, I saw the weather was fine and walked to the foot of Nanshan. On the way to Nanshan, I was in a good mood and couldn't help humming a little song. Suddenly, a pine cone fell from an old tree and hit me hard on the head. I was so angry that I picked it up and threw it far away. Impartial, this pine cone actually fell in front of the old man in Nanshan. The old man couldn't help laughing when he saw it. He said, to be a man, you should know how to control your anger. After listening to the old man's words, I couldn't help hanging my head in shame. The old man patted me on the shoulder and went on to say that if a person wants to get ahead, he should not stay with these four things for too long. The first one is related to anger control.

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The first thing: rage.

The old man in Nanshan said that there is a cloud in the Tao Te Ching: the way to trade is easy to fold. You have to be feminine to cross the world. The weak are like water, and the good are like water. In fact, this sentence tells us that to be a man, we must pay attention to our emotions. In a rage, one can easily lose control. In case he meets a tougher opponent, then what awaits us can only be a lose-lose situation. People in the world of mortals will inevitably want to achieve something, but if they want to achieve their goal of getting ahead, they must know how to control anger and know how to be soft-hearted. Don't be too straightforward, or you will easily offend people, be jealous, be framed, and end up in a humiliating situation. Is this the so-called? Things that are too rigid fold easily? The truth. So, to be a man, to get ahead, what? Anger? Emotion, don't stay too long.

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The second thing: the earth.

The old man in Nanshan said that the ancients warned us that if a strong beam never dies, the militants will have enemies. What does this sentence mean? This sentence tells us, be a man, don't be too self-righteous and don't bully people everywhere. It is ridiculous that a person wants to get ahead, but wants to realize his life dream through his rudeness. Yes, if a person is too powerful, he thinks he can rely on his own earth everywhere. Sword the world? That's all wet. Around us, we often see people who like to throw their weight around and do evil, and the final outcome is often tragic. This is because they are too tough and bring themselves unexpected troubles and disasters. So, to be a man, to get ahead, what? Tough? Please don't stay too long.

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The third thing: jealousy.

The old man in Nanshan said that Mr. Huang Daozhou, a famous scholar in the late Ming Dynasty, famously said: Envy is born of greed, not virtue. This sentence means that jealousy comes from greed, not virtue and beauty. It is absolutely impossible for a person to get ahead in a greedy circle. Because in the jealous interest circle, everyone is plotting against me, and I plot against you. It's hard to kick down the ladder after getting some petty profits? Cooperation * * * wins? Yes Without cooperation, it is often difficult to achieve something, let alone get ahead. So, to be a man, to get ahead, what? Jealous? Emotion, don't stay too long.

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The fourth thing: lewd.

The old man in Nanshan said that people often say that there is a knife on the head of the color word? . Yes, the ancients said, With a knife on her head, pomegranate skirt can't escape? Around us, we will find that many people once had a successful career and lived a well-fed life, but after a period of time, these people suddenly lost their reputation, and finally, they were down and out, and even got into trouble. Many of these people are addicted to eroticism because they didn't keep their emotional bottom line after they developed. Finally, they fell into some peach traps, lost their reputation and lost all their money. Such people, because of their lewdness, eventually fell into an emotional swamp, getting farther and farther away from their goal of getting ahead in life. So, to be a man, to get ahead, what? Lascivious? Don't stay long.

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Friends, do you want to get ahead? If a person wants to get ahead, he must have some distinctive qualities, especially when we find that we have the above four things, we must know that these things must not stay for a long time and must be abandoned in time to ensure that we can March correctly on the road to getting ahead. Friends, do you think so? Welcome everyone to leave a message in the comments section. I will encourage you with wonderful comments.