There are several related reasons:
1. "Sharing desire" represents people's social needs and is an essential basic need for human survival. In a society, people need to communicate and share their feelings and ideas, so as to promote the contact between people and make the society more harmonious and stable.
And "sense of dependence" represents excessive dependence and control on others, lacking self-integrity and independence. In this case, people will lose their independence because of fear, thus falling into anxiety, panic and psychological problems.
2. "Sharing desire" shows people's self-worth system and represents people's confidence and respect for themselves. However, the "sense of dependence" exposes people's difficulties in self-cognition and interpersonal communication, which is often manifested as falling into self-doubt or seeking others' approval, which may make people become depressed, helpless or overly worried.
2. "Sharing desire" is a positive emotional demand, which has important value and function in interpersonal communication and social development.
Dependence is an inevitable negative emotional attitude and behavior, but it can also remind people to pay attention to self-independence and integrity, and pay more attention to the establishment and maintenance of self-value system. If we can remain independent while sharing, we can be more successful.
My personal opinion:
I think the sentence "What is shameful is not my desire to share, but my disgusting sense of dependence" is very profound. Sharing desire is a natural need for a person to express himself, communicate with others and establish contact, and it is a positive behavior. But if this desire to share becomes a sense of dependence, it will become unhealthy. Dependence is a negative emotion, which usually comes from inner insecurity or lack of self-confidence. If a person relies on others' praise and recognition to maintain his sense of value, he will fall into an unhealthy psychological state. This state will lead him to constantly seek the attention and recognition of others, rather than really paying attention to his inner needs and real interests.
For example:
On social media, many people also feel happy or unhappy because they rely on other people's likes and comments. This sense of dependence will make people lose the ability to think independently and no longer pay attention to their inner needs and real interests. This state makes people become more and more vain and impetuous, leading to inner emptiness and dissatisfaction.
Conclusion: We should keep a healthy desire to share, instead of turning it into an unhealthy sense of dependence. We should pay attention to our inner needs and interests and explore our potential, instead of relying on others' approval to maintain our sense of value. Only in this way can we truly become our own masters and live a truly fulfilling and satisfying life.