If your body is upright, you will not do what you are told;

If your body is not upright, you will not follow orders."

The words and deeds of parents and teachers can help children form a learning and Internalized template. If you can't do it yourself, but you ask your children to do it, it becomes an empty talk. What kind of person you want your children to be must first be what kind of person you want to be (specifically refers to character, but. It’s not an achievement.) Otherwise, you won’t be convincing, and your children won’t be convinced. You see, you are like this, so what qualifications do you have to ask me? This is also what the ancients said. Rousseau——

“Wherever teachers lack love,

neither character nor wisdom can develop fully or freely.” The famous Soviet educator Suhomlinsky also said Said something like: “Love is education, without love there is no education. "Ask yourself, as a parent, as a teacher, do you love your children? When love is missing, scars are left. Education without emotional investment will turn into dry indoctrination, naked dogma, and rampant The theory often becomes a form of intellectual violence rather than education. Respect the physical and mental development of children, accompany the children's growth characteristics at each stage, start with relationships, love children, and then connect with knowledge and wisdom.