Facing Failure 1
The current rainy season is uncomfortable, which makes my original depressed mood even more irritable, so I lie down on the bed.
My thoughts drifted back to that day. As soon as the class started, Teacher Mao walked into the classroom holding a stack of test papers. The look on his face was not very good, which gave me an ominous premonition. Yesterday's exam was not ideal. The teacher reported the scores on the podium. I felt uneasy. When my name was finally reported, the score I heard made me feel like I had fallen into a biting glacier. I was shaking all day long. . When I came home from school, my mother asked me how many test papers I had taken. I answered truthfully. My mother's face changed, and then she scolded me without mercy. I quickly hid in the room. As soon as I entered the room, tears burst out of my eyes. .
After a while, my mother came in and told me: "Mi Le, my mother didn't mean to say that to you. You are also very sad. As for you, don't be discouraged. If you want to succeed, you must You have to work hard and face failure bravely. Let me tell you a story. Once upon a time, there was a cat with severe leg disease, but it was able to climb a tree. You know how hard it worked. "Times?" I shook my head, and my mother continued: "Nine times!" I suddenly realized, "What kind of perseverance and persistence!" My mother said, "Yes, how can you see a rainbow without going through wind and rain?" /p>
Victory and defeat are common things in military affairs, but if failure comes, I cannot retreat or escape. I must face it actively. Facing Failure 2
When failure comes, please don’t be discouraged, because Mao Zedong said - The idea that everything will always be smooth sailing without going through hardships and twists and making great efforts is just an illusion.
Once, during an English test, I answered all the questions and taught them with confidence, thinking that I would definitely get a good score. However, a few days later, the results came out, but I only scored 89 points. Even the most basic word copying was missing one letter, so I had to go home dejected.
Facing this failure, I felt very depressed. I had been preparing for it for a long time, but in exchange I got that cold score. Why does God do this to me? Did I do something wrong to others? I thought I would definitely get a good score in this exam, but what I didn't expect was that I got below 90 points, alas. A few days later, this incident still haunts me. No matter how much I try to forget it, I still can’t. Every night, this test paper always pops up in my mind, and I don’t dare to imagine what I will do in the future exams. However, I always keep in mind what Mao Zedong said: Failure is the mother of success. I cannot give up because of this failure. Instead, I must work hard again and strive to get a good result next time.
In the face of failure, the weak will only sigh and complain; the strong will sum up experience and learn lessons. Failure once does not mean failure in the future. As long as you learn to face difficulties, you will succeed one day! Facing Failure 3
People who are not strong-willed and easily satisfied can struggle for a while in the face of difficulties, but they will either be satisfied with their existing achievements or succumb to new difficulties and setbacks, unable to persevere to the end. They cannot enjoy the joy of success.
When students from a key high school in a certain city filled in their college entrance examination application choices, the first two choices they filled in were from two famous universities in my country. In his second choice, he filled in the Yangtze River Bridge, which meant that if he failed to get into these two famous universities, he would jump off the Yangtze River Bridge and die in the belly of a fish.
Timid and cowardly people will give up their goals when encountering setbacks and difficulties, and will achieve nothing; people with strong will and firm beliefs dare to face setbacks, challenge difficulties, and will not achieve their goals until they achieve their goals. Don't give up. They turn frustration into motivation to achieve success, realize the value of life, and enjoy real life.
At the artistic performance at the opening ceremony of the Beijing Paralympic Games, Yi moved people to tears by calling "Never Stop Dancing". The lead dancer Xiao Liyue was originally a child studying ballet.
She lost her left leg in the Wenchuan earthquake. Although she suffered tremendous inner pain, she never gave up her pursuit of ballet for a moment and did not want to let her dance dream succumb to a cruel fate. She danced again, proving to the world, to her disabled friends, and to herself: earthquakes can’t break my dreams, but I can still soar if I surpass myself.
"If life has only wind and sunshine but no rain, only happiness but no sorrow, only joy but no pain. Then, such a life is not life at all - at least not a human life "Frustration is inevitable. The key is to turn failure into a stepping stone to success." Only by facing life and setbacks with a smile can you reach the peak of life. Facing Failure 4
Life is like a vast blue sky. Sometimes there is gentle wind and drizzle, and a gentle breeze blows on your face. Sometimes it is windy and rainy, with heavy rain pouring down. Sometimes the sun is shining brightly and the wind is gentle.
Failure is something everyone has had. Babies learn to walk and get up after falling down again and again. Middle-aged people occasionally make mistakes in their workplaces and learn lessons from their mistakes. The elderly are in poor health and they exercise regularly to improve their physical fitness.
There are two types of failure: one is physical failure; the other is spiritual failure. Mental failure is more terrible than physical failure. Substantial failure refers to career, studies, emotions, etc. If you fail, you can start all over again. After falling down a hundred times, you have to stand up one hundred and one times. And spiritual failure refers to psychological quality. Only good psychological quality can withstand the blow of failure. People with poor psychological quality will be helpless after being hit by failure, causing things to develop to an irreversible point. In fact, failure is not a bad thing. After failure, you will understand the crux of the problem and "prescribe the right medicine" so that you will succeed.
Don’t easily say “I failed, give up!” When your faith falls, you may really fail. If you still firmly tell yourself: “I’m okay, I can still hold on." Then you will be surprised to find that things are not as bad as you thought. You have enough strength to overcome the difficulties in front of you and can completely break through the difficulties in front of you. Hemingway said it well: "No one can really defeat you unless you fall first!"
After some people fail, they find out the reasons for their failure, then adjust their mentality and continue to work hard. But some people lose confidence and feel depressed, which is really hopeless. Remember: if the sail falls, you still have the oar. Even if your only sail falls, don't plead to the wind; if the fruit falls, you still have the seeds. Even if all your harvest is lost, don’t pray to the years; if it falls today, there will still be tomorrow. If one hope falls, there will be more hope to fight for...
There is no life in the world Everyone is a genius, and no one is superior to others. In this case, who can have smooth sailing on the road to success? Frustration, pain, regret, and tears are all inevitable. Get up when you fall. I believe we will be able to face failure bravely. Have success every day. Facing Failure 5
Growing up, there are too many things that I have forgotten, but some things are still fresh in my memory and I can’t forget them even if I want to!
That was when I was in the third grade of elementary school...
"Zhang Jiayu, 76 points!"
The teacher's words hit my head like a thunderbolt from the blue. He sadly took the test paper and walked back to his seat. After school, my classmates all happily went home with their test papers, but I still stayed in the classroom glumly, thinking about my mother's harsh criticism. I started to prepare to walk out of the classroom, but I felt that my feet were as heavy as gold and I couldn't move. The leaves on the roadside rustled, as if they were laughing at my failure. Before I knew it, I had arrived at the door of my house, and I entered the door anxiously.
“Son, mommy made your favorite braised pork.
"As soon as I arrived at the door of the house, my mother's voice came. She brought the braised pork from the kitchen. I ate a piece. The braised pork that used to be delicious became tasteless. My mother seemed to know something and asked: "What's wrong with my son? I didn't do well in the exam..." Before my mother could finish speaking, my tears fell down. My mother's face immediately became serious. After a while, she smiled again, stroked my head, and said, "It's okay, son. , just try harder next time, you know? There is a saying that if you don’t experience wind and rain, how can you see a rainbow? So, come on next time! "After listening to my mother's words, I shed tears of emotion again! My mother gave me another piece of braised pork, "Hey, how did the braised pork that was just boring become so delicious? "My mother smiled happily when she saw me gobbling it up...
Everyone will fail sometimes. With my mother's encouragement, as long as you work harder, you will succeed! Facing Failure 6
The sense of responsibility to save lives and heal the wounded struck his heart. He covered the injured seagull with his hands, carefully took it home, bandaged it, and treated its injuries slowly. Okay, but it is not willing to stay in the cage. It always wants to fly, and wants to fly back to the blue sky and the blue sea. He feels that the seagull's ambition is very similar to his previous desire for success and freedom. But it always ended in failure. So, he let go of the seagulls and at the same time let go of his young heart.
Gradually, he discovered that failure was also a gain.
He recalled the past. He just kept walking forward, never wanting to stop and look at the beauty around him, and look back to see if he was going the wrong way. He finally found out his shortcomings and learned his lesson. He no longer pursued illusions. He compiled his experiences into a booklet and wrote many touching stories. He succeeded! The stories he wrote were very popular and sales increased significantly.
A literary awards conference. At the meeting, the reporter asked him expectantly: Why do you think the stories you wrote are so charming? He smiled slightly and said: Actually, my literary talent is not outstanding, but what I write is all about my personal experience. Yes, I have a deep understanding that truth is the most beautiful. At the same time, I discovered that it is not only success that is a gain, but failure is also a gain. If failure is missing in life, it will be a flaw; Failure will make it more colorful.
His answer won warm applause. At this time, he was in his thirties, with a happy smile on his mature and steady face.
In the days that followed, he published a large number of works and became a writer. He was no longer the young man who ran forward blindly. He had an eternal saying - in life. In this interpretation, failure is the best decoration to embellish life. Facing Failure 7
In this competition, I was once again surpassed by Fu Shibin. When I heard the news, I felt sad. I didn’t know whether it was sour or bitter, but I forced a smile and looked disapproving.
In the last class, the teacher asked us to talk about our feelings after the competition. The students expressed their opinions and were not nervous at all. When the teacher asked me to speak, I was so nervous that I couldn't even say a complete sentence. Tears burst out of my eyes, but I tried my best not to cry, but the teacher looked surprised. With a look on her face, she said: "You are such a strong child, I would have burst into tears a long time ago. Can this competition evaluate everything about you? No, why don't you take a look at the unit test in which you topped the list with a score of 96? Why don't you take a look at how much neater your handwriting has been in recent times? ..." The teacher's words calmed me down.
Afterwards, I calmly analyzed the reasons why I did not do well in the exam. On the one hand, I was careless and did not pay attention to the examination questions; on the other hand, I It’s because my writing is sloppy, and some of the words affected the marking of the marking teacher, especially the writing of the composition. Maybe the teacher can’t see clearly; but more importantly, I am too lazy. I haven’t even read a single extracurricular book this semester. The night before the exam, I crammed and read some essays, but to no avail.
I should learn from Fu Shibin's active learning spirit and correct my attitude towards learning, so that my grades can reach a higher level.
It’s not enough to just talk without practicing. I want to start from the next semester, no! Start working hard from now on. Facing Failure 8
I have been the squad leader from the first grade to the present. I have never known what failure is, let alone tasted the taste of failure. Facing failure. However, there was one thing that changed the "feeling" of my childhood.
That incident happened yesterday. The school held an essay competition. I, who have always been called a "composition genius," thought I would get a good score. Unexpectedly, the results came out the next day and I was not on the list.
The moment I learned the news, I felt a heavy blow in my heart. To me, this was a big blow. Starting from the first grade, I was squadron leader, squad leader, and ranked among the best in every exam... All these honors came to me frequently. I was immersed in endless joy all day long, facing failure. I don’t even know what failure feels like. It can be said that this is smooth sailing. However, this time I fell down, tripped over the bumpy road, and was bruised and bruised.
I stared at the table blankly, just to give my eyes something to rest on. I didn’t want anyone to appear in front of me. At this moment, my unsatisfactory tears burst out. It's regret and self-blame. I failed to live up to the expectations of my parents and teachers.
After a few minutes of silence, I pursed my lips and said, "Forget it, let it pass!"
I don't know how I said this at that time . But I know that this has become a fact. There are still many roads ahead for me to walk. This is just a short story in my life journey. But I firmly believe that when you encounter setbacks, you must face them bravely, so that you can face a better tomorrow. Facing Failure 9
An ancient saying goes: The book has its own golden house, and the book has its own beauty like jade. But I don't think so. Books teach me more about the principles of life.
In "The Old Man and the Sea" by American writer Hemingway, I saw a weather-beaten old Cuban fisherman. He fished at sea for 84 consecutive days without catching anything. On the 85th day, he continued to fish and finally caught something. They caught a big marlin, but on the way back, they were attacked by a large group of sharks. The old man Santiago fought hard with the sharks for three days. As a result, when the old man returned to the shore, only one of the big fish was left. The huge fish skeleton collapsed... Although Santiago failed in the fight with the shark that symbolized doom, he did not succumb in the face of misfortune. Although people can be defeated temporarily, the human spirit and will will never be defeated. Unbeatable.
"The Old Man and the Sea" taught me not to give up easily. Indeed, the meaning of success is not enjoyment, but constant pursuit. Even if fate has the upper hand on the chessboard, even if you only have one shot left in the game, you should not surrender but face it with a smile and persist in playing chess with fate. Never give up hope at any time, even if you only have one arm left; never give up on your dreams at any time, even if you are too disabled to walk. Life is like this, you can't give up until the end, maybe the rainbow after the storm will appear at that moment.
"The Old Man and the Sea" taught me to face failure bravely. In the long road of life, failure will inevitably follow closely behind you, but without failure, how can there be any meaning of success? The lessons of failure are the catalyst for success. Because of failure, we cherish success more; a glorious life is intoxicating, but a failed life is not lacking in taste. Raise your head, face failure, walk out of the gray space with fighting spirit, and create a new world.
It is the book that has benefited me a lot, it is the book that has made me think for thousands of years, and it is the book that has given me a calm mind. Facing Failure 10
When I face failure, success is not important, but hard work is important. What Teldor said is absolutely correct. As long as you work hard, you will succeed. The past is like smoke, drifting away without a trace, but there is one thing that still lingers.
It was a final exam for my third grade. I finished writing the exam paper with confidence. When I got home, I stopped reading the book and immersed myself in watching TV and playing on the computer all day long. My mother told me I said: Guiqi, you need to read a book instead of watching TV and playing on the computer all day long! I turned a deaf ear to my mother’s words.
Finally, the midterm exam papers were handed out, and my grades plummeted! When I got home, I threw down my schoolbag and ran to the room and cried. My mother heard the news and ran over and asked me what was wrong. I said sadly: I got 79 in Chinese and 80 in math.
Unexpectedly, my mother was not angry, but said to me earnestly: My child! Failure is not terrible. What is terrible is that if you fail, you will lose confidence and give up on yourself! Everyone fails sometimes, and failure is the mother of success!
I suddenly realized it and thought: That’s right! Failure is the mother of success, how could I forget?
In this way, my mother and I began to explore the reasons for my failure: it was because I didn’t listen carefully in class and was careless, so my grades were a mess! I must make up for my mistakes and avenge my past shame!
Through this incident, I realized a lifelong truth: failure is the mother of success. Facing Failure 11
Aino has always been my favorite class. Today, I still happily go to Aino.
The autumn wind rustles and the autumn mood lingers. In such sunny weather, my mood is naturally very comfortable. But such happy times always passed quickly. In the blink of an eye, something very frustrating happened to me: During class, the teacher divided us into two groups for a math competition. The teacher chose me as the group leader. The competition was very intense, and the results of the two groups were always neck and neck. But at this critical moment, our group made a small mistake, which turned the total score into 20 (our group) to 21. Just like that, our group lost. . I don't know why at this moment, but I feel that the sky outside suddenly becomes gloomy, as if it is raining heavily. I was depressed, sad and in tears.
On the way home, my mother said to me: "Child, don't be sad, this is just a game, and everyone is not perfect, and it is impossible to do everything right. You have to be willing After admitting defeat, look at the other members of your group, who are all playing in the game area, and they are still so happy. Look at you, with a sullen expression and doing nothing. Are you feeling even more unhappy? Didn't you find it for yourself? You must face failure bravely, adjust your mentality, and face life happily." After listening to my mother's words, I gradually calmed down and returned to my original state. Happy look. Just like my mother said, I want to face life happily. Facing Failure 12
Facing failure is inevitable in life. Because of failure, some people gave up and continued to move forward and continued to lose. As long as we are brave, we will see another sky. Facing failure bravely, there is still a bright future ahead.
Failure is the mother of success. Without failure, how can we talk about success? Standing in the face of failure, how do we face it? Napoleon, the great inspirational success master of the 20th century. Among the 17 rules Hill summarized, one is to laugh at setbacks. It can be seen that failure is common. The key lies in how we face failure, which is to face failure with a smile. This successful master also once This advice says, "The wheel of fortune is constantly spinning. If it brings us sorrow today, it will bring us joy tomorrow." This is the great role of "laughter". If you want to succeed, smile to Fail!
When life is as light and smooth as a song, it is easy to keep a smile on your face; only those who can still smile when everything is going wrong will live a valuable life. Chen Jingrun’s story is about Ha Huxiao, a famous math genius who scored 0 on the elementary school math test, but he was able to solve world-famous problems with “1 2”. However, who knows what he went through on the road to becoming a genius? Countless academic failures. Deng Jiaxian created the emergence of the atomic bomb and became the founder of the "two bombs". Every failure of his was a gamble with his life. However, he was still fearless in the face of danger, faced failure with a smile, and eventually succeeded.
Failure is a must for youth. Failure is a must for life. There are various forms of failure. Laugh at failure and let the lessons of each failure be unforgettable. Laugh at failure and let us have success. Think rationally and laugh at failure so that past mistakes will not be repeated in today's films. Laugh at failure and success will be in the next second.
Go on with strength, be braver and braver, face failure bravely, turn around and you will see the sunshine. Facing Failure 13
It was late at night, and the moonlight penetrated the window and spread all over the floor. I sat alone in front of my desk, letting my tears wet the test paper with pitiful scores.
I failed the math test again. When I didn't do well in the exam last time, I vowed to my parents that I would definitely do well in the exam this time. The result is still the same, without any progress. I don’t think I can even go to see my parents with this test paper.
The next day, I got up very early, holding this test paper marked with red crosses, and was thinking about how to explain it to my parents. Suddenly, the door opened with a "squeak" . It was mom who came in. I quickly hid the test paper behind my back. She asked: "How did you do in this exam?" I lowered my head, bit my lip, and said nothing. Mom looked at my red and swollen eyes, and then remembered my actions just now, and she understood instantly. She did not rush to ask me for the test paper, but touched my head and said: "Failure is the mother of success. I did not ask you to do well in the exam all at once. Analyze the reasons for this failure carefully and work hard next time." I will definitely do well in the exam!" As soon as I finished speaking, I burst into tears again.
After that, I analyzed this test paper, learned from the experience of failure, and prepared for the next test. Yes, failure is the mother of success. If you fail officially, you will succeed! Facing Failure 14
Optimism is like the line of egrets rising straight into the sky. Optimism is like the thousands of white sails on the side of the sunken boat. Optimism is like the luxuriant grass blowing in the wind at the head of Parrot Island. Optimism is The little bits of red that turn into spring mud protect the flowers. We must learn to be optimistic.
In a Greater China Cup competition, I entered the semi-finals. I have to give a speech in the semi-finals, but I usually like to speak quietly. A low voice when speaking is a flaw. The teacher said to me: "If your voice is lower than others, you may not be selected." I knew that the teacher was trying to prepare me mentally. I also often wonder if I can make it to the finals. After the rematch, I stopped thinking about whether I could pass this level all the time. Finally, the results were announced. I didn't make it to the finals. I was in math class at this time and felt my face was wet. I touched it and it was tears. My nose was sore and I was holding back tears. However, the tears kept flowing out and could not be suppressed. I pretended to be holding a book down there and secretly wiped away my tears. I said to myself: I can’t cry anymore. Does it work? I still kept crying, and I wiped it for the second and third time. Eventually the teacher discovered it.
The teacher called me to his side and said to me: "Don't cry. You tried your best before the exam and left no regrets. Why cry? And the Greater China Cup test this time is Say, you are not as good as others. In this case, you can choose mathematics. You are good at mathematics and Chinese. Mathematics will always shine, so why worry about not having another chance? ?”
I was greatly encouraged and the tears on my face stopped abruptly. Yes, it is gold that always shines, and it is soil that always nourishes all things. I must learn to face failure and learn to be optimistic. Facing Failure 15
It was a stormy night. I was walking alone in a dark alley, holding an umbrella and holding a tear-soaked exam paper in my hand. The monologue of my soul could not help but be released. .
This was a failed exam. In the cram school, the teacher announced the exam results. I was restless, as if aware of the reality that was about to happen.
"Zheng Hanzhi!" I only heard the teacher calling my name, "75 points!" As the score came, my heart twisted and ruthless tears burst into my eyes. Out of a competitive mentality, I began to blame myself and regret. Leading me into the abyss of sadness...
The road home suddenly became extremely long. With great difficulty, I finally reached home with heavy steps, but what greeted me was the blame from my parents! Finally, I survived my father's "spewing attacks", locked the door by myself, and stayed in the room, looking so sad. Then I looked at the stack of certificates in the cabinet, and cold tears fell down again.
The rain started again, and I could no longer restrain my mood. I ran out of the house and came to the community to yell. Maybe the rain would understand my voice. After a burst of screaming, my heart calmed down and I began to think rationally. After all, everyone's ridicule and sarcasm just fell on deaf ears. Summarizing failures, gaining experience, and facing life with a smile are the eternal winners. I returned home, took a shower, lay on the bed and faced the exam paper, and gradually fell into deep thought. After all, I knew that one failure did not mean anything; after all, I knew that failure was the mother of success; after all, I knew that there is no victorious general in the world, but This indelible shadow of failure dealt a heavy blow to my young heart, as if I could never escape the fate of failure. Failure is not terrible, what is truly terrible is facing failure in the wrong way.
After all, as Edison once said, "Success is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration." This is the true meaning of life in the face of ultimate failure.