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First of all: the original intention of entering marriage is different.

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Some people say that "in marriage, money can cure all affectation". Do you agree with this sentence? Why?

First of all: the original intention of entering marriage is different.

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Some people say that "in marriage, money can cure all affectation". Do you agree with this sentence? Why?

First of all: the original intention of entering marriage is different.

If it is for family and marriage, it is not true that money can cure all coquettish things.

If it is forced marriage for parents, then money can cure all coquettish, which may or may not be established.

If you find someone to make do with it, then money can cure all coquettish things, and this may or may not be established.

Secondly: Nothing is omnipotent in this world, and neither is money.

Entering marriage means living at home. Although money plays an important role in life, not all problems can be solved with money.

Once again: if only money is left in a person's eyes, the temporary happiness brought by material things cannot last long.

Can things that can be bought with money include feelings? Not necessarily. True feelings cannot be measured by money.

Finally: I don't agree with the word melodramatic. What is melodramatic? It's just a personal feeling, there is no fixed pattern. As far as I'm concerned, what you're talking about is just giving it to the person you marry for money.

Marriage without love can only talk about money!

I don't agree with this statement. I think in marriage, money only plays an auxiliary role, but it is not a panacea to reconcile the feelings of husband and wife!

In marriage, it is a kind of fate that two people come together. In ordinary life, money really plays a very good role, because the days with money will always be more chic! However, money is only a foil in marriage, not a decisive factor!

In my opinion, in marriage, it is important to understand and care for each other, and everyone should understand the responsibilities and obligations of their position. If both men and women lose their responsibilities and responsibilities in marriage, the family will come to an end, or they will no longer feel warm!

As the saying goes, "poor couples are grateful for a hundred days!" As long as husband and wife can take responsibility for each other, respect and care for each other, understand and help each other, endless difficulties are just a process, and a happy tomorrow will be ushered in. And if husband and wife can't cherish each other, even if they have money, home will be like an ice kiln in everyone's heart, cold and lifeless!

Everyone has a different understanding of marriage. Just like unmarried people, they will be full of fantasies about love. The fantasy of marriage comes from TV dramas or other things. Marriage in TV series is all love, and there is no married life. They can support themselves without making money, but the real marriage is not like this at all. Marriage is different from love. Love just gives each other a perfect impression every day. Everything is faked, but marriage can be faked for a while, but not for a lifetime. What happened?

If I don't tell you about money when I get married, you will think this person is snobbish, especially the girl who wants to have a car and a house before marriage. In the eyes of boys, she is snobbish or too realistic. She thinks she is a bad girl. In fact, only mature girls in marriage want financial support, while naive girls think that only love is enough.

99% of quarrels in marriage are about money. Marriage needs life, daily necessities need money, plus living expenses and children's education funds. If there is a problem of car loan and mortgage, then the family's expenses will be very large. If the monthly salary is not much, then you will think about how to save every day, and sometimes you will fight for a dollar. This is a reality, but not when you really have no money, as those who have been poor together know.

No matter whether we are married or single, we should work hard to make money, because people who eat whole grains are not sick, and nothing is as expensive as seeing a doctor, but a disease will make you lose everything. Work hard if you can, and feel safe if you have money.

I agree or disagree. People's desires rise with the environment. Although money can cure a person's affectation in a short time, it can't achieve a permanent effect. Moreover, many people pretend that they are lofty and don't love money at all while enjoying the money given by the other party. For this kind of person, no matter how much money you give, it seems to her that you are willing, not her own intention, so she won't appreciate you at all and will enjoy this feeling of being above others very much.

In marriage, the emphasis is on reciprocity, rather than the so-called "money can cure all emotions." However, most people who can choose to be cured with money are not true love, but the interests they need. Pure love cannot and should not be mixed with money. If many people can understand this now, their lives will be much happier than now. Money is the foundation of romantic love, but romantic love is not entirely created by money. Nowadays, many people have mixed personal desires and selfishness into feelings that should be pure, which makes the love between two people impure from the beginning, so it is normal that they can't go on later.

Marriage is not a choice to change fate and life, but a contract for two people to stay together and create a better life together. What is needed is the joint efforts of two people, not the futile struggle of one person. How much is the money? How long can you stand the affectation of the other half? Do you spend your whole life making money to support your family just to satisfy the affectation of your other half? Has this married life lost the essential meaning of marriage?

Disagree. Because this sentence is too absolute, money can really cure sitcoms, but it is not everything.

For most marriages, women lose their temper and are dissatisfied with life because men can't make money, so money can definitely cure sitcoms.

For example, a woman has a crush on a bag, but you don't have the money to buy it. She plays a small temper and you think she is melodramatic. She feels too tired to walk, and you can't afford to let her take the bus every day. She's not satisfied that you think she's melodramatic. She eats a lot of fruit every day, which you can't afford. She wants to buy cosmetics and skin care products, and you can't afford to do beauty. It is inevitable that a woman will not have an opinion, and you will think that she is melodramatic.

To put it bluntly, although some women will not be melodramatic even if they can't afford it, with money, these melodramatic things will not exist.

I watched "Love Wars" the other day, and there was a contradiction between men and women. The focus of the contradiction is that the man thinks that the woman is grumpy and melodramatic, and the woman thinks that the man doesn't care about her.

So to put it bluntly, money can't smooth a woman's affectation, because she can't get care.

Give a few examples.

1. One day, when she was going out of the supermarket, the woman wanted to go to the bathroom and came out two minutes later, but she couldn't find a boy. She didn't see the boy's reply until ten minutes after the phone call. The reason turned out to be that she was obsessed with watching turtles. Of course, girls will be melodramatic, because I don't think she can wait two minutes and doesn't care about me at all.

2. When two people go to an amusement park, girls are afraid of heights, and boys just want to play with white water. Girls are also angry.

3, two people go shopping, the girl has a stomachache and says she wants to go back to school, but the man insists on taking her to buy a mobile phone.

Of course, there are many examples of such couples in the program. Boys will feel sentimental and angry because of these behaviors of girls, but these feelings cannot be settled by money. Even if you take her to buy a mobile phone, it won't make people happy.

Finally, it's a pity that they didn't go on in the end.

In short, no matter in marriage or couples, many family ties are caused by lack of money, and money can certainly be cured. But the attention that girls want is basically not simple and can be cured with money.

Don't agree, there are three reasons:

First, rich or even rich marriages can be dissolved for other reasons.

There is no need to delve into this truth, there are too many real people and things to explain. Like the recent emotional entanglement between Show Lo and Grace Chow, both of them are very rich. They have been together for nine years, and they have reached the point of talking about marriage, but in the end they are not married.

Vivian, the goddess of Qiong Yao, officially announced her divorce, ending her eight-year marriage with a real estate husband worth over 100 million yuan.

They all have huge assets, but their love and marriage are not finished.

The questioner may meet the other person who is melodramatic because of lack of money in love or marriage. When she complains about money, it's not necessarily for the money. Maybe you didn't do well and didn't catch her heart. But if the other person is with you just to spend your money, it is not true love.

Second, even when they are poor, there are couples in trouble together.

I saw a couple in the TV program "Please Welcome the Leading Role". When they were poorest, there was only one yuan left in their pockets. My wife really wants to eat a bowl of hometown noodles, five pieces each. They asked the noodle seller to make a bowl of one-yuan noodles. The wife couldn't bear to eat alone, so she let her husband take a few bites. Husband stirred up bowls of noodles and ate them, saying he was not hungry.

Someone asked his wife why she could persist in such a life, and she said that she only saw her husband's ambition. The husband studies memory skills hard and takes his wife with him. In the end, both of them reached the level of international memory masters and finally lived a normal life without food and clothing.

That's true love. Being poor for a while is not terrible. As long as people make progress and work hard, one day they will get out of trouble and gain happiness.

Third, you will be sad if you have no money, and you may not be happy if you have money.

Lack of money and more money are common problems of ordinary families. Even some seemingly wealthy families, who are more demanding, will worry about lack of money.

Lack of money will reduce your desire and live as much as you have money, which will reduce your sadness and make you happy.

Don't indulge yourself, control your consumption desire, and live rationally if you have money through struggle. Entrepreneurs like Li Ka-shing are still diligent, far away from the racket, and their business is prosperous and their families are healthy and safe all their lives.

Don't take money too seriously, and don't forget the true meaning of life for too much money.

Men and women in marriage should respect each other, love each other and move forward hand in hand, but in some families, the relationship between the two sides is unbalanced. The weak side instinctively feels that money can cure all emotions in marriage.

In marriage, usually the man lives outside and the woman lives inside, so there will be a full-time wife. These stay-at-home wives all know that they don't have the ability to make money, or that the money is given by men, which is more or less uncomfortable. If you want to buy some clothes or take a fancy to a certain brand of cosmetics, you will be despised, rejected or defeated depending on the man's face. At this time, women may realize the importance of money. If they have money, they can live a decent life without consulting men, maintain their self-esteem and have more autonomy.

Good point. If parents are sick or encounter any difficulties, it will take a long time to think about how to coax a good man first. If you have a job, a source of income and money, you can handle it easily, confidently and easily.

In marriage, if there is a crisis in feelings, a woman who has no job and no money can only swallow it, because she is helpless and takes care of men's joys and sorrows everywhere. Women are afraid of losing money in men's pockets, afraid of losing men's help, and can only be at the mercy of men. He can do whatever he wants, he can boss around, he can cheat and support, and he can ignore your existence.

If a woman has a job and money, she will have enough self-confidence and clearly judge the road ahead, and she can definitely choose an independent and free life. Because such a woman is no longer afraid of losing a man's money, she is not afraid of losing a man. She can support herself, support her children, be filial in front of her parents, and do what she wants proudly without any restrictions.

Therefore, women in marriage should clearly know their situation in marriage and realize that only when they have money can they win their autonomy. We must constantly change, strive to improve ourselves, make money in a down-to-earth manner, and stay away from all impetuous and sitcoms.

Before answering this question, tell a short story.

I have a good friend, A, who is not well educated, but lucky. The married husband is not only handsome, but also good at making money. He lives in a mansion, drives a luxury car and is a free full-time wife. Most importantly, all the money earned by her husband was given to her, and the economic power of the family was in her hands.

However, she is unhappy every day. She is bored and has nothing to do every day. She also suspects that her husband checks his cell phone, does everything, and often divorces.

If she is allowed to go out to work, she may not even earn 5 thousand yuan, but she is lucky and rich, but she is not happy and doesn't feel particularly great, because everything comes naturally to her.

Another girlfriend, B, whose parents are in poor health, spent a lot of money to see a doctor and owed a lot of foreign debts when she bought a house in the early days. The limited monthly salary of myself and my husband is simply a drop in the bucket. In her mind, if her husband or herself can earn more money, she will be happy in everything she does.

This is the true story around us. "In marriage, money can cure all emotions" really depends on who you agree with.

You have never had enough to eat and drink, and you have never experienced the lowest pain in life, so you have no concept of money, and you think it is the most basic thing. So melodramatic or melodramatic.

You have experienced the pain of having no money, and you have deeply experienced the sadness that a poor person can't understand. That money can cure 90% of the problems in your marriage.

This society is like this. People will never cherish what they have or what they can't get, no matter what it is.

Personal thoughts, for reference only.

First of all, this sentence is too absolute. The word "everything" has made a serious absolute mistake. I believe that in marriage, money can sometimes cure sitcoms, but it is not absolute. If "everything" is changed to "some", "can" or even "most", I agree. Money is everything, and common sense knows that money is not everything.

Secondly, this sentence has the wrong attitude. In marriage, what is melodramatic? When two people get to know each other and love each other, it is not melodramatic, but mutual understanding, mutual understanding and mutual concern. In marriage, there has always been oil, salt, rice, ginger and vinegar tea. Occasionally melodramatic can add interest, and it won't last long. In the end, we will only go our separate ways.

Again, negative energy. This sentence first spreads the negative energy of money, desecrates the sanctity of marriage, plays with and teases the other half of marriage, and is extremely irresponsible to the family, depending on how many people are not together for money and will not abandon their families and children for money.

If you think what I said makes sense, we can communicate together and look forward to spreading positive energy with the first group of friends.

Hello, I disagree with this sentence.

What is money? Money is the general name of all substances, and money can buy any substance.

what is love ? Love is what ta needs.

If money can cure all affectation, which rich man's original match will not want to divorce.

After the material needs are basically met, people need spiritual needs more, so we all know that money is not everything. This is especially true in marriage.

Marriage needs love to protect, not money!

I am Sun Caiqun, a psychological counselor, with 15 years of psychological counseling experience, and I am good at counseling children and adolescents, marriage feelings and parent-child relationship. I will always wait here, and I am willing to face the joys and sorrows of life with you!