Let's talk about the original text "Zhuangzi and Keiko Swim in Haoliang" first, which is helpful for us to better focus on ourselves. The original text of this article is: Zhuangzi and Keiko swim on the Hao Liang. Zhuangzi said:? It is a pleasure for fish to travel leisurely. ? Keiko said: If you are not a fish, you will know the joy of fish. ? Zhuangzi said:? If it's not me, I know I don't know the joy of fish? ? Keiko? I am not a child, but I don't know the child; Zi Gu is not a fish, but he doesn't know the joy of fish. ? Zhuangzi said:? Please follow the book. Confucius? You know fish music? Cloud, ask me now that you know what I know. I know the city. ? From the article, we can see that Zhuangzi said that he knew the fish was happy now, and that he knew it on this bridge, and we all felt a little unreasonable. Keiko is particularly right. You are not a fish. You don't know whether the fish is happy now. Everything is your own subjective guess. This is from a rational point of view. Zhuangzi, on the other hand, is from a perceptual point of view.
then let's talk about what this gives us. First, it must be that we can't judge others at will. We are not others, and we don't know what happened or what others experienced. We can't judge others at will, and we can't speculate others with a bad mind. These are all wrong. There is a catchword on the internet that is particularly good. There is no real empathy in the world? . What we have to do is to know people and not judge them.
finally, don't impose on others what we can't do by ourselves, and subjective speculation is even worse.