Listening is an art. Learn to listen to children, squat down and talk to them, truly and patiently listen to their voices and communicate effectively. "Wherever gold and sincerity reaches, gold and stone open up." Only when they communicate emotionally and stir up excitement in their souls can children open their hearts and regard themselves as their best friends. Perhaps, when we devote more love and patience and master the art of listening, I believe we will be able to enter the hearts of children!
In daily life, to be a qualified parent, you should first learn to listen. Only by learning to listen to children can we enter their hearts.
Listening is the foundation and prerequisite for effective education. Psychological research shows that deep down in the heart, people have a desire for respect from others.
As a parent, you are your child's first teacher. To effectively educate your child, you must respect your child, listen to your child's voice, understand your child's suffering, and know what he is thinking and doing. ?What are they happy about? What are they sad about? What are their successes in their studies? What are their confusions? Is it a method problem? Or a psychological problem? Is it a habit problem or a basic problem? Have a clear mind about these problems. With the understanding, we can prescribe the right medicine to the right target. Whenever you get to know your children, you should put down your parents' airs, be approachable and amiable, increase your parents' affinity, and let your children feel your care and love. But many of our parents are unwilling to listen to their children's talk or nagging. I always think that I am superior and smarter than my children, and there is no need to listen to my children.
? Take yourself and your children as an example. After listening to Teacher Cai's class today, I also reflected on my own education of children. Many times, when children tell me something that makes them happy or sad, they are not very good at calming down and listening. It is true that children's "abnormal" behavior is also a manifestation of the child's growth process. If we handle it well, it will also be conducive to the growth of the child and have a sound personality and a sound heart. Sometimes when my child does something wrong and I can't handle it calmly, he will say to me: "Mom, do you listen to me?" Every time I hear him say it a few times, I feel, He is escaping from his mistakes, so he always educates him more severely and always educates him in the way he thinks is right. Sometimes, when I calm down and listen carefully to him sharing his happiness and sadness, I feel that he is very happy. After listening to today's class, I hope that I will slowly change my habit of not being willing to listen to my children sometimes. In the future, listen more to your children when communicating with them. When you truly know what your child needs, you will make your child more willing to share and listen. Let him feel my respect and care for him. Let him be more willing to tell you his thoughts, wishes, requirements, and confusions, and have heart-to-heart communication with me. I believe it will not only enhance the relationship, but also allow him to develop better.
? Parents and teachers, take action! Learn to listen to your children and enter their world! I believe that children will be more sunny, lively and cute.