55 famous quotes about family traditions, mottos and rules
Every family has family traditions, mottos and rules. If we want to make our family more harmonious, we can take a look at some more homes. Famous family mottos and family rules. Below are 55 famous quotes about family traditions, family mottos, and family rules that I have collected. Welcome to read. For more information, please continue to pay attention to the famous quotes column!
1. Unconditional fraternity: regardless of people, do not bind each other. Give the other person freedom.
2. Elders should be as gray as ashes, gentle and without anger, talk less, not nag, not talk about family members, take the lead in looking out for each other's interests, and take care of the whole family.
3. Be content with what you have, take care of yourself at home, promote family traditions, praise the virtues of your ancestors, and educate your children to know how to appreciate, be grateful, and repay kindness.
4. Don’t meddle in other people’s business, don’t worry too much about your children and grandchildren, don’t interfere in the affairs of your children and grandchildren, let your descendants take charge, and don’t show off your seniority. ?Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings?
5. If there are problems in the family, the elders should feel ashamed. It is because I did not do a good job, had some shortcomings, and did not educate my family well.
6. No matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and disputes occur, the family scandal will not be publicized.
7. Don’t create right and wrong, don’t talk about right and wrong, don’t spread right and wrong, don’t listen to right and wrong, take responsibility for right and wrong, don’t be afraid of right and wrong, and harmonize the family without causing any trouble.
8. Whether a family is prosperous and whether its descendants are prosperous is directly related to whether the elders in the family have good roots and merits. If the elderly are virtuous, their descendants will be prosperous. If the elderly are virtuous, the family will suffer disaster, the family fortune will not be prosperous, and the incense will decline.
9. Elders should do more good deeds and accumulate negative virtues. On the one hand, it can help the family cultivate virtue and absolve them from sin; on the other hand, it can cultivate virtue and take root for the descendants.
10. Elders are like the earth, silently carrying everything, tolerating everything, and cultivating everything. If the elderly have a broad mind, the family blessings will be great.
11. A daughter-in-law is not born to her mother-in-law. If the mother-in-law does not understand the truth, she will show her shortcomings before showing kindness, or use the big one to suppress the small ones, use her temper to control her, and her words will only sow evil causes. How can a mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law have a good relationship?
12. It is the husband's business, but the husband forgets to do it. The wife should not complain, but should conscientiously do the things well; conversely, the husband should do the same. Make up for what the other party cannot do. This is to make up for each other's mistakes.
13. Those who leave virtue behind will prosper; those who leave wealth behind will perish. --Song Dynasty Lin Bu's "Saving Mind Record"
14. The best in the east and the best in the west are not as good as the best at home. --[English] Spurgeon's "Farmer John"
15. Parents are the blessings of a family, rooted in ambition. That is, taking the happiness of the whole family as one's own responsibility and benefiting the whole family.
16. Respect the elders at the top, love the young at the bottom, perfect everything with a grateful heart, and make the family harmonious.
17. Promote the merits of the elderly and ancestors to their children, set an example of filial piety by respecting the elderly, and enlighten future generations by being grateful for the kindness of their ancestors.
18. When a daughter-in-law loves her husband, she must love her parents-in-law. I understand that without my parents-in-law, I would not have my dear husband. I sympathize with my mother-in-law's previous hard work and hard work to raise her son. You can no longer burden your mother-in-law, tell her to do things, or make you resentful of your mother-in-law's words and deeds.
19. Don’t create right and wrong, don’t say right and wrong, don’t preach right and wrong, don’t listen to right and wrong, take responsibility for right and wrong, and don’t be afraid of right and wrong. Harmonize the family and avoid any disputes, otherwise the old man will be missing.
20. Morality is the law of heaven and earth, and duty is the law of individuals. If we violate the laws, people will suffer disaster.
21. Don’t arrange things for the elderly. Let them do whatever they like. However, you should pay more attention to the elderly and always advise them to rest more.
22. If your parents have made mistakes, you don’t blame them, but you also improve what your parents should do. This is called making up for your parents’ mistakes.
Only when children can make up for the mistakes of their parents can they truly be the stars of the family. If you blindly obey, you will inevitably fall into unrighteousness and it will not be considered true filial piety.
23. When our lives come to this family, it is equivalent to having a destiny with the life of this family. Good or bad is your own destiny. When you have pain and troubles, this family is fulfilling you, training you, and fulfilling your own consequences. You must also be grateful and repay your kindness. Never complain that you were born at the wrong time.
24. Regardless of whether your parents are kind or not, ask yourself whether you are filial or not.
25. If you want to fulfill your filial piety, you must start from the three realms of nature, mind and body. You cannot be filial to your nature if your nature is not transformed, you cannot be filial to your heart if your heart is not sincere, and you cannot be filial to your body if your body is not cultivated.
26. To be filial, you should pay attention to your parents' food, clothing, housing and transportation, and support your parents. Filial piety means understanding the hearts of parents. Whatever my parents love, I must love them; Filial piety should make the old man's nature harmonious, keep his face clear of sadness, prevent his temperament from being irritable, entertain his grandchildren with pleasure, and live happily in his old age.
27. Filial piety means filial piety, filial piety in deeds and filial piety in body. Filial piety means respecting the elderly; filial piety means we do our best to provide our parents with material needs; filial piety means we should perfect our own duties and not worry our parents.
28. If the old man can make him feel at ease and happy when he is alive, it is a sign of filial piety. When an old man dies, he can make him die peacefully and smile, which is the end of his filial piety.
29. As a daughter-in-law, you should understand: parents-in-law are a real blessing to the family. Not caring about the elderly, resenting the elderly, and refusing to be filial to the elderly means that you do not want blessings and will have no blessings.
30. If the parents are unfilial, they will sow the seeds. When the children grow up, they will also receive the consequences of the children being unfilial to themselves.
31. After getting married, if a man cannot lead a woman to the right path, be filial to his parents-in-law, be close to his brothers and sisters, and be kind to his children, then even if he is very filial, the elderly will not be at ease. If a woman cannot help her husband become a virtuous person after marriage, she will be filial to her parents-in-law, and the old man will not feel at ease.
32. Don’t be violent, impatient, wordy, and don’t meddle in men’s affairs. You should help your husband without tiring him out.
33. Don’t arrange things for the elderly. Let them do whatever they like. However, you should pay more attention to the elderly and advise them to rest more.
34. Parents are their children’s first teachers, and family is their children’s first school.
35. Whether a child is healthy has a lot to do with the mother, and whether the child has wisdom has a lot to do with the father. Whether the child has good fortune or not depends on whether the parents often act with joy and love.
36. If your children are disobedient and unfilial, you must first ask yourself whether you are also disobedient to the elderly, whether you have done something wrong, whether you do not recognize the merits of your parents, and you do not educate your children well.
37. If a child does not understand, it means the fruit is sour. If the fruit is not sweet, work must be done on the root of the tree.
38. Don’t resent your children, let alone beat or scold them, because the success or failure of your children is also related to the parents’ own moral character. Secondly, you must consider whether your own education methods are inappropriate.
39. You don’t need to control your children too much, it all depends on their moral influence. Understand his personality, help him cut small branches and leave big branches. Don't spoil, don't spoil, don't hit, don't scold. Encourage more and affirm more, criticize less, and don’t use material temptations.
40. To rectify others first, rectify oneself. Parents must first eliminate their temperament, cultivate their nature, and know how to restrain themselves before they can educate their children. No matter whether their children are filial or not, they should ask themselves whether they are kind or not.
41. Children belong to themselves, society, and heaven and earth. If children are not well taught, it will affect their own family if they are small, and it will affect society if they are large. It will also be a debt of gratitude to heaven and earth. To educate children well is a heavy responsibility.
42. One elder in the family is better than ten thousand treasures. Anyone who is an ancestor in the family can be called an elder. As an elder, you must play the role of a family treasure.
43. Elders are the virtuous stars of a family. They should take virtue as the root. Virtue means taking responsibility for the faults of the family and making peace with them.
44. It is the best Feng Shui and the highest Feng Shui for elders to be virtuous.
45. Children are the most precious star of a family, with filial piety as the root.
46. As a child, it is difficult to help your parents with their livelihood when you are young. The most important thing is to make your parents less worried. Not making your parents worry is the greatest repayment of kindness. When you grow up, you should do your best to be filial to your parents physically, mentally, and mentally.
47. As children, you should take it as your responsibility to fulfill your filial piety, be able to inherit the ancestral legacy, carry forward the family tradition, and aspire to be better than your predecessors.
48. Providing material satisfaction to the elderly is an obligation, and it is not considered full filial piety. Filial piety means that you must also complete your own duties, reassure your parents, and not cause trouble to your parents. True filial piety.
49. Filial piety must also be obedient, that is, accepting the instructions of parents and making them happy. Even if your parents are obviously wrong, don't contradict them face to face.
50. A violent man beats or scolds him and is unreasonable. They don't understand where their responsibilities lie, so they dare to act recklessly.
51. Love is the origin and general outline of harmony. It is impossible to build a harmonious family without love.
52. The standard of love: true love is selfless, conscious love has no pretensions (price), fraternity is unconditional, and true love has no prejudice. True love is selfless: respect each other and do not cause trouble to each other.
53. Control: Parents let their children have their own way, find faults in their children, and go against their own temperament. Therefore, the more they control, the worse they get. Because using temper to control children not only fails to control them well, but also arouses their children's tempers, conflicts, and even father and son become enemies. This is all because parents do not understand the truth.
54. "Gang" means not only not hitting or scolding others, but also not answering, retorting and not getting upset when being scolded. If you don't move, if you are scolded, you will not lose your temper (don't lose your temper). Take advantage of prosperity and adversity, be at ease and at ease, and be a man if you do it.
55. A gentleman must be able to tolerate others at home. --"Integration of Ancient and Modern Books? Family Model";