A pig, a sheep and a cow were kept in the same corral by a shepherd. One day, the shepherd took the pig out of the corral, only to hear the pig barking loudly and strongly resisted. The sheep and the cow hated its barking, so they complained, "We are often caught by the shepherd, and we are not yelling like you." Listen to the pig.

It is difficult for people with different positions and different environments to understand each other's feelings. Therefore, we should empathize with others' frustrations, setbacks and pains, understand and care about others with a tolerant heart.

[Story 2]

You are you, I am me, you are not me, I am not you, but you treat me as you, and I treat you as you. In this way, we changed places and think again ...

A couple took a bus to visit the mountain and got off halfway. I heard that the rest of the passengers on the bus didn't go far, so they all died. The woman said, we were lucky to get off the bus in time. The man said, no, it was because we got off the bus and the car stopped, which delayed their trip. Otherwise, I wouldn't have happened to pass the landslide site at any moment ... The essence of empathy is to put myself in others' shoes, that is, to think what others think and understand first. Understanding is indispensable among people, and understanding is an aspect of understanding and also a kind of tolerance. We are all "offended" and "misunderstood" at times, and if we are worried about it, we will have a knot in our heart. If we can deeply understand each other's inner world, we may reach an understanding. Generally speaking, as long as it doesn't involve principled issues, we can all understand. Understanding is a kind of love, a kind of consideration, a kind of tolerance and an understanding!

[Story 3]

My father told me that once he went to the store, the young lady who walked in front pushed open the heavy door and waited until he entered before letting go. My father thanked her, and the lady said, "My father is about the same age as you. I just wish someone would open the door for him at this time." After listening to this, my heart was warm and I had many associations.

But I firmly believe in the laws of nature. "Empathy" is an important law for the existence and development of human society.

Empathy is a basic moral instruction. Throughout the ages, from Confucius' "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" to Matthew's gospel, people from different regions, races, religions and cultures, Saying something to the same effect.

Truth is full of scars. Empathy is the golden rule that human beings have summed up after a long-term game and paid a heavy price. No one is an island, and society is a body of interests. We can't hurt our right hand with our left hand, but we are leaves and fruits in the same tree. Kropotkin proved in "On Mutual Assistance" that only mutually supportive biota can survive. Empathy is the premise of mutual assistance

Story 4

In the past, there was a farmer who worked in the field and felt very hard, especially in the hot summer. Every day when he went to work in the field, he passed a temple and saw a monk sitting in the shade of a big tree in front of the mountain, shaking his banana fan to enjoy the cool. He envied the monk's comfortable life. One day, he told his wife that he wanted to be a monk in the temple. His wife was very clever and had no strong objection. She only said, "Becoming a monk is a big deal, and I won't come back when I go. Usually, I do more housework such as weaving. I will start working in the field with you tomorrow, on the one hand, I will learn some farm work that you haven't done before, and on the other hand, I will finish the important farm work as soon as possible, so that you can go to the temple earlier. They went out together in the morning and returned together in the evening. In order not to delay time, at noon, his wife went home early to make a meal and sent it to Tiantou. They ate it together in the shade of the temple. Time passed quickly, and the main farm work in the field was completed. On an auspicious day, his wife helped him wash and mend the clothes he was wearing, packed a small bag and sent him to the temple in person, and explained his purpose. The monk in the temple was very surprised and said, "The monk in the temple was very surprised." Talking, talking and laughing, loving with kindness. I see that you are living such a happy life, and I am so envious that I have made up my mind to return to the secular world. Instead, you come to be a monk? "

This story not only shows that the farmer's wife is clever and virtuous, but also has a truth of empathy in it. Empathy is a good way for self-learning, that is, dealing with people and considering the problem comprehensively from the other side's standpoint, so that it is more objective and fair to see the problem, which can prevent subjective one-sidedness; It will not be demanding of people, and it is easy to have a tolerant attitude; Take care of yourself and be content.

Story 5

In the football kingdom of Brazil, boys who can't play football will never be liked. There, the children of the rich have their own football fields, and the children of the poor also have the way of playing football. Ball king Bailey was born in a poor family. His father was a football player who was retired due to injury and was poor.

Bailey showed extraordinary football talent since he was a child. He often kicked a "football" specially made for him by his father-stuffed rags and old newspapers with a clumsy sock, then made it into a ball as much as possible, and tied it tightly with a rope outside. Bailey often practiced barefoot in the bumpy street in front of his house with his black back bare. But he still kept sprinting towards the imaginary goal.

Gradually, Bailey became famous, and many people who knew or didn't know him often greeted him and offered him cigarettes. Like all minors, Bailey liked the feeling of "growing up" when smoking.

Finally, one day, when Bailey asked for cigarettes in the street, his father saw him. His father's face was ugly, and Bailey lowered his head. He saw a sadness, despair and anger in his father's eyes.

His father said, "I saw you smoking."

Bailey dared not answer his father and said nothing.

His father said, "Am I wrong?"

Bailey stared at his father's toes and whispered, "No, you didn't."

Father asked, "How long have you been smoking?"

Bailey whispered to himself, "I only smoked a few times, only a few days ago ..."

His father interrupted him and said, "Tell me, is it delicious? I haven't smoked, and I don't know what it smells like. "

Bailey said," I don't know, actually it's not very good. "When Bailey spoke, he suddenly tightened his muscles and put his hand over his face involuntarily, because he saw his father standing in front of him suddenly raise his hand. However, it wasn't Bailey's expected slap, but his father held him in his arms. < p You may become a master, but if you smoke and drink, that's it. Because you won't be able to keep a high level for 9 minutes, it's up to you. "

My father said, opening his shriveled wallet, which contained only a few crumpled banknotes. My father said," If you really want to smoke, you'd better buy it yourself, and always ask others for it. It's too much.

Bailey felt ashamed and ashamed, and his eyes were astringent, but he looked up and saw that his father's face was full of tears ... Later, Bailey never smoked again. With his hard work and hard practice, he finally became the king of the ball.

After many years, Bailey still couldn't forget his father's warm embrace, and he recalled, "My father's warm hug was more than a slap in the face." The fire is too big. Turn the fish over quickly, there is too much oil! "

The wife blurted out, "I know how to cook."

The husband calmly replied, "I just want to let you know how I feel when you are chattering around while I am driving ..."

Story 7

He returned to China after the war and called his parents from San Francisco, "Dad, Mom, I'm going home." I want to bring a friend of mine back. "

" Sure. "Parents replied," You will be very happy to see him. "

" There are some things that must be told to you, "my son continued." He was seriously injured in the battle. He stepped on a mine and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere to go. I hope he can come and live with us. " Maybe we can help him find another place to live. "

" No, I want him to live with us. "The son insisted.

" Son, "the father said," you don't know what you are talking about. Such a disabled person will bring us a heavy burden. We can't let this interfere with our lives. I think you'd better come home quickly and forget about this person. He will find his own way. "

At this time, the son hung up the phone.

The parents never heard from their son again. However, a few days later, they received a call from the San Francisco police station and were told that their son fell from a tall building and died. The police station thought it was suicide.

The grieving parents flew to San Francisco. In the morgue, they were dismayed to find that, Their son has only one arm and one leg.

We are all equal. You can only exchange love with love and trust with trust.

—— Marx

Bows himself and blames others lightly.

—— The Analects of Wei Linggong

When we love others, we also hope others will love us.

Forgive yourself.

—— Augmented Sage

Perhaps the past will make you sad, but as long as you grasp the present well, you can turn the past sadness into a distant memory. —— Lu Yidong

Time is the most precious thing in the world, but it is affordable for everyone. Time is fair to them, whether they are the richest man in the world or beggars on the streets. ——— Lu Let's seize the present and create a bright future. —— Lu Xinya

Time is like running water, which is gone forever. It gives prosperity and beauty to those who seize it, and meanness and helplessness to those who give it up. —— Lu Xinya

Yin Hang wasted it on me respectively. ~-~