1. Confucius once went to Tanzhou and met a man named Cheng Zi on the way. Cheng Zi is a well-read and eloquent man. Confucius was especially happy to see Cheng Zi. "He has been talking all day, and he is very close." . That is to say, both of them were in the car at that time, so the car stopped and the two car covers were tightly stuck together. Two people sat in the car and talked for a long time, very affectionate.

Confucius turned to Luz and said, "Give a bunch of silk to Mr. Cheng Zi!" Lutz is very reluctant. He said to Confucius, "I heard that scholars don't need a matchmaker to introduce them when they get married, and women don't need a matchmaker to introduce them when they get married." Gentlemen don't accept such people because it's a matter of etiquette. "

Lutz thinks this is the first time that Mr. and Cheng Zi met, and no one introduced them and made friends. It's against the rules and even makes me deliver things. Confucius advised Luz: "The Book of Songs says,' There was a beautiful woman with clear and bright beautiful eyes. A brief encounter is just what I want.

2. Confucius once took a student on a trip. Cooking at noon, when the rice was almost cooked, Confucius saw Yan Hui grabbing the rice in the pot with his hands. It happened that Confucius walked into the kitchen and thought he was stealing vegetables, so he taught him a lesson and said, "Meng Lizu told me just now that the food should be eaten by the elders first. How can I eat it myself?"

Hearing this, Yan Hui immediately explained, "The teacher misunderstood me. I saw the coal ash fall into the pot just now, so I picked up the dirty rice grains and ate them. Knowing the truth, Confucius said with emotion, "What I saw with my own eyes is not true, let alone hearsay"?

One day, Confucius came to Zheng and got separated from his disciples. Confucius stood alone at the east gate of Guo Cheng. A man in Zheng saw Confucius and said to Zi Gong, a student of Confucius. "There is a man at the east gate. His forehead, neck and shoulders resemble the birth of his son, but he is three inches shorter than Yu's waist. He looks flustered and listless, like a lost dog. "

When Zi Gong met Confucius, he told the truth. Confucius smiled and said, "He may not describe me correctly. He said I looked like a lost dog. That's right! Exactly! "

Once, Confucius passed by a place called Pu, and he met his uncle who occupied Pu, and his uncle defected from the country. The Pu people detained Confucius because of his blind date with Weiguo.

One of his disciples, Ruligang Gong, was tall, smart and brave. He fought with the Pu people, who were afraid and said to Confucius, "If you swear not to defend your country, we will let you go." Confucius swore at once and made a contract with the Pu people, then let them go out of the city.

Zi Gong said that Confucius went out of the city to defend the country. "Can you break the contract with someone?" Confucius smiled calmly and said, "A contract made under duress does not count before God."

One day, I came to Weiguo and lived in a family named Chi. Gong Ling, the monarch of Wei, had a beautiful woman named Nanzi. She worshipped Confucius and wanted to meet him. She sent someone to Confucius and said, "Gentlemen from all over the world who want to make friends with our monarch will definitely meet our Nanzi wife, and our Nanzi wife also wants to meet you." Confucius declined politely and made some polite remarks, so he had to go with everyone.

Mrs. Nanzi sat in the curtain and waited. Confucius kowtowed and bowed after entering the door, and the beautiful Mrs. Nanzi bowed in her tent. When she acted, the Yu Pei she wore made a tinkling sound, which made the respectful Confucius feel heartbroken.