1. Know how to wait

People who know how to wait have deep endurance and broad mind. Never act too hastily or be swayed by your emotions. He who can control himself can control others. Before you get to the heart of opportunity, take a wander through time. Wise hesitation can make success more reliable and make secrets finally come to fruition.

The crutch of time is more effective than the iron rod of Hercules. God does not punish people with steely hands, but with dragging legs (meaning: it is not that he will not retaliate because the time has not come). As the saying goes; as long as you give me time, I can stand up to two. "(It also means "Stay in the green mountains, don't be afraid of running out of firewood") Destiny gives double rewards to those who wait patiently.

2. Let people understand you

Let people know you better than let people remember you, because intelligence is greater than memory. Sometimes you should remind others about the future, and sometimes you should advise them when the time comes. Do what you should do. Just because they forgot about it.

It is a great gift to give friendly advice and to judge the pros and cons. Once you lack this talent, you will lose many opportunities for success. Let those who are wise in pursuing this kind of wisdom need to be careful when explaining confusion to others, and people who pursue the ability to clarify confusion must also be careful. Be cautious and click on it.

If the person you are referring to is at risk, you must be especially careful when hinting is not enough. The best way is to show your elegant taste and be more open and honest. . If the other person openly says "no", then you have to pursue the "yes" wisely. In most cases, the reason why you don't get something is because you don't pursue those things.

Extended information:

It is the father’s fault if the son does not teach. “The family is the first classroom for minors to receive ideological and moral education, and parents are their children’s first teachers. It is understandable that parents "hope that their children will become dragons" and "hope that their daughters will become phoenixes." However, if children want to become talents, they must first learn to be a good person. If a person has no virtue, he will not go far.

Without good moral character and ideological cultivation, even if you have rich knowledge and profound knowledge, it will be difficult to achieve great success. Parents should be guided to change the tendency of valuing knowledge over virtue, and while caring about their children's academic performance, , pay attention to the ideological and moral education of children and promote their all-round development. Parents' words and deeds are invisible examples in the eyes of their children. They should pay attention to their own good moral cultivation so that their children can grow up in a healthy, warm and harmonious family environment.

Relevant departments and schools at all levels must assume the responsibility of guiding family education. Through parent schools, family guidance centers, home visits and other forms, we should guide parents to establish a correct view of success and master scientific education methods. Be good at communicating with children, respect their independent personality, and learn how to encourage them.

We must pay special attention to the education of minor children from single-parent families, families with difficulties, and families with migrant populations, and include them in school education in all regions without discrimination, and enthusiastically provide them with guidance and help, so as to train all children to be useful to society. person.

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