I understand that this season, another link has been added-"daughter-in-law tea party", so that the four daughters-in-law can speak freely. Upstairs, Patty Hou lamented that her husband is sometimes a "crayfish". This metaphor may be appropriate. It means that when she asks him questions, he is "deaf" and often can't hear; When she was angry, he was "blind" and didn't know she was angry at all, making it clear that he didn't respond. So he became a "little deaf" again, which made Patty Hou laugh and cry.
Thinking of the feeling that a colleague envies others is actually listening, watching and understanding. The two agreed to have an important conversation together and always pay attention to each other's eyes and expressions. This move is very effective. Look into each other's eyes when quarreling, and you won't say anything that makes people regret and hurt each other. Sitting opposite each other when eating, you can talk and laugh, and a smile will infect each other; When you are frustrated at work, seeing your tearful eyes will give you a warm hug. So they have been married for six years, their feelings are getting deeper and deeper, and their understanding of each other is getting deeper and deeper.
Everyone has heard of Liao Yimei's famous saying: "It is not uncommon to meet love and sex in life. Rare is to satisfy understanding. " Moreover, the essence of this understanding is that at the moment when you are alone, no matter how busy your work is or how trivial your family is, you can see each other's joys and sorrows, hear each other's voices and keep each other's eyes in mind.
When Eva Huang first met Yang Zi, his title was indeed chairman, and he was also a nobleman who helped Eva Huang at that time. He paid her a large sum of liquidated damages and transferred her to a company in Andy. Andy, who once had absolute dominance, held the right to speak, made many film and television dramas for himself and Eva Huang, and did not compromise when interviewed by the media. For Eva Huang in his early twenties, such domineering is always admirable. When she was young, she once said, "See the world with Andy's eyes."
Eva Huang, 38, has experienced a lot and has grown a lot. With two sons, she didn't give up her career, and she also had a heart to ride the wind and waves. Andy also gradually changed from "only knowing himself" to "knowing his family". During the performance, we saw Andy and Eva Huang cooking together, although their level was average but their attitude was positive. Playing games at the dinner table also made mom and Eva Huang happy. * * * took responsibility and knew how to respect, which faded the shadow of some overlords.
Life is not a novel, and overlord is only suitable for professional display. If you want to have a long-term relationship, you should change "don't feel, I want to feel" into "I want you to feel". Du Chun, who is newly married in the program, has just begun to interpret the opposite of Ba Zong, being gentle and responsible. When you meet the questions given by the program group, you can sing to coax your wife, you can intercede, and you can be spoiled until your wife is satisfied.
My friend said that Du Chun has changed a lot since she got married, and it hurts to love her family. She got a call from her pregnant wife and rushed back to her brother's house. As Jason Wu said, "Don't let others revolve around you. On the contrary, the other person's loss of self will make him bear more pressure. Life should give the other person what he wants, not what he wants. " Giving the other person what he needs emotionally is "knowing you and knowing you", which is respect, sharing and the right way to a better life.
Draw a line with your mother. Because of love, we hold hands. Think of each other when you are in love. In the absence of "crayfish", they not only know how to be "sensible", but also know how to draw a line with their mothers to love. This also requires you to keep your eyes full of affection, have each other in your hearts, listen, respect, keep boundaries and run a harmonious life after marriage.