1. You have to go through some hardships to understand the world.

Not everyone can fully understand the world. People, only after some hardships, some pain, some bitterness, can understand the warmth and coldness of the world, and can understand the devotion of the world. Only through suffering, setbacks and failures can people mature and understand the world.

2. After some setbacks, you can gain insight.

You can gain insight by paying money. It's okay to experience setbacks. Broaden your horizons, because only when you experience the pain of setbacks and falls can you remember them deeply and sum up your experiences and lessons. There is a saying called Nirvana Rebirth, that is to say, after a great ordeal, an ordinary person suddenly wakes up to life and can stand up again, summon up courage and start all over again.

3, learn to give in a little, you can get a point cheaper

Some people will be aggressive to others if they want to take advantage of it, and they will retreat, thinking that they can take advantage of it. Actually, it is not. People who can really take advantage of others can back down, because the more you back down, the more strength you can accumulate, and others will not argue with you when they see you back down. You just need to step back, stay still, and you can get what you want with a single soldier. Why not?

4. Enjoy a little, and you will be less guilty.

People are born to suffer. If you lie in bed and dream sweet dreams every day, someone will suffer for you. Behind every quiet year, there are people who help you move forward. People who just eat and sleep are parasites, and your enjoyment is based on the suffering of your loved ones. Such enjoyment will not be reassuring, and it is still a sin.

5. Only with a little consideration can we know a thing.

Care between people is mutual. If you are kind to others, others will be very kind to you. If you don't know how to care about others and patronize yourself, and others can't get warmth, care and sympathy from you, then there will be no intimate friends around you.