1. Confucius said: "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up."

2. Confucius said: "Don't look at anything that's not propriety, don't listen to anything that's not propriety, don't speak anything that's not propriety, don't move anything that's not propriety." . ”

3. Confucius said: “Being respectful but disrespectful will lead to fatigue, being cautious but disrespectful will lead to chaos, being brave but disrespectful will lead to chaos.”

4. Confucius said: "The ancients could not say what they said, and they could not be ashamed of themselves."

5. Confucius said: "Don't do to others what you do not want others to do to you."

6. Confucius said: "A gentleman should be respectful when he lives, be respectful in his work, and be loyal to others."

7. Confucius said: "A gentleman is knowledgeable in literature, and if he makes an appointment with etiquette, he can also be with you!"

8. Confucius said: "A gentleman is reserved and does not fight, and he is a group but does not party." They are all brothers."

10. Confucius said: "A gentleman takes righteousness as a pledge and practices it as a courtesy. >11. Confucius said: "If one does not uphold virtue and does not believe deeply, how can one achieve anything or how can one perish?"

12. Confucius said: "Those who are virtuous must cultivate words, and those who have words must educate them." There is no need to cultivate virtue. "

13. Confucius said: "Restraining oneself and restoring propriety is benevolence. How can the world be benevolent by oneself and not by others?"

14. Confucius said: "The purpose of etiquette is harmony."

15. Confucius said: "If you can talk to someone but don't talk to them, you will lose people; if you can't talk to them and you can't talk to them, you will lose people." , gaffe.

Those who know will not lose anyone, nor will they lose