1. Don’t criticize others in small talk.

2. Without honesty, there is no dignity.

3. Be generous to oneself but not responsible to others.

4. Integrity is the foundation of people. Lu Xun

5. Be strict with yourself and be lenient towards others.

6. Blame yourself and blame yourself.

7. Sincerity is an openness of the soul.

8. If you know your mistakes and can correct them, there is no greater good.

9. If the shape is wrong, the shadow will be curved, and if the shape is straight, the shadow will be correct.

10. Those who talk about right and wrong are right and wrong.

11. It is easy to blame others with words, but it is difficult to uphold oneself with justice.

12. When there is no time, you should never think about the time.

13. Be proactive and deal with problems with a proactive attitude.

14. Be generous to others and make promises to yourself; be generous to yourself and generous to others.

15. When upholding oneself, one should seek to have no faults even though there are no faults; when treating others, one should strive to have no faults despite having faults.

16. It is advisable to take a broad view of the long-term scenery, and do not worry about gains and losses, regardless of immediate interests.

17. Noble people always insist on self-respect and self-love and avoid improper behavior.

18. Require yourself to be as severe as the autumn wind and treat others as warm as spring.

19. If you discipline yourself, you will have fewer mistakes, and if you discipline others, you will have less cooperation. ——Lin Bu, a reclusive poet of the Northern Song Dynasty, is strict with himself

20. Noble people always have strict demands on themselves in small things, but they do not use small things to demand others.

21. People who make trouble openly often stare at others, while people who think deeply about worries can restrain themselves.

22. If you indulge your emotions and violate objective laws, you will not gain anything no matter how much work you put in.

23. It doesn’t matter how others evaluate yourself. The most important thing is to see what your shortcomings are.

24. What is wrong is something that a sage cannot do without. If you think you have no faults, your faults will be great; if you think you have faults, your faults will be few.

25. If you can be respectful and thoughtful, and often check your own mistakes, you will continue to make progress, which will eventually be useful.